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Originally Posted by raymor
The Bible says you should "lust after your own wife's breasts" and that you should not deny your wife sex. Sex is definitely good. It also says you better not lust after your neighbor's wife. We all know that lusting after your neighbor's wife is the kind of thing that ends up on Jerry Springer.
The word "wife" probably jumps out at a lot of people. The Bible also says to be careful who you choose for your wife.
I spent several years fucking a lot of women, then married an awesome woman who didn't have pre-marital sex. I have to say there's something to the ancient wisdom. Being with my awesome wife, a rare find, is much better than fucking some hot random chick, then asking the random hottie why my dick is covered in black slime.
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Well.. I've been with several women who haven't slept with a man in years.. and that really is a something, sex with a woman who doesn't unzip for just anyone. It sure is. Of course 99% of them who say that are lying, but I believe that I can tell. As foolish as that may be. I don't know if it is something about the ones I "believe" which made it seem so different, or not.
I am determined to be with a woman who is sexually free. What bothers ME about "infidelity" is the HIDING IT or LYING ABOUT IT. I can not fucking STAND being lied to. The problem is, most women who are interested in a sexually free marriage are a pile of junk. The diamond to find is the one who can be sexually free and pure of heart for you simultaneously. I think my current woman is that, wants to be that, but there is the years of programming and guilt to be undone.
The thing for me is - sometimes I want to enjoy a good loving woman. Most times that is what I want. And there are times when I would like to enjoy a disgusting whore because that's hot to me. I know that most men give that up for the former, and I don't want to do that permanently like most modern day American males nor do I want my life to lack being in love.
Being in love sucks sometimes but it is a good outlet for my natural loving and loyal nature. I don't trust anyone in life, period. Having someone I can is important. Being loyal to someone and making them happy feels GREAT - I need that, too.
Life is so overly complicated by human beings. It should not have to be
