aww, I think u have made good choices.
Life isn't easy as it is, being that young and having a little baby on top of everything, has got to be insane! I waited to have kids and started at 33, it was tough even for my age. I can understand her wanting him to quit the pot, it's easy to get forgetful while smoking it, like derailing. They both need someone they can talk to and work thing's out, learning to control stress and anger.
Then if that works out, let's just hope they can live with each other "normal" faults. That's really what it comes down to. Kudos to you for being the understanding father.
It can't be easy for them and helping them have some alone time without baby once in awhile, could do wonders for them. I hope all goes great!
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