Are you married?

[Farang]

For how long? Were you well off back when you met your wife? Tell us a story

[CurrentlySober]

Originally Posted by Farang

For how long? Were you well off back when you met your wife? Tell us a story

Well OK, as you asked !

Ive been married twice - Here's the lowdown:

First wife I met because she wanted to do porn, and approached me. She was so keen to learn how to give a good performance for the camera, as well as being very highly sexed. We worked really hard on a lot of her performing aspects, before she entered the industry.

I was already quite well off from porn production (which I had been doing successfully for mail order for a good 10 plus years) & I welcomed the chance to help sculpt the career and performance techniques of a fresh face, based upon what I personally looked for in the performers I had been shooting...

'Dirty Talk' was a big part of this. Back then, very few performers spoke much, if even at all, during the scene... Virtually none of them would look directly into the camera, and speak directly to the viewer about what was happening and how much they were enjoying themselves...

Lay practised this, and became a natural at it - All unscripted, but extremely erotic and, at least at the time - Almost unheard of! Needless to say, it went down a treat with the big production companies, who went crazy for booking her - Patrick Collins of Elegant Angel described her as a breath of fresh air...

Her 'Dirty Talk' was used in some strange and unique ways - Such as over the FBI warning at the start of VHS cassettes that was always silent. Until she came along!

I can post a link to an example if you are interested?

She was nominated for best newcomer by AVN that same year... Best Anal and best Group (Which She Won) followed the year ahead...

We were married in 98, then divorced in 05. It was an amicable split, and a great marriage.

I married again in 2006, from the visiting room of the immigration detention center to a good friend, purely for the purposes of stopping my deportation from the USA back to the UK...

I had overstayed my visa and got unlucky when they raided a place looking for Mexicans, and I got caught up in it...

Eventually after 6 and a half months inside, I got deported anyway, so we got the marriage annulled shortly afterwards, on the grounds that we have never consummated it, as I was in jail, and she was 5500 miles away...

Would I marry again? Sure - Why not lol

[nikki99]

hey u came back to suck ladyboys cock in thailand?

[Rochard]

I am married.

When we first met I guess I was pretty well off. I was working at the phone company full time; I must have been about twenty-six or so. I worked a split shift at the phone company and I was off from 10:30am until 2:30pm so I helped a friend who owned a fast food restaurant - Wienerschnitzel. In fact, that's where I met my wife - she thought she was picking up a fast food worker not knowing I was making $60k at the phone company.

Eventually I went to college for "Information Technology", graduated at the height of the dot.com bust, and ended up moving to Phoenix to work for Lightspeed Cash. Lightspeed Cash was supposed to be a "temp" job while I looked for a new job, but because I got a percentage of the sales I made more money each month so I stayed.

Here I am twenty-five years later.

[fuzebox]

Not touching this thread

[adultinnovation]

There is no benefit for a Man to get married.

Western Women are the worst though. Most these days are only after money, fame, living lavish lifestyles.

That's why so many men head overseas to find traditional wives then the Western Women get all butt hurt over it.

[CaptainHowdy]

N e v e r.

[baddog]

Originally Posted by Rochard

I am married.

When we first met I guess I was pretty well off. I was working at the phone company full time; I must have been about twenty-six or so. I worked a split shift at the phone company and I was off from 10:30am until 2:30pm so I helped a friend who owned a fast food restaurant - Wienerschnitzel. In fact, that's where I met my wife - she thought she was picking up a fast food worker not knowing I was making $60k at the phone company.

Like the phone company was paying $28/hour to operators 25 years ago.

[Farang]

Originally Posted by CurrentlySober

Well OK, as you asked !

Ive been married twice - Here's the lowdown:

First wife I met because she wanted to do porn, and approached me. She was so keen to learn how to give a good performance for the camera, as well as being very highly sexed. We worked really hard on a lot of her performing aspects, before she entered the industry.

I was already quite well off from porn production (which I had been doing successfully for mail order for a good 10 plus years) & I welcomed the chance to help sculpt the career and performance techniques of a fresh face, based upon what I personally looked for in the performers I had been shooting...

'Dirty Talk' was a big part of this. Back then, very few performers spoke much, if even at all, during the scene... Virtually none of them would look directly into the camera, and speak directly to the viewer about what was happening and how much they were enjoying themselves...

Lay practised this, and became a natural at it - All unscripted, but extremely erotic and, at least at the time - Almost unheard of! Needless to say, it went down a treat with the big production companies, who went crazy for booking her - Patrick Collins of Elegant Angel described her as a breath of fresh air...

Her 'Dirty Talk' was used in some strange and unique ways - Such as over the FBI warning at the start of VHS cassettes that was always silent. Until she came along!

I can post a link to an example if you are interested?

She was nominated for best newcomer by AVN that same year... Best Anal and best Group (Which She Won) followed the year ahead...

We were married in 98, then divorced in 05. It was an amicable split, and a great marriage.

I married again in 2006, from the visiting room of the immigration detention center to a good friend, purely for the purposes of stopping my deportation from the USA back to the UK...

I had overstayed my visa and got unlucky when they raided a place looking for Mexicans, and I got caught up in it...

Eventually after 6 and a half months inside, I got deported anyway, so we got the marriage annulled shortly afterwards, on the grounds that we have never consummated it, as I was in jail, and she was 5500 miles away...

Would I marry again? Sure - Why not lol

Wow, interesting! Yes, post links please

[CurrentlySober]

Originally Posted by Farang

Wow, interesting! Yes, post links please

Well I link you to the very start of the VHS copy of 'Up Your ass 10' (REVIEW HERE) which was an Anabolic Video production.

