Gay people (inside please)

[brassmonkey]

i was watching a tv show and there was a man that was talking about a lesbian. he said it was a hairy woman that was manly and it bothered him.

so the judge asked him if he was homophobic this is a term ive heard gay people say. are most gay people able to diagnose a phobia??

phobia is defined as a persistent fear of an object or situation in which the sufferer commits to great lengths in avoiding despite the fear.

is it automatic fear if you disagree with someones gay lifestyle?


this is a serious question no troll shit.

[marlboroack]

I read your question a good 3x, but i don't know how to answer. I'm not gay so i guess i don't really understand what you are trying to ask.
"is it automatic fear if you disagree with someones gay lifestyle?" I always noticed that most gay dudes hang with gay dudes and most shemales hang with other shemales. What do you think?

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by marlboroack

I read your question a good 3x, but i don't know how to answer. I'm not gay so i guess i don't really understand what you are trying to ask.
"is it automatic fear if you disagree with someones gay lifestyle?" I always noticed that most gay dudes hang with gay dudes and most shemales hang with other shemales. What do you think?

a man was accused of being a homophob because he didnt agree with someone being gay.

[jigg]

the term is applied pretty liberally to mean someone who has a dislike to homosexuals in general, not just fear. Although I'm sure someone could claim any dislike = fear.

Some homosexuals apply the term 'reverse homophobia' inside the gay community as well -- to refer to those gay men who have a dislike for the stereotypical gay guy who's flamboyant and wears name brand everything. And the opposite -- some gay men who look down on other gay men that do not wear name brand everything, and aren't hip, fashion with a nice body etc

[L-Pink]

I clicked this thread by accident, swear to God!

[CaptainHowdy]

I only have heterosexual concerns, sorry...

[Holly Lez!]

NAh I don't like hairy manly lesbos.. and I am gay so I say no!

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by L-Pink

I clicked this thread by accident, swear to God!

[CurrentlySober]

I am not gay, and do not know the answer.

I am only replying to increase postcount...

I guess that means I'm not postaphobic?

[cooldude7]

57 thread views , means lots of gay people in here.
i m not gay.

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by cooldude7

57 thread views , means lots of gay people in here.
i m not gay.

ok thanx

[sperbonzo]

Unfortunately, if you disagree with someone else's agenda, you are instantly labeled as either being full of hate, or sick (as in having a phobia). I couldn't care less if someone is gay or not, but I really get pissed off when someone calls me a hater or sick if I dare to disagree about something on their agenda. It's in the same vein as labeling anyone that doesn't like Obama's policies as "racist"


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[Kiopa_Matt]

I don't know how to answer your question either. Want to try and reword it, maybe?

I know there's a gay guy who doesn't like hairy lesbians, then something to do with phobias and fear.

EDIT: Nevermind, read the replies. In this day and age, unless you're some hardcore Christian living in the bible belt, saying you hate gay people is the same as saying you hate blacks. Not exactly socially acceptable anymore.

[Agent 488]

hitler hated fags.

[mavruda]

I'm lesbian in male body.

[barcodes]

Originally Posted by cooldude7

57 thread views , means lots of gay people in here.

[helterskelter808]

Originally Posted by brassmonkey

a man was accused of being a homophob because he didnt agree with someone being gay.

I don't see how it's even possible to "not agree with someone being gay". It's like saying you don't agree with the sun shining or the grass growing. If someone's gay, they're gay; not really anyone else's business or concern.

Homophobia is just a word created to define a general 'opposition' or dislike of gays.

If taken absolutely literally it doesn't even mean a fear of gay people, it would mean something like a fear of 'same things'. 'Homo' in homosexual is Greek (go figure), not Latin, as in 'homo sapien', where it means 'man'.

Like everyone else in this thread, and Jason Statham, I am also not the gay.

[marketsmart]

i am tired of the use of the word gay to describe homo's...

its another cop out word for the homo's that want to soften the blow that they like same sex relations..

same as using life partner..

just say my boyfriend or my girlfriend..

no one gives a shit if you are a homo..

homo's are the ones perpetuating discrimination..

just like the blacks and the racism card dropped everytime things dont go their way...





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[cooldude7]

Originally Posted by marketsmart

i am tired of the use of the word gay to describe homo's...

its another cop out word for the homo's that want to soften the blow that they like same sex relations..

same as using life partner..

just say my boyfriend or my girlfriend..

no one gives a shit if you are a homo..

homo's are the ones perpetuating discrimination..

just like the blacks and the racism card dropped everytime things dont go their way...





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so what word u have in mind ?

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by Kiopa_Matt

I don't know how to answer your question either. Want to try and reword it, maybe?

I know there's a gay guy who doesn't like hairy lesbians, then something to do with phobias and fear.

EDIT: Nevermind, read the replies. In this day and age, unless you're some hardcore Christian living in the bible belt, saying you hate gay people is the same as saying you hate blacks. Not exactly socially acceptable anymore.

ok

Originally Posted by Agent 488

hitler hated fags.

fags you crack me up!!!

