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Mediamix · 01-02-2016, 02:07 PM

Why the fuck are you people bringing up old threads just to kick someone when he's down? XXXJay is a guy that did a lot of good in this industry and inspired a lot of people. Now that the guy is having a bad time, you all kick him and make fun of him... Holy shit. Fucking Around is the name of this board, but sometimes people need to know when to stop...

We, as a community, should help him if we can and if he accepts it. But if you guys want to throw dirt in his face, you're just a bunch of fucking assholes.

The Porn Nerd · 01-02-2016, 02:08 PM

You left out an X. It's xxxjay.
Or has he been demoted already?

Mediamix · 01-02-2016, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd

You left out an X. It's xxxjay.
Or has he been demoted already?

Yeah, my bad... Shit happens.

dyna mo · 01-02-2016, 02:12 PM

right, let's all kumbaya over an addict. as if that's ever worked.

xxxjay · 01-02-2016, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

Yeah, my bad... Shit happens.

I appreciate your support man. I figured out a way to solve this situation, I am building my ignore list... Something I should've done a long time ago

Ferus · 01-02-2016, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

We, as a community, should help him if we can and if he accepts it. But if you guys want to throw dirt in his face, you're just a bunch of fucking assholes.

STFU!

The community dont owe him anything. Lots of people have extended their hand and given him options, but his Ego keeps him from doing anything. He just keeps blaming everyone else for his own faults.

"Survival of the fittest" all the way.

He can Work his way up Again - its a golden age with unlimited information 3 clicks away.
Get busy living, or get busy dying

Mediamix · 01-02-2016, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by dyna mo

right, let's all kumbaya over an addict. as if that's ever worked.

Let's all kick someone that has had a bad period and make fun about the fact he lost a lot. I don't want to pick a fight, but years ago XXXJay was the guy that made me change my life and I owe him everything I have.. Because I was in the same place he is in now. But he inspired me with his knowledge and I've been growing since that day. I just wanted to say that Jason also did a lot of good stuff.. But people just like to troll and kick him when he's down. Fuck that.

dyna mo · 01-02-2016, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

Let's all kick someone that has had a bad period and make fun about the fact he lost a lot. I don't want to pick a fight, but years ago XXXJay was the guy that made me change my life and I owe him everything I have.. Because I was in the same place he is in now. But he inspired me with his knowledge and I've been growing since that day. I just wanted to say that Jason also did a lot of good stuff.. But people just like to troll and kick him when he's down. Fuck that.

i'm quite sure he's an adult male that makes his own choices, including coming here and wanting gfyers to tell him how cool he is for having a picture of lemmy and when that doesn't happen we're all cyber bullies according to him, a term btw, used about teen girls being mistreated online, not adult guys.

regardless of anyone thinking a bunch of strangers at gfy are going to save this guy from himself by being super sweet to the guy. this is gofuckyourself, welcome the reality 2016, if this place sends you over the deep end, you were already there.

Penny24Seven · 01-02-2016, 02:30 PM

That is just how GFY is. Not only just GFY but any online group it seems.
There is a facebook page for my town with 4000 people on it and someone posts a stupid question and they get rung out to dry LOL. It is brutal.
Not as bad as here since it is all real people but they still get shit on.
I don't go out to bash anyone on here.
Maybe just BrassMonkey from time to time but he does it to me. Nothing is meant by it and I would hope he could care less as well.
I don't know him so it means nothing.
Cyber hug BrassNoMoney

Penny24Seven · 01-02-2016, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

Let's all kick someone that has had a bad period and make fun about the fact he lost a lot. I don't want to pick a fight, but years ago XXXJay was the guy that made me change my life and I owe him everything I have.. Because I was in the same place he is in now. But he inspired me with his knowledge and I've been growing since that day. I just wanted to say that Jason also did a lot of good stuff.. But people just like to troll and kick him when he's down. Fuck that.

I agree. Jay helped me in the past. I just had 2 questions but he really got into detail a lot more than I expected anyone and even checked back to see if I got it.
It was the first and only time I have ever talked to him. Does that mean anything? Well compared to others it puts him above most. I still don't know him at all.

dyna mo · 01-02-2016, 02:34 PM

any way, jay, if you're fucking sick, then go get some fucking help and stop whining about it all. adding some gfyers to your fucking ignore list isn't going to solve your life.

