Calling all Female Webmistresses - GoFuckYourself.com

Muffy · 12-15-2002, 11:57 AM

Hello Ladies,

I am writing an article on the pros and cons of being a female webmaster in the adult industry and I would love to hear from you. If you would like some free publicity, please get in contact with me. Here is what I want to know:
> what it is like to be a female webmaster in a male dominated industry
> prejudices that you have experienced
> interesting stories
> etc.
Please get in touch with me either by email ([email protected]) ICQ # 62863562, or post your experiences in this thread.

Thanks to all in advance!

Muffy

pr0 · 12-15-2002, 12:00 PM

pr0 · 12-15-2002, 12:01 PM

fnet · 12-15-2002, 12:02 PM

Quote:

or post your experiences in this thread.

How professional of you.

pr0 · 12-15-2002, 12:03 PM

someone hook this guy up with the "feel good" guy of the year award

Sly_RJ · 12-15-2002, 12:07 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pr0
someone hook this guy up with the "feel good" guy of the year award

I think Muffy is a woman. Hence the article.

I'm writing an article about being a black midget in the industry. Any takers?

pr0 · 12-15-2002, 12:08 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sly_RJ

I think Muffy is a woman. Hence the article.

I'm writing an article about being a black midget in the industry. Any takers?

All you gotta be is gay, black or a woman & everyone has to be nice to you. I really wish i was a gay black woman

cherrylula · 12-15-2002, 12:11 PM

I have a friend who is a gay black female. No doubt she could kick your ass.

fiveyes · 12-15-2002, 12:14 PM

Sorry, I cracked up when I noticed "A man trapped in a woman's body" under your name on this posting, Muffy. COEENKADEENK!

Muffy · 12-15-2002, 12:17 PM

How nice...I post to try to get some responses from the other females on the board and all I get is some lame responses from a bunch of guys with the IQs of braindead ants...

and yes I am a woman!

fnet · 12-15-2002, 12:24 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Muffy
lame responses from a bunch of guys with the IQs of braindead ants...

Thanks, love. Why don't you try seeking out the people you think would be good for your article instead of asking them to "post their experiences". Could you possibly be more aimless?

lilbitch · 12-15-2002, 12:30 PM

Well muffy...looks like the couple posts following yours pretty much cover areas one and two, huh? Quite the typical attitude towards females in this industry...for some reason, it's thought that we should all just be content, and so we're treated as such. And as to what pr0 says about everybody being nice to ya if youre a chick...well, for the most part, thats only when they think they might have the opportunity to bang ya, hehe! Dont get me wrong, I'm not saying that's true about all the guys in the biz, because there are many whom I know to be rather upstanding and respectful (can ya believe it? lol!) But they are few and far between.

Feel free to ICQ me....I got a list of about a bazillion prejudices, if youre interested. 29109639

Muffy · 12-15-2002, 12:31 PM

I cannot believe this...I try to write an article that gets many views and opinions and the only opinions that I get from you guys are ones that have nothing to do with anything ... go figure

Muffy · 12-15-2002, 12:32 PM

Thanks lilbitch....finally a woman steps up...hahaha...

I will definately be in touch!

pr0 · 12-15-2002, 12:33 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Muffy
I cannot believe this...I try to write an article that gets many views and opinions and the only opinions that I get from you guys are ones that have nothing to do with anything ... go figure

I'm a black lesbian trapped in a mans body

flashfreak · 12-15-2002, 12:34 PM

wrong board Muffy.. just my

cherrylula · 12-15-2002, 12:37 PM

Muffy · 12-15-2002, 12:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by flashfreak
wrong board Muffy.. just my

I don't think so. I have actually received some great feedback from women on this board already!

EscortBiz · 12-15-2002, 12:37 PM

The fact is anyone who will be honest will tell you that many (not all) are a bitch to deal with in anything.

