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Originally Posted by scottybuzz
shes a faggot, i wanna meet another girl.
couldnt meet her over xmas because where i work needed me over time coz pre-christmas was very very busy. so i had to work.
get this right, few days ago she was all up for it. spoke to her tonight and no enthusiasm. fuck sake. usually shes so happy. i actully have a free day tomorrow i got about 3 joints worth of weed to smoke with her and she just fucked off. cunt. im moving on to a new girl, got a new years party soon, ill try and pull there.
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If you want to meet with her first of all you need to give her an explicit date and time and location. Do not just say... we'll do something soon.. bla bla bla , you're losing your time.
Meet her ASAP. The longer you'll way, the more awkward it will be for you when you will meet and you'll probably be more shy.
Also you'll know after you met her if something will happen or not. Do not loose your time. You could be meeting other, more interesting girls as we speak.
Second you said you really liked her... and it seems that you think she is special or something. Surprise: she is not. She's just a regular girl and she's probably farting as we speak.
You are better than her. Grow your balls. You need to lead. You need to be sure of yourself. Be a MAN. If you're not, fake it. It will come with time.
Now if you are shy, do not get drunk, it's a bad idea. If you have drinks, have 1 to 3 drinks MAX.
You should practice your social skills. Have some of your friends introduce you to people they know. Learn how to be interesting, how to tell stories and make people laugh. Just go hang out and talk to strangers(not in a creepy way). If you can't do that then you can start by joining group activities and meet people there.
You can practice with another girl first, even start with fatties or uglies if that makes you more comfortable.
Also you need to fuck girls.