Buyer Beware - fris - GoFuckYourself.com

OT-Chris · 06-12-2023, 11:10 AM

Hey everyone,

I just wanted to share my experience with fris and give a warning to others. Unfortunately it's not a good one.

I saw a post in the Buy & Sell section a few months ago about gallery listings and reached out to him. I recognized the name but hadn't dealt with him in the past. We chatted back and forth on pricing and such but on May 10th we sent payment for 30 listings via Paypal in addition to a text file with the galleries to be listed.

He did request the payment as a “friends and family” so he would get the full amount agreed upon and didn't think anything of it. Now I come to realize that it may have been requested as you can't dispute those payments.

Late May 10th he asked for the txt file (which had already been sent) but forwarded it again on May 11th. He acknowledged receipt and responded “I’ll add them to queue.”

There was no discussion for a few weeks but when I was reviewing stats, I noticed there was no traffic from his domain and couldn't locate anything on the site in question. I reached out to him on May 24th and he responded “i toally forgot about you, ill be adding them into the system today.” He also offered to list an additional 4 galleries by way of apology.

June 5th still no traffic or listings so I sent another email. No response.

June 9th I emailed him again and pm'd him here on GFY asking for the listings to go live or refund the original transaction. His response was “Posts should have been added I’ll talk to our submitter I’ll add them Myself.”

As of today still no traffic or listings although I see he has been quite active here on GFY. I searched through the GFY archives and it seems he has had some issues in the past so guess it's on me for not doing my due diligence.

Thought I'd share my experience.

Cheers!
-c

J. Falcon · 06-12-2023, 11:12 AM

That sucks.

King Mark · 06-12-2023, 11:49 AM

Damn bruh

Lief Thorson · 06-12-2023, 12:09 PM

Two sides to every story. Sometimes even more.

fris · 06-12-2023, 12:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OT-Chris

Hey everyone,

I just wanted to share my experience with fris and give a warning to others. Unfortunately it's not a good one.

I saw a post in the Buy & Sell section a few months ago about gallery listings and reached out to him. I recognized the name but hadn't dealt with him in the past. We chatted back and forth on pricing and such but on May 10th we sent payment for 30 listings via Paypal in addition to a text file with the galleries to be listed.

He did request the payment as a “friends and family” so he would get the full amount agreed upon and didn't think anything of it. Now I come to realize that it may have been requested as you can't dispute those payments.

Late May 10th he asked for the txt file (which had already been sent) but forwarded it again on May 11th. He acknowledged receipt and responded “I’ll add them to queue.”

There was no discussion for a few weeks but when I was reviewing stats, I noticed there was no traffic from his domain and couldn't locate anything on the site in question. I reached out to him on May 24th and he responded “i toally forgot about you, ill be adding them into the system today.” He also offered to list an additional 4 galleries by way of apology.

June 5th still no traffic or listings so I sent another email. No response.

June 9th I emailed him again and pm'd him here on GFY asking for the listings to go live or refund the original transaction. His response was “Posts should have been added I’ll talk to our submitter I’ll add them Myself.”

As of today still no traffic or listings although I see he has been quite active here on GFY. I searched through the GFY archives and it seems he has had some issues in the past so guess it's on me for not doing my due diligence.

Thought I'd share my experience.

Cheers!
-c

your gallery listings should have been added, everyone that has bought listings before always had them listed, and are repeat buyers, all ads have been fullfilled always on the site.

you wil see traffic coming your way tomorrow.

fris · 06-12-2023, 12:28 PM

i have personally added the next 7 days of listings for you, first one is already up.

machinegunkelly · 06-12-2023, 12:51 PM

Ive done hundreds of transactions with fris over the years and I've never ever had a problem.

Kaos_internet · 06-12-2023, 01:25 PM

Never ever do "friends & family"... (no judgment on Fris, no idea who it is)

plsureking · 06-12-2023, 08:49 PM

ya you can't do business like this anymore. maybe in the gold rush days when there were too many b2b buyers. nowadays you need to get on everything asap..

OT-Chris is a legend

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brassmonkey · 06-12-2023, 08:55 PM

if you need listings hit me up

geirlur · 06-13-2023, 02:56 AM

took forever to get galleries posted, not sure if all even appeared

Hopefully this could motivate him to get better routines

emmasexytime · 06-13-2023, 03:11 AM

where are the galleries submitted?

k0nr4d · 06-13-2023, 04:19 AM

Fris has been around forever, he's not gonna rip anyone off.