Sell something to a women you will never hear the end of it
Get a women to do work for you (always almost be late because it's that time of month or something)
Put a bit to much pressue and its sexual harrassment

Thats what myself and many others have experienced so instead of writing what women experienced write what men experience with women and tell these fuckin women to change or go fuck themselves

dasexi1 · 12-15-2002, 12:43 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pr0

All you gotta be is gay, black or a woman & everyone has to be nice to you. I really wish i was a gay black woman

Well damn is that all it takes? You all should be kissing my feet then cause I'm 2 1/2 out of three

woman, black and bi

here is my list of nice things that you all have to do for me

1. give me all your traffic
2. send me large amounts of money
3. drop rose pettles everywhere I walk
4. update all my sites for me

thats all for now, i don't want to be greedy or anything...
now get to work! i'm waiting!!

Muffy · 12-15-2002, 12:43 PM

interesting perspective EscortBiz

Hot Tropical Babes · 12-15-2002, 12:45 PM

Muffy, Hi sweets, I will be as helpful to your article as I can be.

The prejudices a woman suffers is prime example of the first few posts to this thread. A weak woman will not fucking survive in this industry.

However, alot of the women you see on this board are wonderful hardworking strong webmistresses who dont take no shit.

My word of advice, Ignore the lowlife board whores who only post on this thread to deflame. They are not worth the price of a flyswatter that would squish them

Undutchable · 12-15-2002, 12:46 PM

What about the male webmistresses?

cherrylula · 12-15-2002, 12:47 PM

estrogen happens

cherrylula · 12-15-2002, 12:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Undutchable
What about the male webmistresses?

Sly_RJ · 12-15-2002, 12:49 PM

There's a difference between woman and bitches.

There's a deference between men and assholes.

I know all of the above. I treat them all accordingly.

Hot Tropical Babes · 12-15-2002, 12:50 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by cherrylula
estrogen happens

This is one example that deflaming also comes from females. Lulllla gets on her high horse at times, reasons unknown.

Hot Tropical Babes · 12-15-2002, 12:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sly_RJ
There's a difference between woman and bitches.

There's a deference between men and assholes.

I know all of the above. I treat them all accordingly.

I am soooooo proud of him!!!!!!!

I knew he got all my genes

LunaC · 12-15-2002, 12:52 PM

This thread is such a perfect example of what you were asking for, I hardly know what to add. Gets a little old sometimes, but mostly I figure the mysogynists can gofuckthemselves.

Cheshire · 12-15-2002, 12:53 PM

Alot of the time when a male member calls the office, they hesitate telling me what site they're calling about. I have to say that it's okay to tell me, and then they do.

I think it's cute.

Tam · 12-15-2002, 12:53 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sly_RJ
There's a difference between woman and bitches.

There's a deference between men and assholes.

I know all of the above. I treat them all accordingly.

VERY well put and exactly what MY line of attack was in my submission to this Article thing was about......... treat people according to how they ASK to be treated.....

There are women, both in this business and not, that I would love to just walk up to and bitch slap because they think they are "owed" something because they are women....... and on the other hand, I have a few men I feel the same way about.

I ain't prejediced, I just hate everyone equally..... where did I hear that? LMAO

dasexi1 · 12-15-2002, 12:54 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by EscortBiz
Thats what myself and many others have experienced so instead of writing what women experienced write what men experience with women and tell these fuckin women to change or go fuck themselves

I think we are all familar with the male pig perspective of women. It's nothing new. Idiots like you should be hog tied and shot.
Just my opinion of course you probably think it's PMS.

Hot Tropical Babes · 12-15-2002, 12:55 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Tam

VERY well put and exactly what MY line of attack was in my submission to this Article thing was about......... treat people according to how they ASK to be treated.....

There are women, both in this business and not, that I would love to just walk up to and bitch slap because they think they are "owed" something because they are women....... and on the other hand, I have a few men I feel the same way about.

I ain't prejediced, I just hate everyone equally..... where did I hear that? LMAO

See, why I love her dammit LOL
she also gives me wild daily spankings too..... hehehehehe

Gary · 12-15-2002, 12:59 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Cheshire
Alot of the time when a male member calls the office, they hesitate telling me what site they're calling about. I have to say that it's okay to tell me, and then they do.

