You'll do fine if you remember these things. ....
-She will be your wife, but not your property..
-She will still be her own person, with her own feelings and opinions...
-Her emotions are, and will be important to her, so even if they aren't important to you, the fact that they are important to her is what should be important to you. ....
-Communication is a crucial factor in a successful marriage...
-Never ever ever argue in front of the kids.
-Don't just hear what she says - listen to what she says.
-Never always try to be right.
-Never criticize - approach any situation with support and if you don't know what to say or do because you don't understand a given situation, just ask her to help you to understand.
-If she's right in a heated discussion, don't let anger deny her the right to be right.
-If you mess up, don't make excuses- own up to it, apologize for it, and learn from it.
-Always remain friends. It started that way, and should continue that way.
and it is wayyy past time for me to shut the Hell up..