Originally Posted by sperbonzo

Unfortunately, if you disagree with someone else's agenda, you are instantly labeled as either being full of hate, or sick (as in having a phobia). I couldn't care less if someone is gay or not, but I really get pissed off when someone calls me a hater or sick if I dare to disagree about something on their agenda. It's in the same vein as labeling anyone that doesn't like Obama's policies as "racist".

[Agent 488]

Originally Posted by cooldude7

so what word u have in mind ?

butt pirate.

[cooldude7]

Originally Posted by Agent 488

butt pirate.

lol, and i thought fag·got is a harsh word,

[marketsmart]

Originally Posted by cooldude7

so what word u have in mind ?

no word... if its not obvious to people that you are a homo then why run around screaming it out..

if you like same sex then you are a homo, not gay...

?adjective
1.
having or showing a merry, lively mood: gay spirits; gay music.
2.
bright or showy: gay colors; gay ornaments.
3.
given to or abounding in social or other pleasures: a gay social season.


the homos turned this delightful word into a noun...

i want gay back back for the heteros to enjoy like that did in the gay 90's (1890's)...





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[Kiopa_Matt]

Originally Posted by marketsmart

homo's are the ones perpetuating discrimination..

Yeah, true enough. See some guy walking down the street in rainbox colored spandex, with his shirt tied in a knot, and pink hair... then he proceeds to get upset, "people are so cruel! Why don't they like me!?!?"

Well gee, let me ponder that one for a minute... I don't think it has to do with you being gay though.

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by cooldude7

so what word u have in mind ?

oh boy here we go

[Juicy D. Links]

[RyuLion]

Thread forwarded to Juicy..

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by Juicy D. Links

your boy toy?

[Double trouble]

Originally Posted by L-Pink

I clicked this thread by accident, swear to God!

same here.

[Bladewire]

Originally Posted by sperbonzo

Unfortunately, if you disagree with someone else's agenda, you are instantly labeled as either being full of hate, or sick (as in having a phobia). I couldn't care less if someone is gay or not, but I really get pissed off when someone calls me a hater or sick if I dare to disagree about something on their agenda. It's in the same vein as labeling anyone that doesn't like Obama's policies as "racist".

Being sexually attracted to certain people of the same sex is not an agenda.

Certain people in every facet of society are fringe assholes, no getting around it.

I don't give a shit what people say they can GFT, and I don't give a shit what people do because I can do it better, when motivated

[lilith_pet]

Originally Posted by brassmonkey

is it automatic fear if you disagree with someones gay lifestyle?

It is not automatic fear sir
It is automatic hate

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by mavruda

I'm lesbian in male body.

so you like eating pussy? what's the problem? your all set you don't need a strap on

Originally Posted by lilith_pet

It is not automatic fear sir
It is automatic hate

hate - is a deep and emotional extreme dislike, directed against a certain object or class of objects.

its more like a

disagreement - A failure or refusal to agree.

[CaptainHowdy]

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy

oh snap!

[lilith_pet]

Originally Posted by brassmonkey

so you like eating pussy? what's the problem? your all set you don't need a strap on



hate - is a deep and emotional extreme dislike, directed against a certain object or class of objects.

its more like a

disagreement - A failure or refusal to agree.

I don't use toys

Well then I see nothing wrong in *disagreement*. You are free to like/dislike gay people, it's your opinion. Just don't force your ideas on me or anyone, and let's live in peace

Disagreement has nothing to do with fear. I know enough people whose life style/decisions etc. I will never approve of. And no it's not fear

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by lilith_pet

I don't use toys

Well then I see nothing wrong in *disagreement*. You are free to like/dislike gay people, it's your opinion. Just don't force your ideas on me or anyone, and let's live in peace

Disagreement has nothing to do with fear. I know enough people whose life style/decisions etc. I will never approve of. And no it's not fear

you go girl!

[KyZ]

Originally Posted by brassmonkey

is it automatic fear if you disagree with someones gay lifestyle?

"Gay" is not a lifestyle, and homophobia describes an aversion (more than a fear) of homosexuality.

Originally Posted by sperbonzo

Unfortunately, if you disagree with someone else's agenda, you are instantly labeled as either being full of hate, or sick (as in having a phobia). I couldn't care less if someone is gay or not, but I really get pissed off when someone calls me a hater or sick if I dare to disagree about something on their agenda. It's in the same vein as labeling anyone that doesn't like Obama's policies as "racist"

Right, but the stupidity in labeling something an "agenda" is predictable coming from the right-wing. The "gay agenda" includes equal rights, just like the "black agenda" included civil rights.

I find it very difficult to believe that anyone could "disagree with being gay" and still have an IQ above 6

Originally Posted by helterskelter808

I don't see how it's even possible to "not agree with someone being gay". It's like saying you don't agree with the sun shining or the grass growing. If someone's gay, they're gay; not really anyone else's business or concern.

