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thanks for the pics. i am guessing you didn't find her at nana? could I ask where?
now back to your original question.
idiot is actually a reference to specific IQ scores, just as genius an gifted are at the other end of the scale. a person can't do a great deal to raise their IQ, but I believe your question really isn't about IQ, but rather being weird or making poor decisions.
and yes, most behaviors that a person realizes they have, and don't want to have anymore can be modified.
I would say study the behavior that you want to change. give it thought in the mornings and evenings. review in your mind if you said and did the things you wanted to or how you could do it differently if you could do it over again.
study what other people do or say that you think is better. trying to be an exact copy of someone doesn't work, but you can certainly change to what you'd like to be within reason.
thought, study, and practice is all. oh, and no excuses, like "I'm an idiot, so it's ok for me to get away doing dumb stuff".
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