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Old 03-19-2019, 12:29 AM   #1
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Need some sympathy:(

My girlfriend and I are going through some hard relationship issues,
And we’re probably will have some time out...
She is my first serious relationship partner and I really love her. Sucks it has to be painful like this.
Any GFYers that had similar situations...your tips will be highly appreciated ❤️
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Old 03-19-2019, 01:26 AM   #2
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I started by getting really high and listening to the song above to let loose and be free. I stepped outside of myself for a full week straight. Problem people blocked. Phone turned off most all of the day. I saw the bigger picture. I realized how insignificant I was, and how significant the loss was to me. I made a list of all the things I was thankful for, excluding the one I lost. I got really high on weed, and kept adding to the list of things I was thankful for. Clean toenails, electricity, clean water, the hummingbird outside my window, my dog who loved me unconditionally. I watched a bunch of sci Fi movies based on the future and searched for new songs that I'd never heard & inspired me and I listened to them over and over again as I continued to get high.



After a few days of being out there I found my base again. I listened to the song above. I built myself back from ground up. I listened to this song and built myself back up over & over again as I continued to get high. It grounded me. I built my power back up. I stayed outside for 8 hours or more, walked, explored the beach, interacted with people and remembered who I was as an individual. As the darkness came and it got colder I started appreciating more the comfort of the home I lived in. I forced myself to brush my teeth 3 times a day, to shower first thing in the morning & sometimes take a bath at night too. Four years later and it's helped me regenerate. All my best to you.
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My girlfriend and I are going through some hard relationship issues,
And we’re probably will have some time out...
She is my first serious relationship partner and I really love her. Sucks it has to be painful like this.
Any GFYers that had similar situations...your tips will be highly appreciated ❤️
however it turns out, it will be for the best.

if you can communicate well, work on your differences to make your shortcomings compatible with each other, then kudos.

if it comes to eventually separating then be glad it didn't happen after the relationship got even more serious (marriage, kids, etc.)

sure it can hurt as f*ck but life goes on, time works in your favor. just keep your distance if necessary.
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buy a dirt bike and rip that shit up...
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Never get involved in serious relationships with females. They will always ruin your life eventually.

My buddy was with a girl for 10 years... Eventually got her a ring.. Then a few months after she comes to him and says "I'm not happy"..... then leaves.... seriously.

They don't care about your feelings OP. Only their own. They are biologically designed to be self centered bitches.

Most Women only want to attach themselves to your status. Females are always looking to move up.

Many rich and powerful Men would happily marry a Peasant Girl and history and myth are littered with such stories. But not vice versa... Have you ever heard of a Queen marrying a Peasant Man?


Best to stay single and stress free and happy.
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I started by getting really high and listening to the song above to let loose and be free. I stepped outside of myself for a full week straight. Problem people blocked. Phone turned off most all of the day. I saw the bigger picture. I realized how insignificant I was, and how significant the loss was to me. I made a list of all the things I was thankful for, excluding the one I lost. I got really high on weed, and kept adding to the list of things I was thankful for. Clean toenails, electricity, clean water, the hummingbird outside my window, my dog who loved me unconditionally. I watched a bunch of sci Fi movies based on the future and searched for new songs that I'd never heard & inspired me and I listened to them over and over again as I continued to get high.



After a few days of being out there I found my base again. I listened to the song above. I built myself back from ground up. I listened to this song and built myself back up over & over again as I continued to get high. It grounded me. I built my power back up. I stayed outside for 8 hours or more, walked, explored the beach, interacted with people and remembered who I was as an individual. As the darkness came and it got colder I started appreciating more the comfort of the home I lived in. I forced myself to brush my teeth 3 times a day, to shower first thing in the morning & sometimes take a bath at night too. Four years later and it's helped me regenerate. All my best to you.
Thanks dude that's really helpful!

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however it turns out, it will be for the best.

if you can communicate well, work on your differences to make your shortcomings compatible with each other, then kudos.

if it comes to eventually separating then be glad it didn't happen after the relationship got even more serious (marriage, kids, etc.)

sure it can hurt as f*ck but life goes on, time works in your favor. just keep your distance if necessary.
I know, time will solve the pain thanks

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Never get involved in serious relationships with females. They will always ruin your life eventually.

My buddy was with a girl for 10 years... Eventually got her a ring.. Then a few months after she comes to him and says "I'm not happy"..... then leaves.... seriously.

They don't care about your feelings OP. Only their own. They are biologically designed to be self centered bitches.

Most Women only want to attach themselves to your status. Females are always looking to move up.

Many rich and powerful Men would happily marry a Peasant Girl and history and myth are littered with such stories. But not vice versa... Have you ever heard of a Queen marrying a Peasant Man?


Best to stay single and stress free and happy.
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Never get involved in serious relationships with females. They will always ruin your life eventually.

My buddy was with a girl for 10 years... Eventually got her a ring.. Then a few months after she comes to him and says "I'm not happy"..... then leaves.... seriously.

They don't care about your feelings OP. Only their own. They are biologically designed to be self centered bitches.

Most Women only want to attach themselves to your status. Females are always looking to move up.

Many rich and powerful Men would happily marry a Peasant Girl and history and myth are littered with such stories. But not vice versa... Have you ever heard of a Queen marrying a Peasant Man?


