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Originally Posted by PR_Tom
I can see a bit of myself in that answer of "just tell me what to do so I can do it", but at that point I've usually thrown up my mental hands anyway. I'm the type that likes to resolve a problem if there is an argument, and if there is an argument there'd better be a real problem that needs resolving.
I would say again though that chances are he just likes playing the damn thing, and I say that because it's not as if something has to be wrong with you if he's spending time on something else. Motive is important I think in being able to live with crap we wouldnt choose.
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I seriously cannot believe this thread is still going.
I do not have any concerns that he prefers the game over me... honestly. My concerns are that he can't seem to balance it with other things. Like, he'll say he's going to play until midnight (because he has to work the next morning) and then play until 4AM. The lack of control is my worry. I know he's aware that kids need to get fed and trash needs to get taken out... but he needs to have the control to stop the game and make sure that stuff gets done.