I have lost nearly 100lbs now but I am still fat and have a lot more yet to go. My weight also has turned out to have had a lot to do with a medical condition and it is taking a long time to drop but I am still doing it.
Even at my heaviest I never asked for sympathy. However, I do think it is possible to not hold disdain for people at the same time as not treating them as victims.
I have a very healthy diet these days and have been eating in such a way for over two years now. I will admit that as time has gone on I do look more at what other people eat and wonder how they eat it. That goes for thin and fat.
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