Mediamix · 01-02-2016, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by dyna mo

i'm quite sure he's an adult male that makes his own choices, including coming here and wanting gfyers to tell him how cool he is for having a picture of lemmy and when that doesn't happen we're all cyber bullies according to him, a term btw, used about teen girls being mistreated online, not adult guys.

regardless of anyone thinking a bunch of strangers at gfy are going to save this guy from himself by being super sweet to the guy. this is gofuckyourself, welcome the reality 2016, if this place sends you over the deep end, you were already there.

Yeah, he wrote a blog because he knew the guy better then you and me. So fucking what. I agree that he could have done it in another way, but clickbait and drama always gets the views. We are webmasters and marketing people. We survive on clicks and sales. People that kick him because of that blog are a bunch of hypocrites.

He needs to get his life back together, but kicking him and making fun of him only makes him want to do bad things. Sorry if I feel bad for someone that I like....

dyna mo · 01-02-2016, 02:39 PM

you're more than welcome to feel bad about him. but what you're doing with this thread is calling many of us assholes because we're not feeling bad about him and coddling him like you are.

Pac Man! · 01-02-2016, 02:43 PM

xxxjay can fight his own battles sure you want to get mixed up in it?

Mediamix · 01-02-2016, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by dyna mo

you're more than welcome to feel bad about him. but what you're doing with this thread is calling many of us assholes because we're not feeling bad about him and coddling him like you are.

No... Wrong.. I'm talking about the people that just bump old threads to hurt him when he's already down. Not talking about you or people's opinions. Every man has the right to have an opinion. Having said that. I respect your opinion. You're also a guy that makes a lot of sense and I know you also give good advice to people that deserve it. I'm not attacking you.

Mediamix · 01-02-2016, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Pac Man!

xxxjay can fight his own battles sure you want to get mixed up in it?

I'm the guy that gets mixed up in a lot of bullshit. Maybe it's because of my name.

Google Expert · 01-02-2016, 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

Why the fuck are you people bringing up old threads just to kick someone when he's down? XXXJay is a guy that did a lot of good in this industry and inspired a lot of people. Now that the guy is having a bad time, you all kick him and make fun of him... Holy shit. Fucking Around is the name of this board, but sometimes people need to know when to stop...

We, as a community, should help him if we can and if he accepts it. But if you guys want to throw dirt in his face, you're just a bunch of fucking assholes.

Cause he likes it, he lives for it

He's having a "bad period" every few weeks. He gets shitfaced and comes here for attention, because everyone offline is so sick of him by now that they told him to fuck off and die.

How hard would it be to turn off the computer and walk away?

Mediamix · 01-02-2016, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Muad'Dib

How hard is it to turn off a computer and walk away?

Really hard.. I make money with my computer.

dyna mo · 01-02-2016, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

No... Wrong.. I'm talking about the people that just bump old threads to hurt him when he's already down. Not talking about you or people's opinions. Every man has the right to have an opinion. Having said that. I respect your opinion. You're also a guy that makes a lot of sense and I know you also give good advice to people that deserve it. I'm not attacking you.

well, i am making fun of him with the photochops, i thought you were including me in the bunch that is "bumping threads and making fun" of him.

anyhoo, if i felt in the slightest that my fucking around with the guy puts his life in jeopardy, i certainly would back off.

xxxjay · 01-02-2016, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

Yeah, he wrote a blog because he knew the guy better then you and me. So fucking what. I agree that he could have done it in another way, but clickbait and drama always gets the views. We are webmasters and marketing people. We survive on clicks and sales. People that kick him because of that blog are a bunch of hypocrites.

He needs to get his life back together, but kicking him and making fun of him only makes him want to do bad things. Sorry if I feel bad for someone that I like....

