Question for Producers with Fans - GoFuckYourself.com

digitaldivas · 04-30-2010, 09:56 AM

I have this guy who always wants to meet me. He is a member and lives in Texas. I had met him before and he seemed pretty cool. I have met other people who support me and have never had any probs whatsoever. First time, I was shooting in Texas, met up, he bought me dinner and I went to a strip club with him. Also last year he mailed to my site address a camera. That was last year. This year, this cat is joining my personal facebook, myspace, etc. Well, somehow he got my number and had been calling pretty regularly, last year complimenting my work, this year wanting to actually move to Denver to "help me out", which freaks me out, to be honest.

I did talk to him last week and told him in the nicest way possible that I would never be interested in having a partner and while I did totally appreciate his support as a fan of what I am doing, that I have my online life and my personal life and I was fine with being friends, of course, but rarely establish personal friendships with said fans. To that, he got really pissed, hung up and last night, I got another message from him saying that he understood, just did not have anyone to talk to about his fetish, etc. And he hopes we can still be friends, and won't call anymore.

In the grand scheme of things, beautifulfeetonline isn't even really a "household name". I mean, it's niche foot worship, foot and pantyhose stuff. First time this has happened to me in 10 years of making fetish video. This dude is also on all of the niche perv boards that I am also on. I want to be nice to everyone, but I am just wondering, what you guys do, and how do you say it to both keep your fan happy and at the same time, letting him know that you have no interest in being "golf buddies" with him.

I have been removing alot of my contact info this morning, not that it will do any good really. Just having a hard time figuring out how to adjust exposure when I have a "reality based" foot and pantyhose site. Anyway, for people that make erotic material and have had this issue in the past, any and all advice would be superfab!

04-30-2010, 09:56 AM	#1
digitaldivas ..I Heart Cannibal Corpse Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: California Posts: 4,327	Question for Producers with Fans I have this guy who always wants to meet me. He is a member and lives in Texas. I had met him before and he seemed pretty cool. I have met other people who support me and have never had any probs whatsoever. First time, I was shooting in Texas, met up, he bought me dinner and I went to a strip club with him. Also last year he mailed to my site address a camera. That was last year. This year, this cat is joining my personal facebook, myspace, etc. Well, somehow he got my number and had been calling pretty regularly, last year complimenting my work, this year wanting to actually move to Denver to "help me out", which freaks me out, to be honest. I did talk to him last week and told him in the nicest way possible that I would never be interested in having a partner and while I did totally appreciate his support as a fan of what I am doing, that I have my online life and my personal life and I was fine with being friends, of course, but rarely establish personal friendships with said fans. To that, he got really pissed, hung up and last night, I got another message from him saying that he understood, just did not have anyone to talk to about his fetish, etc. And he hopes we can still be friends, and won't call anymore. In the grand scheme of things, beautifulfeetonline isn't even really a "household name". I mean, it's niche foot worship, foot and pantyhose stuff. First time this has happened to me in 10 years of making fetish video. This dude is also on all of the niche perv boards that I am also on. I want to be nice to everyone, but I am just wondering, what you guys do, and how do you say it to both keep your fan happy and at the same time, letting him know that you have no interest in being "golf buddies" with him. I have been removing alot of my contact info this morning, not that it will do any good really. Just having a hard time figuring out how to adjust exposure when I have a "reality based" foot and pantyhose site. Anyway, for people that make erotic material and have had this issue in the past, any and all advice would be superfab! __________________ ... Last edited by digitaldivas; 04-30-2010 at 10:09 AM..