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Originally Posted by Failed
I talk the ears off of people on ICQ. I've honestly had conversations that went on to eat up entire work days. It's not always about advice or sharing information, I just love to talk. That is where the majority of information is exchanged, for me personally.
I've also had some very long email conversations. Sometimes email is a better method to communicate than ICQ because there is less pressure to respond right away. When responses are made, they are very detailed and thorough. But again, sometimes people just don't want to be bothered. I just leave them alone and move on.
My best advice to you, on this subject, would be to not let rejections of the past effect potential relationships in the future.
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Yeah man, talking is one thing. But passing good advice and talking business is another, very different.
People don't do that anymore, nowadays. Specially in Adult, due of the current situation of the business, people try to protect their stuff and hardly, or almost never pass info about what they do to make money.
The way you ASK won't make a difference at all. If you ask nicely, people will ignore you. -> When I started, I tried this over and over and over and the result was the same, always the same. If you ask "Directly", people will say: "Hey, why do you ask me that way? If you asked nicely I would answer, but now I don't answer"...
For example JEL... The truth is that he has a huge EGO, asking nicely won't make a difference at all. He could just prove his point contacting me, but his Massive EGO defeated him.
Cya bud.