Q. Is it okay to fantasize about sex with strangers during lovemaking with your partner?
Sexual fantasy is probably the most universal of all sexual behaviors. Your experience of fantasizing during lovemaking is shared by the majority of the sexually active population. A rich fantasy life should be considered a bonus to your sex life. Although it is possible to enjoy your activity by focusing solely on what your partner does to turn you on, the addition of sexual fantasy may enhance your sexual arousal. There is evidence to support that fantasizing adds lubrication (in women) and more erectile power (in men) which leads to orgasm (in both men and women). Fantasies can add a great deal to every person's sex life, and should not become a source of guilt. Remember, fantasies, unlike actions, are your private thoughts and you have the right to maintain this privacy. However, being able to share your fantasies with your partner may give you both ideas for improving your sex life.