It was right at the start of her time in the biz, and one of her first shoots in America. Her reputation had preceded her, and when she arrived on set, she was being referred to as 'That British Girl with the filthy mouth' - She was told to let loose, do her thing and show them what she could do...

Anyway, half way through the scene, with a huge black cock up her ass, she opens her mouth to this little diatribe! Unplanned and unscripted it was just her doing her party trick!

They were enamoured by her overall performance and wanted to do a separate interview with her at the end - When it came out a few days later, we were sent a copy straight away, and told to view it - This was unusual to say the least, as we were familiar with getting cheap 'talent copies' to sell on, but not with being sent the tape and being told to watch it!

Popped it into the player, and there she was ! Well, her voice at least, booming out immediately! Even over the FBI warning!!! Back in the day, that FBI warning was almost sacred - FBI warning THEN movie starts. Nobody started the movie OVER the FBI warning... I am lead to believe that it was possibly the first time that had been done... Understandably irrelevant now, in the days of the internet, but back then? A Pretty Big Fuckin Deal...

Anyway, enough reminiscing. I found this on the drive of 1999 porn I've been posting about - Without further ado, enjoy the very start of UP YOUR ASS 10 !

https://leocaprice.com/up-10.wmv

Disclaimer. I'm NOT saying this is the best dirty talking in the world - I'm not saying others have not done it better... Just that this was one of the first examples of it. Add in she was actually getting fucked as she said that too...

[TheLegacy]

I've been married 3 times - I've been with my wife now for over 13 years and we're enjoying it completely. When I divorced my ex I was one of the few men in Canada that was awarded sole custody of their kids and I hired her as a nanny.

The kids fell in love with her and although at the time I never wanted to marry again but I felt at the time that this was the family I always wanted. I always refer it to the sound of music story for me. Yet I refused to date or show any feelings for fear that i may be rebounding from ex. The divorce took 2 years but during that time I was amazing at how she cared so much for everyone and brought peace back into the house

Afterwards as soon as the divorce went through (and spoke to several life mentors of mine including my dad about it and they saw the fit and gave their blessing as i wanted to make sure I wasn't walking into this with rose colored glasses) so I moved forwarded and started dating her and the rest is history. NOTE: she was such a wonderful mom that even my ex was impressed and agreed to let her adopt the 2 children. Now we have 5 kids and love every moment with them.

[CurrentlySober]

Originally Posted by CurrentlySober

Anyway, enough reminiscing. I found this on the drive of 1999 porn I've been posting about - Without further ado, enjoy the very start of UP YOUR ASS 10 !

https://leocaprice.com/up_10.wmv

Disclaimer. I'm NOT saying this is the best dirty talking in the world - I'm not saying others have not done it better... Just that this was one of the first examples of it. Add in she was actually getting fucked as she said that too...

Fixed Link - Sorry - https://leocaprice.com/up_10.wmv

[JesseQuinn]

technically yes. we got hitched in 2014 as I couldn't move with him to Turks and Caicos (he was offered a good job there and both of us wanted to get out of Canada. 3 words: Arctic Polar Vortex) without marital status

so we eloped in a snow storm in hoodies and jeans. was so awesome. drank champagne courtesy of a local resto that actually believed that we just got married considering our attire and comped us a bottle (helped I knew one of the waitresses) in a snow bank with our impromptu witnesses. one of whom was at city hall that day protesting the mayor at the time removing the pride flag. in all our pictures she was posing with styled thumbs up in sumo squat position

I just went up to her and asked "hey, can you be a witness at our wedding?'. offered to pay her but was completely rebuffed on that. she was all 'absolutely, I love love'. total vibesy woman

were together including living together for about 18 years. I left him 2 1/2 years ago as we wanted diff things out of life. he got really staid and unhappy when we moved to Kingston JA and I tried to fix it but couldn't. I was pretty worn down by that point as well. he just mentally aged 20 years overnight. his dad's influence and smoking too much weed and playing video games or watching movies every fucking moment he wasn't working had a lot to do with it. to this day I do not own a TV. 'pon the TV rack mounted to the wall in my current pad I have hung Ugandan masks and Indonesian scarves. much more me

I had to make a new life for myself in a new to me country and had to do it alone as he wasn't interested. even tho he was raised here. never even wanted to see his friends from back in the day. rather I'd be the one to par with them, solo

we parted amicably, are still close and talk often. he initiated a reconciliation but it didn't work, so we both decide to just stay close friends. no matter what I will always love him and I know the same is true for him. he was my first 'real bf' (prior to him I liked and now again enjoy playing the field) and still I threw up when he asked me to move in with him I was so terrified. he waited til I was ready and it was so good

the deal when we split was we would stay married til I got my JA citizenship but I've had that for a while and still neither of us want to file

I'll never get married again (if I'm in something I'm in 1000% and too much to deal with again) so I don't really care. when he meets the right woman (I hope he does, he's far more traditional than me) he can file and zero drama. I'll sign/do whatever. no kids, no shared assets, no lawyers needed

I left with my art, my books, my exercise equipment, my coffee table (I really love my coffee table; all these neat kinda roughly hewed black/brown/grey/purple tiles on top and a wrought iron shelf for books underneath), my bank accounts (we never had a shared one) and the cats. he got the car and household furnishings, all of which I bought as when we landed he didn't have a job yet. was a fair resolution to that 'property/money' ish and far easier than the emotions of saying goodbye mentally before walking out the door

so going on 9 years of 'official' marriage. 18 if you count the years we blissfully lived in sin. 20 and some in total

relationships are complicated. growing apart from a loved one sucks. happy for those years but have totally moved on

consider myself lucky we're still friends. would be weird and painful to cut out someone from my life that was such a significant part of it for half of it

you married OP? what's your story?