Yeah man, it was all about timing. I was going to include stories about Lemmy in the book anyways. How could you not? Seeing as I was just at his birthday only a few days before and that picture is the last time I saw him alive. When you're riding stuff like this it makes sense to stay topical and talk about something that's current.

xxxjay · 01-02-2016, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

Why the fuck are you people bringing up old threads just to kick someone when he's down? XXXJay is a guy that did a lot of good in this industry and inspired a lot of people. Now that the guy is having a bad time, you all kick him and make fun of him... Holy shit. Fucking Around is the name of this board, but sometimes people need to know when to stop...

We, as a community, should help him if we can and if he accepts it. But if you guys want to throw dirt in his face, you're just a bunch of fucking assholes.

I figured out how to get control of this:

Mediamix · 01-02-2016, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by xxxjay

I figured out how to get control of this:

Don't let them get under your skin dude..

sarettah · 01-02-2016, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

Don't let them get under your skin dude..

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Mr Pheer · 01-02-2016, 05:39 PM

Have you ever tried to kick someone while they are standing up? That shit is hard.

TheSquealer · 01-02-2016, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

Let's all kick someone that has had a bad period and make fun about the fact he lost a lot. I don't want to pick a fight, but years ago XXXJay was the guy that made me change my life and I owe him everything I have.. Because I was in the same place he is in now. But he inspired me with his knowledge and I've been growing since that day. I just wanted to say that Jason also did a lot of good stuff.. But people just like to troll and kick him when he's down. Fuck that.

The way the world treats you is simply a reflection of how you treat it. It's really not any more complicated than that.

xxxjay · 01-02-2016, 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr Pheer

Have you ever tried to kick someone while they are standing up? That shit is hard.

What the fuck are you talking about?

I am not a fighter, gun owner, I don't watch UFC, boxing or any of that other stupid macho shit and I love cats. I am a complete pacifist.

I don't know where you're going with this

xxxjay · 01-02-2016, 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

Don't let them get under your skin dude..

I'm not. I may have put 20 accounts on my ignore list, but I guarantee there is only two or three people behind them.

Also, I have quietly been sending traffic to few programs. If you been getting my traffic you know who you are. If I find any of these people have any ties to any of those programs they can kiss my business goodbye.

sarettah · 01-02-2016, 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr Pheer

Have you ever tried to kick someone while they are standing up? That shit is hard.

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Originally Posted by xxxjay

What the fuck are you talking about?

I am not a fighter, gun owner, I don't watch UFC, boxing or any of that other stupid macho shit and I love cats. I am a complete pacifist.

I don't know where you're going with this

He was joking about the thread title. He was answering the question "Why kick a man when he's down?"

It was not something directed at you, I am 100% sure of that.

.

xxxjay · 01-02-2016, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by sarettah

He was joking about the thread title. He was answering the question "Why kick a man when he's down?"

It was not something directed at you, I am 100% sure of that.

.

Okay, I get it. LOL

Mediamix · 01-02-2016, 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by xxxjay

Also, I have quietly been sending traffic to few programs. If you been getting my traffic you know who you are.

I hope your traffic grows day by day, dude.. You deserve it after this last year.

Nitzer Ebb · 01-02-2016, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

I hope your traffic grows day by day, dude.. You deserve it after this last year.

Magic SEO

xxxjay · 01-02-2016, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

I hope your traffic grows day by day, dude.. You deserve it after this last year.

Thanks, I'm sending my traffic to a few select programs and it's been doing better than I expected it to.

Which program are you with? Is it Dutch only?

Mediamix · 01-02-2016, 08:58 PM

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Originally Posted by xxxjay

Thanks, I'm sending my traffic to a few select programs and it's been doing better than I expected it to.

Which program are you with? Is it Dutch only?

I started with Dutch programs because that is my native language and I know the owners or reps, but the last couple of months I'm also doing great with international webcam and dating programs. I know you hate advertising companies, but I also use them to make money. I filter my traffic almost every day and making good (not great) conversions and sales...

This year I'm going to start my own affiliate program, but I can't say a lot about that right now. I'm doing this webmaster thing for 10 years and also have a lot of mainstream projects. Hell... I even signed up for an Amazon partnership after seeing them on your blog.

