04-08-2009, 04:23 AM
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Originally Posted by Libertine
Actually, here's what you should have done.
First, establish yourself as someone who shares most of her values. Imply that you value women's rights, gay rights, etc. With that out of the way, it's impossible for her to simply label you a "backwards pig" as dismiss you.
Second, create the image of a liberal, intellectual, sharp-witted "bad boy". Defend ridiculously indefensible positions, make inappropriate sexual suggestions which clearly aren't serious, every once in a while unexpectedly turn serious... basically, be entertaining, mysterious and funny.
When you're with girls who are passionate about politics and such, changing the subject away to "simple" humor doesn't work. Use political humor instead. Don't avoid problematic issues, but instead embrace them as an opportunity to show off your wit.
Essentially, try and be a bit like an Oscar Wilde character.
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Excellent points,
I sucked yesterday, I confess !
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