wp script high memory tube

[esham]

Memory Current Usage 7.69 GB / 8.00 GB (96.13%)
S VPS Michigan
MojoVPS

This has been running high for awhile. Can someone help me trouble shoot. Ive tried firewall plugins. Had cloudflare...Loginizer Turned off all plugins. Deleted deactivated ones.

I read something about going into ssh to check running process but haven't looked into that yet.

Is 8gb enough memory. I currently have 300k videos

[fris]

is this during import, or just regular site performance while viewing the site?

[sandman!]

Might be time to upgrade your webhosting plan , I’m sure mojo will help

[esham]

Originally Posted by fris

is this during import, or just regular site performance while viewing the site?

Videos are done nothing new is being generated.

[esham]

Originally Posted by sandman!

Might be time to upgrade your webhosting plan , I’m sure mojo will help

I just did a upgrade to add more space.
The site only gets like 4.5k hits a day

[EddyTheDog]

8Gb should easily be enough with that traffic - Could someone be scraping the vids - Are you hosting all 300K?..

[esham]

Originally Posted by EddyTheDog

8Gb should easily be enough with that traffic - Could someone be scraping the vids - Are you hosting all 300K?..

No videos from mojohost

Wassabi like 3k videos
Rest embeds.

I'll look up how to use ssh when i can. That might give me some where to start.

[esham]

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[2MuchMark]

Do this: open Terminal on your windows or Mac machine, then connect to your server at mojohost via SSH (they should have provided your credentials and instructions already.

Once you are connected, use the "top" or "htop" command to get an overview of processes and their memory usage. Additionally, you can use "ps aux --sort=-%mem" to list processes by memory usage, with the highest consuming ones at the top. The "free" command provides memory usage statistics as well.

This should help you find the problem.

You have a lot of videos - you may want to consider using Amazon AWS S3 Buckets or other solutions like Linode or Azure.

[esham]

I just did that Im not really sure what im looking for in htop.
Pic 979 /usr/sbin/mysqid

runs high
https://imgur.com/a/hTdrrHU

I killed that process usage seems to be dropping but ill have to check on it later

[adtrafic]

Use an external database in some small vps.

[plsureking]

high memory is almost always db related (if its not ffmpeg related lol). check your queries. might be getting hit without knowing it.

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[SevY]

Use mysql persistent connections. 90% of overloads on common LAMP/LNMP setups is from huge internal connections overhead. Also consider using some sort of cache system both on youw webapp (WP in your case) and on your DB setup, such as memcached.

[2MuchMark]

Originally Posted by adtrafic

Use an external database in some small vps.

Good idea. If your database is running on the same machine consider moving it to a different one. You can get a second server for as little as $5 per month at Linode.com

[NoWhErE]

As mentionned, looks like it's a DB issue.

This is often due to poorly designed template code (too many queries). You'll also need to integrate a better caching system. Users hitting your site should rarely require SQL queries if your site is properly cached.

If it's not a caching issue, then there is something in your site that is running queries and overloading your system. This is usually caused by a plugin trying to audit your site or something.

[esham]

I'm currently running at 70% last 2 days, so i guess im ok with that.
Ive been using some plugins for cache. I'm not sure what i did to fix it. Hopefully Page experience will detect desktop again.

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Page is no longer taking forever and loads in 1sec
I will look into n AWS S3 Buckets or Linode in the future as needed.

Thanks for the replies

[plsureking]

Originally Posted by esham

I'm currently running at 70% last 2 days, so i guess im ok with that.
Ive been using some plugins for cache. I'm not sure what i did to fix it. Hopefully Page experience will detect desktop again.

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Page is no longer taking forever and loads in 1sec
I will look into n AWS S3 Buckets or Linode in the future as needed.

Thanks for the replies

all it takes is a DDOS attack hitting some high resource page.

i see attacks come thru my network all the time. my cpus never get hot tho (i don't run mysql on my cms network).

check your logs

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[esham]

Originally Posted by plsureking

all it takes is a DDOS attack hitting some high resource page.

i see attacks come thru my network all the time. my cpus never get hot tho (i don't run mysql on my cms network).

check your logs

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Yeah I know i had cloudflare on. Now im on another plugin. I turned Loginizer on to try and solve it.

[Huggles]

Originally Posted by esham

Memory Current Usage 7.69 GB / 8.00 GB (96.13%)
S VPS Michigan
MojoVPS

Is 8gb enough memory. I currently have 300k videos

Why do people run these trash Wordpress sites with embedded videos from the big tubes?

Why?

[NatalieMojoHost]

Hi Esham,
I'm glad you were able to resolve the problem for the time being. If it happens again, getting a small support package if you don't already have one and asking our team for insights and tuning is always an option. Also, if you do want to use an S3 storage solution, MojoHost offers a drop-in replacement for AWS's S3. This said, you mentioned already mostly doing that with Wasabi, not sure it is relevant for the current problem.

[brassmonkey]

Originally Posted by Huggles

Why do people run these trash Wordpress sites with embedded videos from the big tubes?

Why?

some of the biggest news outlets in the world run wordpress. with tons of embeds...

[Huggles]

Originally Posted by brassmonkey

some of the biggest news outlets in the world run wordpress. with tons of embeds...

Not too long ago I sat at my PC and just did a ton of searching on various keywords and the only sites that came up in the top like.. what seemed like top 20+ results were all xvideos or xhamster, and the rest was just the rest of the cookie cutter sites:
1. "porn list" type sites we've all seen, not to knock them, they are comprehensive!
2. "porn tube clones" no matter what script they're running, everything else is a tube. The sites offer nothing new. The innovation pretty much stopped.

