Thing is most of them porn lists are all the same as they use the same WP theme (the one that cost 10 or 0$ if I remember well)
Pre reviewed tons of them to post in my "porn list" category and they were like 100's of identical sites. Just the color changed
As for the porndude I believe there is an army of ppl working on it, also a prof. designer clearly did the whole design etc...
Do not try to copy, do your own coding if you can or try to be original