Originally Posted by eroticsexxx

The anti-marriage crew is often comprised of wimps, whiners, and persons who can't commit to anything long term.

Now if that doesn't apply to you, then fine. If it does, then feel free to be insulted.

Seriously though, there is much to be said about choosing correctly when it comes to a wife. Just because one guy makes the mistake of choosing incorrectly doesn't mean that marriage on the whole is doomed.

Also, anyone who believes that the only way to control a woman is to make her feel that she can be replaced at will has got a lot to learn about the female gender. A man who is straightforward about what he wants from a woman, without deception in any shape or form and who can maintain a sense of honor regarding his commitment to her should not have very many problems, unless he is deficient in some area.

Yes, women do have their own way of thinking, but obviously there are a few "men" in this thread who haven't figured out how easy it is to be a man and stop any negative behavioral traits before they become a habit. People in general tend to push others to see exactly what they can get away with. This includes women. Deal with it or stop playing the game, but don't whine about it.

Quite frankly, even if the shit breaks down for some unforeseen reason, then what's the big deal? Are we men or mice? Too many "men" take shit personally nowadays, when we used to just shrug things off and trudge on in decades past.

And yes, I'm married. Didn't do so until I was 32 and was damn sure that it had a good chance of succeeding. Even so, nothing in life is certain, but I've prepared as best I can, just in case.