3xmedia · 06-13-2023, 04:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by k0nr4d

Fris has been around forever, he's not gonna rip anyone off.

never dealt with fris but I recall he had some issues in the past, plus he stopped posting here in 2017 and reappeared last December and immediately started offering various kind of stuff.

OT-Chris · 06-13-2023, 05:52 AM

So I thought it only fair to update this post.

fris reached out to me here and via email to apologize. I can confirm that our first gallery was published yesterday with another one published today. He has also sent me a screenshot of some scheduled posts.

I've asked him to let me know when the remainder are scheduled.

Thanks to others who have reached out as well. Greatly appreciated.

Cheers,
-c

jscott · 06-13-2023, 01:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OT-Chris

So I thought it only fair to update this post.

fris reached out to me here and via email to apologize. I can confirm that our first gallery was published yesterday with another one published today. He has also sent me a screenshot of some scheduled posts.

I've asked him to let me know when the remainder are scheduled.

Thanks to others who have reached out as well. Greatly appreciated.

Cheers,
-c

Good to see a happy ending guys

Focus · 06-13-2023, 02:15 PM

Been there as well mate sorry to hear it, I lost a couple of hundred dollars for the directory listings he built a few years ago and never got the end product and did the same with PayPal family & friends. Forgive but never Forget.

fris · 06-13-2023, 02:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Focus

Been there as well mate sorry to hear it, I lost a couple of hundred dollars for the directory listings he built a few years ago and never got the end product and did the same with PayPal family & friends. Forgive but never Forget.

I’ve never ran a directory site or even built one before or have access to directory listings

Closest I have anything to do with directory sites is being listed on porndude

My sites have always been blog based or gallery based I can’t remember dealing with anyone named focus forgive me if I don’t remember

I only started accepting PayPal i always took Paxum as well as I didn’t want to deal with adult and pp

Tjeezers · 06-13-2023, 02:42 PM

and this is why GFY is not dead.

EddyTheDog · 06-13-2023, 04:00 PM

I would say it was was some sort of oversite - His rep is pretty good...

Focus · 06-13-2023, 05:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fris

I’ve never ran a directory site or even built one before or have access to directory listings

Closest I have anything to do with directory sites is being listed on porndude

My sites have always been blog based or gallery based I can’t remember dealing with anyone named focus forgive me if I don’t remember

I only started accepting PayPal i always took Paxum as well as I didn’t want to deal with adult and pp

Perhaps you'll remember this.

https://m.gfy.com/fucking-around-and...-copied-2.html

anyhow, been ages now, last response ill give on an almost 10yrs issue have a great one and good luck with your endeavors.

plsureking · 06-13-2023, 10:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jscott

Good to see a happy ending guys

every thread on gfy should end in a happy ending

i wanted to embed a video but youtube age restricts happy ending videos.

it would be nice to embed redgifs here since it is a porn board.

this is funny:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=brtV-k8aj4Y

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CaptainHowdy · 06-14-2023, 03:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tjeezers

and this is why GFY is not dead.

. . .

1215 · 06-24-2023, 11:17 AM

Fris check your email and send the refund as needed.

Edit. nvm, processor took care of it on their own.

Thanks.

Markul · 06-25-2023, 12:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by k0nr4d

Fris has been around forever, he's not gonna rip anyone off.

This...

k0nr4d · 06-25-2023, 12:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fris

I’ve never ran a directory site or even built one before or have access to directory listings

Closest I have anything to do with directory sites is being listed on porndude

My sites have always been blog based or gallery based I can’t remember dealing with anyone named focus forgive me if I don’t remember

I only started accepting PayPal i always took Paxum as well as I didn’t want to deal with adult and pp

Could have been an imposter? I had a couple over the years that took people for a few hundred pretending to be me...

Rochard · 06-25-2023, 06:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lief Thorson

Two sides to every story. Sometimes even more.

Thank you for that bit of wisdom Baddog.

jscott · 06-25-2023, 08:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rochard

Thank you for that bit of wisdom Baddog.

Prove it? or you still lying as usual Rochard? Dishonesty sure is your credo.

prnmaster · 06-26-2023, 01:59 PM

Have purchased from him before, even sending cash before delivery etc. He is a stand up guy.

brassmonkey · 06-26-2023, 04:46 PM

im black k0nr4d

Lief Thorson · 06-26-2023, 05:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rochard

Thank you for that bit of wisdom Baddog.

You're a stupid little man.

CaptainHowdy · 06-26-2023, 05:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by prnmaster

Have purchased from him before, even sending cash before delivery etc. He is a stand up guy.