I think it's cute.

hahahahahahaha

I called ccbill support a while back, a woman who sounded like my grandmother answered, asked me which site, and im like

ummmmmm virginassfucking.com....maam.

LOL

Muffy · 12-15-2002, 01:02 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Gary

hahahahahahaha

I called ccbill support a while back, a woman who sounded like my grandmother answered, asked me which site, and im like

ummmmmm virginassfucking.com....maam.

LOL

I never considered this aspect...I will have to add it to my article...lol

Tam · 12-15-2002, 01:13 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Hot Tropical Babes

See, why I love her dammit LOL
she also gives me wild daily spankings too..... hehehehehe

Spanking you is always a joy!! But you know this......

Now I hafta get Deb back in line, she has been a bit rebellious lately, care to help me?

Samantha_Luvcox · 12-15-2002, 01:15 PM

How about "husband and Wife" ? We BOTH run our sites together. We have had our fair share of meeting the total assholes in the industry and the fortunate meeting of some really great people the industry. I'm sure we will meet BOTH types when we come to Vegas this year. We really think that this businesness is not much different than our former jobs, there where good people and assholes there also. Actually I do most of the PR for our sites while my husband works on more of the content part of the sites, so I tend to deal with people as much or more than he does. I think people will treat you with the same respect that you give, I do a lot of LIVE camshows and have watched others do them as well, I have seen girls get totally flamed by those watchiing (which is sad) But, our viewers always treat me with respect. When we do have the odd jerk, other views tend to take care of the problem before we even have a chance to repond

We have been very pleased with the comments and the treatment we have gotten here on GFY when we ask a question. The feedback here is honest if the question is honest. Feel free to contect us at ICQ 4009474 If you would like to chat more about it

Kissess

Samantha Luvcox
www.extremehole.com

Hot Tropical Babes · 12-15-2002, 01:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Tam

Spanking you is always a joy!! But you know this......
Now I hafta get Deb back in line, she has been a bit rebellious lately, care to help me?

Yes, I'll hold her, while you lett the beatings begin LOL

where is she anyway!!!

pr0 · 12-15-2002, 01:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by dasexi1

Well damn is that all it takes? You all should be kissing my feet then cause I'm 2 1/2 out of three

woman, black and bi

here is my list of nice things that you all have to do for me

1. give me all your traffic
2. send me large amounts of money
3. drop rose pettles everywhere I walk
4. update all my sites for me

thats all for now, i don't want to be greedy or anything...
now get to work! i'm waiting!!

everyone except me

lilbitch · 12-15-2002, 01:21 PM

yeah, there've been times I wish I could see the looks on the faces of the guys inquiring about something when I answered the phone...priceless moments, for sure!

Bitchdom
When I stand up for myself and my beliefs,
they call me a bitch.
When I stand up for those I love,
they call me a bitch.
When I speak my mind,
think my own thoughts
or do things my own way,
they call me a bitch.

Being a bitch means I won't compromise
what's in my heart.
It means I live my life MY way.
It means I won't
allow anyone to step on me.
When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak
against it,
I am defined as a bitch

The same thing happens when I take time for
myself instead of being everyone's maid,
or when I act a little selfish.
It means I have the courage and strength to
allow myself to be who I truly am
and won't become anyone else's idea
of what they think I "should" be.
I am outspoken, opinionated and determined.
By God, I want what I want and
there is nothing wrong with that!

So try to stomp on me,
try to douse my inner flame,
try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me.
You won't succeed.

And if that makes me a bitch, so be it.

I embrace the title and am proud to bear it!

B - Babe
I - In
T - Total
C - Control of
H - Herself

B = Beautiful
I = Intelligent
T = Talented
C = Charming
H = Hell of a Woman

From the Sisterhood of BITCHDOM!!!
May we all get what we want,
when we want it and how we want it,
because we sure as hell deserve it!

