DoItYourself

Hi guys! I want to create adult tube website filled with embedded videos (not hosting my own videos). Are there any free wordpress themes for this kind of thing and free mass embedder? Or maybe there is any tutorial or resource providing infos how to do this from scratch? I'm stingy and I don't want to spend money on something I am not sure it will be successful. I did already a little research but found nothing special so I decided to ask you guys, maybe someone has more knowledge on this topic. Regards!