[Colmike9]

Originally Posted by Huggles

Not too long ago I sat at my PC and just did a ton of searching on various keywords and the only sites that came up in the top like.. what seemed like top 20+ results were all xvideos or xhamster, and the rest was just the rest of the cookie cutter sites:
1. "porn list" type sites we've all seen, not to knock them, they are comprehensive!
2. "porn tube clones" no matter what script they're running, everything else is a tube. The sites offer nothing new. The innovation pretty much stopped.

But then Only Fans came along and changed the game, and affiliates don't make money on it, so it seems like the innovation is gone lol..

[plsureking]

Originally Posted by Colmike9

But then Only Fans came along and changed the game, and affiliates don't make money on it, so it seems like the innovation is gone lol..

we are way past wide acceptance of online porn. that's the only good thing. the bad thing is it takes a lot of work and money to make any return in online porn. its being done, i have clients growing, and i also have clients failing. quite a few little ones this year.

the client who didn't want to pay you last year for that marketing work doesn't want to pay me now.

the economy is shit, and the industry is crowded, but i'm still optimistic.

we just gotta ignore the losers and stay focused on the work. sit down at the desk 8+ hours a day, even if there's nothing to do. at least we can post on gfy. there's many failed and retired webmasters and owners still hanging around here.

off topic again i think

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[Colmike9]

Originally Posted by plsureking

we are way past wide acceptance of online porn. that's the only good thing. the bad thing is it takes a lot of work and money to make any return in online porn. its being done, i have clients growing, and i also have clients failing. quite a few little ones this year.

the client who didn't want to pay you last year for that marketing work doesn't want to pay me now.

the economy is shit, and the industry is crowded, but i'm still optimistic.

we just gotta ignore the losers and stay focused on the work. sit down at the desk 8+ hours a day, even if there's nothing to do. at least we can post on gfy. there's many failed and retired webmasters and owners still hanging around here.

off topic again i think

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True, it's definitely more accepted now than it was, but I meant like, a big platform that got popular quick with subscriptions, micro transactions, girls are "independent..", feels more real, get 80%, and no middle man unless you're like a manager for other accounts. That sucks for affiliates and paysite owners lol.

Yah, I didn't like working with him.. Sorry he's not paying you now.

For the smaller sites, they have to do more than just SEO these days, much more ways to find porn now than SEs, at least in ways where they're more likely to pull out their cc.

Yep, keep hustling. I might not be in the industry anymore, idk lol, but I still work on sites and is decent beer money.
But, working in a lab kinda sucks now, I can't have music on anymore because I played Slipknot too loud one day and someone down the hall complained, but I still do it anyways lol


The topic is close enough

[Colmike9]

Originally Posted by Huggles

Why do people run these trash Wordpress sites with embedded videos from the big tubes?

Why?

Because they take like 5 minutes to make, also those embeds/redirects make them money. Like this: https://partners.xhamster.com/

[Huggles]

Originally Posted by Colmike9

Because they take like 5 minutes to make, also those embeds/redirects make them money. Like this: https://partners.xhamster.com/

Seems like feeding the big tube sites is just more nails in the coffin of affiliate marketing.


Especially when those big tube sites have not innovated or done anything cool at all.

[plsureking]

Originally Posted by Colmike9

True, it's definitely more accepted now than it was, but I meant like, a big platform that got popular quick with subscriptions, micro transactions, girls are "independent..", feels more real, get 80%, and no middle man unless you're like a manager for other accounts. That sucks for affiliates and paysite owners lol.

yea OF killed the solo paysite business, tubes killed generic porn.

all the fetishes are still rocking and rolling tho. i have many fetish clients who are still opening new sites.

the key to a profitable paysite in 2023 is you need to pick a specific fetish and build a focused site. then build another one. and another one...

• decent design and tour

• grow your library (at least weekly updates)

• good customer support

• weekly KIT newsletters

i got kinda bummed this year because 10% of my site owners closed their accounts due to this recession. however, after deep thought - bong hits - i realized all of them were missing at least a couple things on that list.

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[Colmike9]

Originally Posted by plsureking

yea OF killed the solo paysite business, tubes killed generic porn.

all the fetishes are still rocking and rolling tho. i have many fetish clients who are still opening new sites.

the key to a profitable paysite in 2023 is you need to pick a specific fetish and build a focused site. then build another one. and another one...

• decent design and tour

• grow your library (at least weekly updates)

• good customer support

• weekly KIT newsletters

i got kinda bummed this year because 10% of my site owners closed their accounts due to this recession. however, after deep thought - bong hits - i realized all of them were missing at least a couple things on that list.

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So, I just have to think more weird, got it.
I did that before, made pretty good with niche and micro-niche, especially when the little ones added all up in CCBill, but then... Anyone know where Twan went?... Just curious lol

Yeah, a lot of it is keeping up on regular things like newsletters, promos, updates, keep things up to date, even if there's nothing really new, make it look like it is and not abandoned, get back to support tickets quick, etc. Sometimes sites will look so old and abandoned that it seems like paying for a sub just won't work lol.

btw I also just did bong hits, and for some reason is the first time that I got a bag from a real commercial company in a sealed bag with a logo and lab tested. Much stronger than I'm used to lol.

[plsureking]

Originally Posted by Colmike9

btw I also just did bong hits, and for some reason is the first time that I got a bag from a real commercial company in a sealed bag with a logo and lab tested. Much stronger than I'm used to lol.

nice its been real in Thailand since deregulation. kg in the mail

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[Colmike9]

Originally Posted by plsureking

nice its been real in Thailand since deregulation. kg in the mail

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Nice! I mean, I still usually only get good nug, no mids for about 10 years now lol, but this commercial stuff is powerful compared to my usual. They left the price tag on it, though, $16 for an 8th in a store. ..They better legalize it here in November lol.

[fris]

what theme are you using?