**wish I knew who wrote this, but whoever it was, KUDOS!!**

Muffy, the fact that we're treated as nothing more than content, and looked down upon as being a "bitch" when we do not conform to what the dominant force in this industry wants, pretty much sums up the experiences of most of us, I'd think. The women in this industry have alot more intelligence than we're given credit for, for sure!

Sly_RJ · 12-15-2002, 01:24 PM

Any of you ladies care to define "asshole" for me?

I hear it quite often (not me personally).

What's an asshole?

Hot Tropical Babes · 12-15-2002, 01:24 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by lilbitch
yeah, there've been times I wish I could see the looks on the faces of the guys inquiring about something when I answered the phone...priceless moments, for sure!

Bitchdom
When I stand up for myself and my beliefs,
they call me a bitch.
When I stand up for those I love,
they call me a bitch.
When I speak my mind,
think my own thoughts
or do things my own way,
they call me a bitch.

Being a bitch means I won't compromise
what's in my heart.
It means I live my life MY way.
It means I won't
allow anyone to step on me.
When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak
against it,
I am defined as a bitch

The same thing happens when I take time for
myself instead of being everyone's maid,
or when I act a little selfish.
It means I have the courage and strength to
allow myself to be who I truly am
and won't become anyone else's idea
of what they think I "should" be.
I am outspoken, opinionated and determined.
By God, I want what I want and
there is nothing wrong with that!

So try to stomp on me,
try to douse my inner flame,
try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me.
You won't succeed.

And if that makes me a bitch, so be it.

I embrace the title and am proud to bear it!

B - Babe
I - In
T - Total
C - Control of
H - Herself

B = Beautiful
I = Intelligent
T = Talented
C = Charming
H = Hell of a Woman

From the Sisterhood of BITCHDOM!!!
May we all get what we want,
when we want it and how we want it,
because we sure as hell deserve it!

**wish I knew who wrote this, but whoever it was, KUDOS!!**

Muffy, the fact that we're treated as nothing more than content, and looked down upon as being a "bitch" when we do not conform to what the dominant force in this industry wants, pretty much sums up the experiences of most of us, I'd think. The women in this industry have alot more intelligence than we're given credit for, for sure!

Good stuff

lilbitch · 12-15-2002, 01:29 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sly_RJ
Any of you ladies care to define "asshole" for me?

I hear it quite often (not me personally).

What's an asshole?

well, sly, according to dictionary.com...

2 entries found for asshole.

ass·hole ( P ) Pronunciation Key (shl)
n. Vulgar Slang
1. . The anus.
2. A thoroughly contemptible, detestable person.
3. The most miserable or undesirable place in a particular area

asshole
n 1: (obscene) insulting terms of address [syn: bastard, cocksucker, shit, mother fucker, motherfucker, mother, prick, son of a bitch, SOB] 2: excretory opening at the end of the alimentary canal [syn: anus, arse, arsehole]

definition enuff??

Sly_RJ · 12-15-2002, 01:32 PM

And here I was hoping for one of those fancy descriptions!

fnet · 12-15-2002, 01:33 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sly_RJ
Any of you ladies care to define "asshole" for me?

I hear it quite often (not me personally).

What's an asshole?

A Sleazy Sycophantic Herder Of Lurid Emus?

Oh, wait, I'm a guy. Sorry.

I don't think this thread is going to attain sex equilibrium.

Hot Tropical Babes · 12-15-2002, 01:33 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sly_RJ
And here I was hoping for one of those fancy descriptions!

asshole=something/someone full of shit

lilbitch · 12-15-2002, 01:34 PM

2: excretory opening at the end of the alimentary canal

pretty much sums up my feelings about some people, lol!

cherrylula · 12-15-2002, 01:35 PM

Tam · 12-15-2002, 01:36 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sly_RJ
And here I was hoping for one of those fancy descriptions!

There are women, both in this business and not, that I would love to just walk up to and bitch slap because they think they are "owed" something because they are women

replace all instances of women with the word men and THAT is an asshole.......