I have about 30 programs that I work with and that keeps the money coming in.
I love doing this, so it doesn't feel like work.

xxxjay · 01-02-2016, 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

I started with Dutch programs because that is my native language and I know the owners or reps, but the last couple of months I'm also doing great with international webcam and dating programs. I know you hate advertising companies, but I also use them to make money. I filter my traffic almost every day and making good (not great) conversions and sales...

This year I'm going to start my own affiliate program, but I can't say a lot about that right now. I'm doing this webmaster thing for 10 years and also have a lot of mainstream projects. Hell... I even signed up for an Amazon partnership after seeing them on your blog.

I have about 30 programs that I work with and that keeps te money coming in.
I love doing this, so it doesn't feel like work.

Just make sure on the Amazon that you add your sites to the list of approved sites or they don't count the traffic. I made that mistake at first

Mediamix · 01-02-2016, 09:06 PM

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Originally Posted by xxxjay

Just make sure on the Amazon that you add your sites to the list of approved sites or they don't count the traffic. I made that mistake at first

Great tip! Didn't think of that...

I'm going to check that after I wake up. It's 5AM here right now and I really need some sleep. I still have a hangover from new year's eve.

xxxjay · 01-02-2016, 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Mediamix

Great tip! Didn't think of that...

I'm going to check that after I wake up. It's 5AM here right now and I really need some sleep. I still have a hangover from new year's eve.

Kick ass... Yeah they will still display the ads but they won't count the traffic LOL

Mr Pheer · 01-02-2016, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by xxxjay

What the fuck are you talking about?

I am not a fighter, gun owner, I don't watch UFC, boxing or any of that other stupid macho shit and I love cats. I am a complete pacifist.

I don't know where you're going with this

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Originally Posted by sarettah

He was joking about the thread title. He was answering the question "Why kick a man when he's down?"

It was not something directed at you, I am 100% sure of that.

.

Sorry. I meant to say it like this:

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[Joke]Have you ever tried to kick someone while they are standing up? That shit is hard.[/Joke]

AdultB2B · 01-03-2016, 03:56 AM

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Originally Posted by xxxjay

I appreciate your support man. I figured out a way to solve this situation, I am building my ignore list... Something I should've done a long time ago

Just read that blog Jay.

All I can say is hang in there man.

Take a good, long look in the mirror and figure out how to make your life better.

You've done a lot in this industry and have a lot of talent. But sometimes I think you're your own worst enemy.

xxxjay · 01-03-2016, 04:16 AM

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Originally Posted by AdultB2B

Just read that blog Jay.

All I can say is hang in there man.

Take a good, long look in the mirror and figure out how to make your life better.

You've done a lot in this industry and have a lot of talent. But sometimes I think you're your own worst enemy.

I already figured out how I can make my life better.

End it

SekobA · 01-03-2016, 04:20 AM

I remember he was a real j..... So it turn it back to him like boomerang.

AdultB2B · 01-03-2016, 04:24 AM

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Originally Posted by xxxjay

I already figured out how I can make my life better.

End it

It's never that bad Jay.

Hang in there.

Things will get better soon.

Make some new friends. Your old ones have pulled you down.

xxxjay · 01-03-2016, 04:41 AM

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Originally Posted by SekobA

I remember he was a real j..... So it turn it back to him like boomerang.

I'm sorry I don't speak Juggalo? If you're trying to insinuate I've ever done anything to you, state your business. If anything, I'm too nice and trusting. You can say whatever you want about me, but you can't find one person that can honestly say I've fucked them over.

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Originally Posted by AdultB2B

It's never that bad Jay.

Hang in there.

Things will get better soon.

Make some new friends. Your old ones have pulled you down.

Yeah, as soon as the foreclosure on my houses done I'll probably move back to Atlanta on our maybe out of the country

AdultB2B · 01-03-2016, 04:48 AM

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Originally Posted by xxxjay

I'm sorry I don't speak Juggalo? If you're trying to insinuate I've ever done anything to you, state your business. If anything, I'm too nice and trusting. You can say whatever you want about me, but you can't find one person that can honestly say I've fucked them over.

Yeah, as soon as the foreclosure on my houses done I'll probably move back to Atlanta on our maybe out of the country

Out of the country isn't bad Jay.

