Watching someone die a slow death over a period of a year compaired to a suicide, I think I would take that year. say everything I want to say and how much I love them blah blah, compaired to having not being able to say anything and to convince them to stay with me longer I feel would be much harder on the family. the wife would be devastated with a suicide I would think thus being a much longer time of grieving. Although i don't think you ever stop grieving over someone close to you.
I've had a hard time with my father's death and it will be 2 years next month. I couldn't imagine a suicide death. But, it is their life too one never knows what someone else goes thru to come to that conclusion of their life.
A sad sad day for the family for sure.
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