In women it is a bitch, in men it is an asshole...... same rules apply to both. If you "expect" to be treated a certain way because of your gender or color, whatever, then women are bitches and men are assholes......... it's how I see it anyways. LOL

Sly_RJ · 12-15-2002, 01:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Hot Tropical Babes

asshole=something/someone full of shit

Stop picking on me.

12-15-2002, 11:57 AM	#1
Muffy Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Toronto and Italy Posts: 494	Calling all Female Webmistresses Hello Ladies, I am writing an article on the pros and cons of being a female webmaster in the adult industry and I would love to hear from you. If you would like some free publicity, please get in contact with me. Here is what I want to know: > what it is like to be a female webmaster in a male dominated industry > prejudices that you have experienced > interesting stories > etc. Please get in touch with me either by email ([email protected]) ICQ # 62863562, or post your experiences in this thread. Thanks to all in advance! Muffy __________________ How Do I Measure Up? Need Something Written? I do press Releases, Articles, Websites, Marketing Materials, adult stories and more! Email [email protected] for more information

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Muffy Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Toronto and Italy Posts: 494	How nice...I post to try to get some responses from the other females on the board and all I get is some lame responses from a bunch of guys with the IQs of braindead ants... and yes I am a woman! __________________ How Do I Measure Up? Need Something Written? I do press Releases, Articles, Websites, Marketing Materials, adult stories and more! Email [email protected] for more information

12-15-2002, 12:30 PM	#12
lilbitch Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Southern California Posts: 122	Well muffy...looks like the couple posts following yours pretty much cover areas one and two, huh? Quite the typical attitude towards females in this industry...for some reason, it's thought that we should all just be content, and so we're treated as such. And as to what pr0 says about everybody being nice to ya if youre a chick...well, for the most part, thats only when they think they might have the opportunity to bang ya, hehe! Dont get me wrong, I'm not saying that's true about all the guys in the biz, because there are many whom I know to be rather upstanding and respectful (can ya believe it? lol!) But they are few and far between. Feel free to ICQ me....I got a list of about a bazillion prejudices, if youre interested. 29109639 __________________ Oxeo Rocks...Just ask 'em! ?&%@!

12-15-2002, 12:31 PM	#13
Muffy Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Toronto and Italy Posts: 494	I cannot believe this...I try to write an article that gets many views and opinions and the only opinions that I get from you guys are ones that have nothing to do with anything ... go figure __________________ How Do I Measure Up? Need Something Written? I do press Releases, Articles, Websites, Marketing Materials, adult stories and more! Email [email protected] for more information

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pr0 rockin tha trailerpark Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Location: ~Coastal~ Posts: 23,088	someone hook this guy up with the "feel good" guy of the year award

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cherrylula lol Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 15,969	I have a friend who is a gay black female. No doubt she could kick your ass.

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Muffy Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Toronto and Italy Posts: 494	Thanks lilbitch....finally a woman steps up...hahaha... I will definately be in touch! __________________ How Do I Measure Up? Need Something Written? I do press Releases, Articles, Websites, Marketing Materials, adult stories and more! Email [email protected] for more information

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cherrylula lol Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 15,969

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Muffy Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Toronto and Italy Posts: 494	interesting perspective EscortBiz __________________ How Do I Measure Up? Need Something Written? I do press Releases, Articles, Websites, Marketing Materials, adult stories and more! Email [email protected] for more information Last edited by Muffy; 12-15-2002 at 12:44 PM..

12-15-2002, 12:45 PM	#22
Hot Tropical Babes Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Orlando FL Posts: 3,014	Muffy, Hi sweets, I will be as helpful to your article as I can be. The prejudices a woman suffers is prime example of the first few posts to this thread. A weak woman will not fucking survive in this industry. However, alot of the women you see on this board are wonderful hardworking strong webmistresses who dont take no shit. My word of advice, Ignore the lowlife board whores who only post on this thread to deflame. They are not worth the price of a flyswatter that would squish them __________________ <BR> Trade with Big Tits TGP Trade with Titman

12-15-2002, 12:46 PM	#23
Undutchable Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 2,217	What about the male webmistresses?

