I know e-mails can be used, Especially in divorce cases....but you have made it clear this is no divorce..
Sometimes the evidence wont stand up if it wasn't legaly obtained.
If the other party in your case illegaly obtained the IM's in question (no warrent / password hack) then any lawyer 2 days out of lawschool can get them thrown out.
Unless you were doing something really really really bad, I wouldn't worry to much.
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