Best to stay single and stress free and happy.
I trying to find example which will counter what you say but i cant think of anything
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I trying to find example which will counter what you say but i cant think of anything
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No motorbike license
Its a dirt bike you do not need a license...look theres 2 ways you can go through this:

1) play pathetic songs and search your soul and suffer like a puss

2) you can buy a dirt bike and rip that shit up...ride enduro, explore the forests and mountains...get a trailer and install a hitch on your car so you can transport the bike to kick ass destinations...become an interesting guy and women will more easily give you access to their genitals...
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https://www.vogue.com/article/all-fo...eds-kei-moriya
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my first real capital R relationship started as what I thought was a one night stand so I'm not exactly an expert on the subject but I know this:

it is either right or it isn't. you two either work together or you don't. that can change over time, so figure out where you are in your head in the here and now and she needs to do the same

I got married to my partner (who always will be that, in one way or another) strictly for immigration purposes but we did have fun with the concept. the relationship part was the tricky one for me, esp trying to be a good corporate wife in the ultra-conservative Caribbean where that epic bullshit/corporate event ish made me want to scream

we have been separated for months and both hurt each other deeply in our own ways but aside from him staying married to me for immigration purposes (pre-arranged-deal) so I can get citizenship in Jamaica we're seeing each other again. casually, my choice, enthusiastically on both our parts. the cute boys I see are actually jealous of my husband for having the bond with me that he does. not sure what the future will bring but he's not someone I can't not have in my life and I know he feels the same. life will unfold and reveal the shape that takes.

so is she the one? if so, roll up your sleeves and do the work and take your time doing it so you do it right

if not, next.

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the first real capital R relationship started as what I thought was a one night stand so I'm not exactly an expert on the subject but I know this:

it is either right or it isn't. you two either work together or you don't. that can change over time, so figure out where you are in your head in the here and now and she needs to do the same

I got married to my partner (who always will be that, in one way or another) strictly for immigration purposes but we did have fun with the concept. the relationship part was the tricky one for me, esp trying to be a good corporate wife in the ultra-conservative Caribbean where the memory of that shit makes me want to scream

we have been separated for months and both hurt each other deeply in our own ways but aside from him staying married to me for immigration purposes we're seeing each other again. casually, my choice, enthusiastically on both our parts. the cute boys I see are actually jealous of my husband for having the bond with me that he does. not sure what the future will bring but he's not someone I can't not have in my life and I know he feels the same. life will unfold as to the shape that takes.

so is she the one? if so, roll up your sleeves and do the work and take your time doing it. if not, next.



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Kick her ass to the curb immediately.

When I was dating I had zero tolerance for bullshit. I don't want to say it was my way or the highway, but if I discovered we were fighting often I would just shut it down and walk away. I cannot stand fighting, bullshit, and drama. There is way too many fish in the ocean to put up with that nonsense.

My last girlfriend before I got married... After two years of dating we had a fight and I told her that it was unacceptable and if it continued I would leave. She said "You can leave, but if you leave don't ever come back". I just looked at her and walked out and that was that. A day later she was trying to make up and I wasn't having any of it. She kept trying for the next few months but I had already moved on.
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In the words of Jay and Silent Bob...

"My advice, forget her, dude. There's one bitch in the world, one with many faces."
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... Have you ever heard of a Queen marrying a Peasant Man?
Yes I have.
Oh wait; she didn't marry him; just told Pharaoh that the baby was his.

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My girlfriend and I are going through some hard relationship issues,
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She is my first serious relationship partner and I really love her. Sucks it has to be painful like this.
Any GFYers that had similar situations...your tips will be highly appreciated ❤️
Start fucking other women man

If she see you pitty you will lose her for real.

Give her some space and take space for your self and dont look back.

She did a mistake to threat you this way.

Enjoy
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My girlfriend and I are going through some hard relationship issues,
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She is my first serious relationship partner and I really love her. Sucks it has to be painful like this.
Any GFYers that had similar situations...your tips will be highly appreciated ❤️
How old are you guys and how long have you been a couple?

If that is her in your avatar I would be sad too, but happy for the time I had.
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Please remember that "The One" was a myth invented by a greek comedian centuries ago . . .
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I'm sure in this world there are many 'ones'. however how many people do you meet who do their best to accept you for who you are, laugh at the same ish you do without needing context, know exactly what tracks to play to suit your mood? are by your side when you need them even at times when you don't ask. and fuck you perfectly.

used to think you had something to say. maybe you do, just hard to tell when I suspect you're only here to pimp your sig and clearly don't give a damn about the op
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Kick her ass to the curb immediately.

When I was dating I had zero tolerance for bullshit. I don't want to say it was my way or the highway, but if I discovered we were fighting often I would just shut it down and walk away. I cannot stand fighting, bullshit, and drama. There is way too many fish in the ocean to put up with that nonsense.

My last girlfriend before I got married... After two years of dating we had a fight and I told her that it was unacceptable and if it continued I would leave. She said "You can leave, but if you leave don't ever come back". I just looked at her and walked out and that was that. A day later she was trying to make up and I wasn't having any of it. She kept trying for the next few months but I had already moved on.
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I'm sure in this world there are many 'ones'. however how many people do you meet who do their best to accept you for who you are, laugh at the same ish you do without needing context, know exactly what tracks to play to suit your mood? are by your side when you need them even at times when you don't ask. and fuck you perfectly.

used to think you had something to say. maybe you do, just hard to tell when I suspect you're only here to pimp your sig and clearly don't give a damn about the op
Nice words. But question is does such people exists , or they are myth
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Lets say those person Does exist but mostly they are our " EX " these days
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I'm sure in this world there are many 'ones'. however how many people do you meet who do their best to accept you for who you are, laugh at the same ish you do without needing context, know exactly what tracks to play to suit your mood? are by your side when you need them even at times when you don't ask. and fuck you perfectly.

used to think you had something to say. maybe you do, just hard to tell when I suspect you're only here to pimp your sig and clearly don't give a damn about the op
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