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LunaC Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: USA Posts: 148	This thread is such a perfect example of what you were asking for, I hardly know what to add. Gets a little old sometimes, but mostly I figure the mysogynists can gofuckthemselves.

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Cheshire Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Rosen-Villin Posts: 5,738	Alot of the time when a male member calls the office, they hesitate telling me what site they're calling about. I have to say that it's okay to tell me, and then they do. I think it's cute. __________________ just a little bit naughty

12-15-2002, 01:15 PM	#37
Samantha_Luvcox Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: On a computer near you Posts: 396	How about "husband and Wife" ? We BOTH run our sites together. We have had our fair share of meeting the total assholes in the industry and the fortunate meeting of some really great people the industry. I'm sure we will meet BOTH types when we come to Vegas this year. We really think that this businesness is not much different than our former jobs, there where good people and assholes there also. Actually I do most of the PR for our sites while my husband works on more of the content part of the sites, so I tend to deal with people as much or more than he does. I think people will treat you with the same respect that you give, I do a lot of LIVE camshows and have watched others do them as well, I have seen girls get totally flamed by those watchiing (which is sad) But, our viewers always treat me with respect. When we do have the odd jerk, other views tend to take care of the problem before we even have a chance to repond We have been very pleased with the comments and the treatment we have gotten here on GFY when we ask a question. The feedback here is honest if the question is honest. Feel free to contect us at ICQ 4009474 If you would like to chat more about it Kissess Samantha Luvcox www.extremehole.com __________________ SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, then you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60. Last edited by Samantha_Luvcox; 12-15-2002 at 01:16 PM..

12-15-2002, 01:21 PM	#40
lilbitch Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Southern California Posts: 122	yeah, there've been times I wish I could see the looks on the faces of the guys inquiring about something when I answered the phone...priceless moments, for sure! Bitchdom When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch. When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch. When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way, they call me a bitch. Being a bitch means I won't compromise what's in my heart. It means I live my life MY way. It means I won't allow anyone to step on me. When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am defined as a bitch The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish. It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be. I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. By God, I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that! So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me. You won't succeed. And if that makes me a bitch, so be it. I embrace the title and am proud to bear it! B - Babe I - In T - Total C - Control of H - Herself B = Beautiful I = Intelligent T = Talented C = Charming H = Hell of a Woman From the Sisterhood of BITCHDOM!!! May we all get what we want, when we want it and how we want it, because we sure as hell deserve it! wish I knew who wrote this, but whoever it was, KUDOS!! Muffy, the fact that we're treated as nothing more than content, and looked down upon as being a "bitch" when we do not conform to what the dominant force in this industry wants, pretty much sums up the experiences of most of us, I'd think. The women in this industry have alot more intelligence than we're given credit for, for sure! __________________ Oxeo Rocks...Just ask 'em! ?&%@!

12-15-2002, 01:24 PM	#41
Sly_RJ Live Hard - Die Hard Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Ready to leave... Posts: 17,042	Any of you ladies care to define "asshole" for me? I hear it quite often (not me personally). What's an asshole? __________________ PHAT SERVERS - Quality dedicated hosting at a quality price! sly AT phatservers DOT com - 147479144

12-15-2002, 01:32 PM	#44
Sly_RJ Live Hard - Die Hard Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Ready to leave... Posts: 17,042	And here I was hoping for one of those fancy descriptions! __________________ PHAT SERVERS - Quality dedicated hosting at a quality price! sly AT phatservers DOT com - 147479144

12-15-2002, 01:34 PM	#47
lilbitch Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Southern California Posts: 122	2: excretory opening at the end of the alimentary canal pretty much sums up my feelings about some people, lol! __________________ Oxeo Rocks...Just ask 'em! ?&%@!

12-15-2002, 01:35 PM	#48
cherrylula lol Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 15,969	<img src=http://www.mightywombat.com/toons/asshole.gif>