Originally Posted by incredibleworkethic

Nice honesty!

I did a shit load of paid testing before mine was born. I didn't care about the gender, but the health. If the health was bad or a bad chance of baby having something terrible, I have no issues terminating. That's just my choice.

I've noticed that my boy is taking after the way of life the wife and I have been living. He seems to take on the environment. Very happy kid, sweet, and all that good shit.

If you're debating and think you'll regret it later, just DO IT. Once, just one kid and see if that's all you want.

Once that moment or possibly is gone, you have to jump through hoops to make it happen.

I suggest making sure the relationship you have has handled issues well in the past and financially you're set. Good luck.