What if I told that he made that deal while sitting down ??

06-12-2023, 11:10 AM	#1
OT-Chris Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2019 Posts: 277	Buyer Beware - fris Hey everyone, I just wanted to share my experience with fris and give a warning to others. Unfortunately it's not a good one. I saw a post in the Buy & Sell section a few months ago about gallery listings and reached out to him. I recognized the name but hadn't dealt with him in the past. We chatted back and forth on pricing and such but on May 10th we sent payment for 30 listings via Paypal in addition to a text file with the galleries to be listed. He did request the payment as a “friends and family” so he would get the full amount agreed upon and didn't think anything of it. Now I come to realize that it may have been requested as you can't dispute those payments. Late May 10th he asked for the txt file (which had already been sent) but forwarded it again on May 11th. He acknowledged receipt and responded “I’ll add them to queue.” There was no discussion for a few weeks but when I was reviewing stats, I noticed there was no traffic from his domain and couldn't locate anything on the site in question. I reached out to him on May 24th and he responded “i toally forgot about you, ill be adding them into the system today.” He also offered to list an additional 4 galleries by way of apology. June 5th still no traffic or listings so I sent another email. No response. June 9th I emailed him again and pm'd him here on GFY asking for the listings to go live or refund the original transaction. His response was “Posts should have been added I’ll talk to our submitter I’ll add them Myself.” As of today still no traffic or listings although I see he has been quite active here on GFY. I searched through the GFY archives and it seems he has had some issues in the past so guess it's on me for not doing my due diligence. Thought I'd share my experience. Cheers! -c __________________ OASCash.com - We focus on the erotic, not the extreme! Featuring some of the hottest glamour models in the business!

06-12-2023, 11:12 AM	#2
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06-12-2023, 12:28 PM	#6
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06-12-2023, 12:51 PM	#7
machinegunkelly Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 3,285	Ive done hundreds of transactions with fris over the years and I've never ever had a problem. __________________ dead.

06-12-2023, 01:25 PM	#8
Kaos_internet Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2022 Posts: 191	Never ever do "friends & family"... (no judgment on Fris, no idea who it is) __________________ BEST VPS FOR ALL YOUR NEEDS

06-12-2023, 11:49 AM	#3
King Mark So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2016 Posts: 27,033	Damn bruh

06-12-2023, 12:09 PM	#4
Lief Thorson So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2023 Location: Norway Posts: 528	Two sides to every story. Sometimes even more.

06-12-2023, 08:49 PM	#9
plsureking bored Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: PORNCMS.com Posts: 4,790	ya you can't do business like this anymore. maybe in the gold rush days when there were too many b2b buyers. nowadays you need to get on everything asap.. OT-Chris is a legend # __________________ #

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06-13-2023, 02:56 AM	#11
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06-13-2023, 05:52 AM	#15
OT-Chris Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2019 Posts: 277	So I thought it only fair to update this post. fris reached out to me here and via email to apologize. I can confirm that our first gallery was published yesterday with another one published today. He has also sent me a screenshot of some scheduled posts. I've asked him to let me know when the remainder are scheduled. Thanks to others who have reached out as well. Greatly appreciated. Cheers, -c __________________ OASCash.com - We focus on the erotic, not the extreme! Featuring some of the hottest glamour models in the business!

06-13-2023, 02:15 PM	#17
Focus Last of a dying breed. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Canada Posts: 669	Been there as well mate sorry to hear it, I lost a couple of hundred dollars for the directory listings he built a few years ago and never got the end product and did the same with PayPal family & friends. Forgive but never Forget.

06-13-2023, 02:42 PM	#19
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06-13-2023, 04:00 PM	#20
EddyTheDog Just Doing My Own Thing Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: London, Spain, New Zealand, GFY - Not Croydon... Posts: 25,248	I would say it was was some sort of oversite - His rep is pretty good...

06-24-2023, 11:17 AM	#24
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06-26-2023, 01:59 PM	#29
prnmaster I speak Dutch and English Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2021 Location: Amsterdam Posts: 127	Have purchased from him before, even sending cash before delivery etc. He is a stand up guy.

06-26-2023, 04:46 PM	#30
brassmonkey Pay It Forward Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Yo Mama House Posts: 77,257	im black k0nr4d __________________ TRUMP 2025 KEKAW!!! - The Laken Riley Act Is Law! DACA ENDED - SUPPORT AZ HCR 2060 52R - email: brassballz-at-techie.com