#1 I'm from the UK so there's no 'you' about it
#2 those people grieving, or sad, or whatever else they are aren't the ones who decided to bomb other countries - it's like saying if my dad was a serial killer I shouldn't feel sad for victims of serial killers
#3 So basically you're whining like a pissant because the 'marketing' in their own country is 'better'? Are you upset when your sports team loses? Do you give a fuck if another sports team loses? Do you cry if the other losing sports teams' coverage in their local area is 'better marketed'?
Your whole rant is because in America, Americans are saddened that Americans died, and that American media 'marketed' the events in America 'better' than they 'market' events elsewhere? And then tell people on GFY that you're lumping them all in one basket because of that? Holy shit. You're obviously a very intelligent person, but wtf... that makes no sense.
'Better marketing' being the issue - holy fucking shit

Newsflash - if someone else's kid gets murdered I'd be sad. If my own kid got murdered I'd be making a big issue of it for the rest of my life. That's human nature, and to declare someone, or a group of people, as somehow bad because of it, is fucking stupid.