andrew1009

I'll try to explain this situation as best as I can without dragging on.

Met said chick on the subway by chance about a year and a half ago. It was at a time when I was moving out of the country that very week, so we didn't get a chance to go out until over a year later.

Anyways, we finally went on a date. Things went amazingly well, great chemistry and no one we met could believe it was our first date together. On top of that, spent the night at her place and all was great.

Two weeks went by, she ended up inviting me to a get together with some of her friends but timing was wrong (I live hours away) and wouldn't have been able to make it. Next thing I know she has pics with some new guy pop up on her facebook, then they are in a relationship.

Anyways, about four months go by, they break up and she asked me out again. We went out again but I was too pre-occupied with being the rebound guy (for the second time actually, the first time we went out was just after she ended another relationship). So anyways, I let it interfere with our night and I was not able to perform in bed because I was too pre-occupied and in a jealous rage.

After I got back home, I asked her for another chance, she said "we'll see"

She messaged me two weeks later wanting to be in a committed relationship. I told her I didn't want to commit at this time but liked her and told her she was an awesome chick and just wanted to get to know her better.

Two weeks went by and I started thinking that I really couldn't look at other women the same, and I did like her over anyone else. I finally messaged her telling her that I only liked her and no one else.

She told me it was too late and now she's seeing someone else.

She says it is non sexual at this time, they are neighbours and just walk their dogs together but she "wants to see what could happen and doesn't want any regrets"

She blamed me for shrugging her off twice and showing no interest in her when she was "throwing herself at me" because I never asked her to be my girlfriend after only two dates.

Now I'm at a point where I feel like I've made a mistake and I am literally obsessing over winning her back and "making things right"

I reminded her that I didn't shrug her off and that she was in a four month relationship two weeks after our first date and she blew me off the second date.

She blamed me for playing the "blame game" and to "stop it I'm letting this go".

How is it possible that she had feelings enough for me that she wanted to be my girlfriend two weeks ago, and now tells me I blew my chance and I should have told her sooner.

This is the reason I don't date much.

Trying to figure out if I should try to work this out, or just forget her and move on?

Really looking forward to the GFY branded advice here.