I've always kept a small circle of friends as I prefer people I can 100% trust over being friends with everyone where 50% of them ain't worth a shit. I also tend to hang with people at the same level as me or above as we can bounce ideas off each other and learn from each other. Hanging out with losers might not make ya a loser but usually ya end up guilty by association and there is no way to continually improve yourself surrounded by losers.
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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd
I think the smarter you are the less likely you are willing to put up with your stupid friend's idiotic ideas and behaviors. You can't fix stupid and the older you get the more you look around and realize most people are broken.
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Originally Posted by Struggle4Bucks
"they are focused on some other longer term objective".
Why could "friendship" not be a longer term objective?
The problem I think that people with high IQ often have is that they, logically and inevitably, live in a world of mediocrity. Having an IQ of let's say 130 in a world where the average is around 100... It is a huge gap... Having a high IQ is not just a matter of better results at school... It often results in a complete different worldview; a complete other understanding of the world around us... thus other interests; other needs for satisfaction, etc...
Go sit down and talk with someone who is 20/30 IQ point below you... You will find it very hard to relate and to have a satisfying conversation. It's simply exhausting. It leads to misunderstandings; feelings of not being understood at all; etc...
It's not that people with higher IQ don't desire social interaction... I think that they find less people that are interesting to them....
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