I'm in Thailand and we love it here.

A new start may be just what you need.

But it's never that bad man.

I'll reach out.

Be well man.

ottopottomouse · 01-03-2016, 05:04 AM

Such poor comprehension skills that you're even going off on the ones who are posting positive comments? Aggressive all the time over nothing. No wonder you encounter so many people who think your face is a punchbag.

xxxjay · 01-03-2016, 05:12 AM

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Originally Posted by AdultB2B

Out of the country isn't bad Jay.

I'm in Thailand and we love it here.

A new start may be just what you need.

But it's never that bad man.

I'll reach out.

Be well man.

I just heard your voicemail. That was an amazing message. Thank you for actually being a human being. Maybe l will venture out to Thailand

SAMANTAmax · 01-03-2016, 05:39 AM

With the rock on his own head

xXXtesy10 · 01-03-2016, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by xxxjay

I just heard your voicemail. That was an amazing message. Thank you for actually being a human being. Maybe l will venture out to Thailand

if you get donny dickhead long address, post in here

Penny24Seven · 01-03-2016, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by xXXtesy10

if you get donny dickhead long address, post in here

I thought he was living on a boat

Google Expert · 01-03-2016, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by xxxjay

I already figured out how I can make my life better.

End it

Don't go too long about it.

The Porn Nerd · 01-03-2016, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by xxxjay

I appreciate your support man. I figured out a way to solve this situation, I am building my ignore list... Something I should've done a long time ago

No man, the way you solve this situation is to:

1. Get a real life outside of porn
2. Seek help for any addicitons
3. Move the fuck OUT of Los Angeles
4. Stop obsessing and posting on a message board 24/7 instead of doing the above.
5. Come back to GFY in a few months as 'Jay' and not 'XXXJay'. If you know what I mean then there's hope for you. If not, sorry dude I tried.

Best of luck man.

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Mediamix Dutch Webmaster! Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: Netherlands Posts: 3,228	About XXJay - Why kick a man when he's down? Why the fuck are you people bringing up old threads just to kick someone when he's down? XXXJay is a guy that did a lot of good in this industry and inspired a lot of people. Now that the guy is having a bad time, you all kick him and make fun of him... Holy shit. Fucking Around is the name of this board, but sometimes people need to know when to stop... We, as a community, should help him if we can and if he accepts it. But if you guys want to throw dirt in his face, you're just a bunch of fucking assholes. __________________ Sig too big

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01-02-2016, 02:30 PM	#9
Penny24Seven So Fucking What Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: USA Posts: 6,287	That is just how GFY is. Not only just GFY but any online group it seems. There is a facebook page for my town with 4000 people on it and someone posts a stupid question and they get rung out to dry LOL. It is brutal. Not as bad as here since it is all real people but they still get shit on. I don't go out to bash anyone on here. Maybe just BrassMonkey from time to time but he does it to me. Nothing is meant by it and I would hope he could care less as well. I don't know him so it means nothing. Cyber hug BrassNoMoney __________________ Our site is coming soon. It will be one of the best ever! I know so. Brian and Penny

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ottopottomouse She is ugly, bad luck. Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 13,177	Such poor comprehension skills that you're even going off on the ones who are posting positive comments? Aggressive all the time over nothing. No wonder you encounter so many people who think your face is a punchbag. __________________ ↑ see post ↑ 13101

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dyna mo The People's Post Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: invisible 7-11 Posts: 64,779	right, let's all kumbaya over an addict. as if that's ever worked.

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dyna mo The People's Post Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: invisible 7-11 Posts: 64,779	any way, jay, if you're fucking sick, then go get some fucking help and stop whining about it all. adding some gfyers to your fucking ignore list isn't going to solve your life.

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dyna mo The People's Post Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: invisible 7-11 Posts: 64,779	you're more than welcome to feel bad about him. but what you're doing with this thread is calling many of us assholes because we're not feeling bad about him and coddling him like you are.

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Pac Man! So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2015 Posts: 171	xxxjay can fight his own battles sure you want to get mixed up in it?

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Mr Pheer Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 20,887	Have you ever tried to kick someone while they are standing up? That shit is hard.

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