Happened to a dear friend of the family...she too was 17. Got knocked up by a THUG loser ...was very difficult at first for the family to deal with. However two years down the road with a very strong support system from her IMMEDIATE family (and with the Thug in prison) they now have a wonderful little baby who brings joy and laughter. It helped bond the family actually!
Do not care what others think - do whats best for HER - be there for her no matter what. Withouth knowhing the situation with the sperm donor, She will most likely make rash and dumb decisions with hopes of having a family, etc. But in time things will work out and get better. You will LOVE that baby,. Hope all goes well - sending he positive thoughts!
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