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Originally Posted by Seth Manson
THIS! ^^^^
Oh my god PLEASE tell us!
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I know you guys would love that, but I can't.
I completely understand where she's coming from. We each brought different expectations to the table, and although we seem to have wanted the same things I was in no rush to jump into a commitment after two dates, and each time was after she just broke up with some other bloke.
It was seriously awkward being the rebound guy twice in a row. It was a recurring thought throughout the first & second date, which ultimately lead to a downward spiral of negative thoughts, constant self blame, and huge loss of confidence.
Instead of relaxing and enjoying our time, I was constantly thinking about being in competition with these other guys and basically just ended up freezing.
My head has been spinning since we first went out. This has been the most dizzying experience I've had in a long time. The last time I was able to think with a clear head feels like forever ago.