+++++++++++++++++++ well said

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by KyZ

"Gay" is not a lifestyle, and homophobia describes an aversion (more than a fear) of homosexuality.



Right, but the stupidity in labeling something an "agenda" is predictable coming from the right-wing. The "gay agenda" includes equal rights, just like the "black agenda" included civil rights.

I find it very difficult to believe that anyone could "disagree with being gay" and still have an IQ above 6



+++++++++++++++++++ well said

excuse me honey child why do gays mix race "black agenda" with their issue? two different things

[barcodes]

People can change their views about gays given time

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by barcodes

People can change their views about gays given time

prison dating game? poop wiener!

[barcodes]

Originally Posted by brassmonkey

prison dating game? poop wiener!

Let's Go To Prison - Barry Explains Their Relationship To Nelson

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by barcodes

Let's Go To Prison - Barry Explains Their Relationship To Nelson

is that the movie where he makes merlot in the toilet?

[KyZ]

Originally Posted by brassmonkey

excuse me honey child why do gays mix race "black agenda" with their issue? two different things

The point of "mixing the issues" isn't to say one group had it worse, it's to say stupidity and bigotry played a role back then and plays a role today.

Would it make you feel better if I compared it to the gays sent to concentration camps in Nazi Germany, gays who had it 1000x worse than black America in the 60's? Personally I think it's irrelevant, but whatever makes you happy

[barcodes]

Originally Posted by brassmonkey

is that the movie where he makes merlot in the toilet?

That's the one

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by KyZ

The point of "mixing the issues" isn't to say one group had it worse, it's to say stupidity and bigotry played a role back then and plays a role today.

Would it make you feel better if I compared it to the gays sent to concentration camps in Nazi Germany, gays who had it 1000x worse than black America in the 60's? Personally I think it's irrelevant, but whatever makes you happy

wow you are out of your gay mind and yes if a gay was down in the south they would have tried to beat the fairy dust out their ass. but one is racial and one is sexual. you can choke on a oyster or a stiff crank behind closed doors but you cant hide being black.

[WarChild]

What I don't get is so called Transgendered people.

In pretty much every other situation, if somebody's brain is behaving abnormally, we try to treat the condition and not say "oh they were just born that way".

For instance, somebody who suffers from clinical depression isn't just bound to be depressed. We don't walk on eggshells around them, as a society, because they were "born that way". No, we try to fix the chemical imbalances and bring them back to "normal".

If you're born biologically male, you're male. You can be attracted to other males, or an effeminate male, but you are male no matter what your brain is telling you.

[WarChild]

Interestingly enough, while I know several gay people for whom it is simply a sexuality and not their personality, I've never met a "transgendered" person that didn't focus their entire life, essentially, around transgendered issues. I'm sure they do exist mind you and I certainly know or have known many more gay people than Transgendered so I suppose it's not a very good comparrision.

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by WarChild

What I don't get is so called Transgendered people.

In pretty much every other situation, if somebody's brain is behaving abnormally, we try to treat the condition and not say "oh they were just born that way".

For instance, somebody who suffers from clinical depression isn't just bound to be depressed. We don't walk on eggshells around them, as a society, because they were "born that way". No, we try to fix the chemical imbalances and bring them back to "normal".

If you're born biologically male, you're male. You can be attracted to other males, or an effeminate male, but you are male no matter what your brain is telling you.

that's true but it's their choice where to go from there. some truly want to be the opposite. (chaz bono)

[WarChild]

Originally Posted by brassmonkey

that's true but it's their choice where to go from there. some truly want to be the opposite. (chaz bono)

Yes, but then on top of that they want special protections and rights to protect them from being discriminated against.

Sorry, you're fucking crazy and guess what? I don't really want any part of your transgendered transformation drama. That doesn't mean I'm a biggot, it just means to each their own.

Where do we draw the line? I believe I am actually a space alien trapped in a human body! Nobody can prove it's not true! You can't discriminate against me, because I'm not just fucking nutty, I was born this way!

[KyZ]

Originally Posted by WarChild

If you're born biologically male, you're male. You can be attracted to other males, or an effeminate male, but you are male no matter what your brain is telling you.

Right but we're complex creatures and thus aren't as primitive as you describe. If people lived life the way you believe they're "suppose to live" then why is monogamy encourage? Why are post-pubescent teenagers not encouraged to have as many children as they can? Why don't we kill the person next door if it means more food and shelter?

The answer to all these questions is we're not a bunch of primitive dumb fucks who focus our entire life mission as drones with the sole purpose of survival and replication.

Originally Posted by WarChild

I've never met a "transgendered" person that didn't focus their entire life, essentially, around transgendered issues.

Well you can't really blame them considering the stigmatization and discrimination they face.

I know it's harder to imagine than, saying, being a fat nerd talking about how certain segments of the population are "annoying" and "only talk about their issues", but it's an interesting point to bring up especially for people capable of thinking with more than their dicks.