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If he REPEATEDLY hit on your niece and she kept telling him to fuck off, yes I probably would, though I'd consider doing something more along the lines of notifying authorities or something vs. some vengeance type shit. If it was a one-time thing, she told him to fuck off and he did, then no. Why? Because if he's not your problem beyond that one thing he did once, then there's no sense in prying into his/his wife life. His wife's in a shitty situation...you telling her about what he's doing doesn't really make it any better...only now she's taken the red pill and knows the reality of what she's living with. A whole lot of people are perfectly fine living in a fake happiness than a real misery. MAYBE in the long run it will help her life but you really don't know that...in the short run it'll likely upset her and it'll definitely upset him. It's nice to play god and all that, but it's just not worth it. I mean what if the guy is a bit more psycho than you know and upon knowing that you've been spying on his life, tell his wife stuff etc. decides he doesn't really like you very much and wants to fuck you up? Do you REALLY want to deal with that? Again, if he was ALREADY an ONGOING problem in your life, perhaps it'd be worth considering but otherwise, no way.

One of my ex gfs had an ex who was a real "class act"...aka lying sack of shit charmer type, basically goes from woman to woman lying his way into their lives and hearts, lives/mooches off of them, things end up blowing up at some point (lies are found out or his real abusive side comes out or whatever) and he then moves on...moves somewhere else, targets someone else, etc. She is exactly like you in that she is snoop master and can't lay off his profiles. She finds that he's using a fake name on MySpace and is onto another girl, a young naive girl who's head over heels for him etc. She must have pondered half a dozen times whether or not to tell this girl about the real him. Each and every time I talked sense into her, because he had been constantly stalking my ex long after they were separated, including while she and I were together, and doing shit like call/hang up, emailing/IMing her, etc. numerous times after she constantly had said she wants him completely gone from her life and I believe even threatening her at some points. My point to her was that the girl is in too deep as it is and helping her out of it isn't going to improve her life immediately, while it may in fact cause havoc on my ex's life if this douche then were to come after her.

Long story short, the girl ended up finding out eventually anyways about the lies of this guy and left him. Voilah, problem solved itself. Some people aren't so lucky, but then again who are you to pry into their lives and help them live it, plus possibly cause shit in your own if the guy turns out to be the unstable vengeful type? Not only that, but the amount of time my ex spent snooping, she could have been making money or something something else that would have been a better use of her time to improve her life. Then again I play too many games and shit so I'm not one to speak, lol.

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