Originally Posted by tony404

You know I respect you Jman but in this one I feel differently.If she moved on she wouldnt be living in his house. Also Mark was his friend. This wasnt some stranger off the street and what did this friend do with this trust, he kept fucking her even after his friend was in pain.Didnt say Belinda you leave him move out and then we will carry on. You think she is a innocent why because she told you lol. Donnys problem was the first time she cheated on him , he bought her a car . Where he should of thrown her out because the moment he forgave her ,he was a less than in her eyes. Now I must really feel strongly about this because Im really not fond of Donny from his behavior on the boards but I understand because had my heart crushed before and until you have gone thru that its easy to make snap judgements .

Originally Posted by Belinda

Lets get something straight. I DID NOT fuck spannow, i did not go to sac to fuck him. That has been the in past for months. I have only cheated on donny once in our relationship and tht was like 2 months into and it was with the guy i was seeing before donny, doesn't make it right but donny did forget to mention that later on he sent me back to the guys house so he could have sex with me cause it turned donny on.

People say and do hurtful things when they are hurting which is what the case was last night between Donny and I. He was hurting as were I and that clouded judgment. In the 6 years donny and I have been together, all of them were great except the last year. Many people are to blame for that including myself and I will take respponsibilty for that.

Now lets all just move on and enjoy the holidays, huh.!