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Old 04-05-2017, 07:04 PM  
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Originally Posted by SophyDavis View Post
Don't become a cam model if you're not mentally prepared to accept what you do and be true to yourself. Don't become a cam model if you can't admit to yourself and to others that you like this job. Don't become a cam model if you don't know what you're getting yourself into. Don't become a cam model if you're expecting to make lots of money and not really work for it.

If you think that working as a cam model is easy and people won't find out what you do, then you're wrong. If you want to keep it a secret, that means that you're not ready to accept what you do. And if you can't accept what you do, that means you're ashamed of it and you shouldn't be doing it at all.

Lots of cam girls complain that their friends and family found out in some way what they're doing. You knew from the start what this job implied and you knew that at some point people are going to notice the changes: more money, different clothes, a different attitude. They will become suspicious and they will find out.

Be true to who you are!! Accept that this is a normal job and don't be afraid of what people might think of you!! You're not doing porn. you're not getting payed to have sex with anyone, you're not doing anything that you don't want to do.
Nice spiel but what do your tax returns say about your work?

I'm not trying to be a troll as much as I'm trying to be the devil's advocate. In my experience from what I've seen is that more often than not the average cam girl makes bullshit money even after months of hardwork. Whereas even a plain looking woman that escorts can make serious money if she just maintains a friendly attitude towards her johns.

Plus escorts tend to have a vastly easier time keeping their work secret from family and friends.
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