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lucas131 07-24-2012 12:03 PM

tam have new possition on stunner media ...
 
does it means stunner media have been bought by mr? or stunner media have some serious problems with brains? or what they are thinking? oh man, wow it is so hot here today ... :upsidedow:error:1orglaugh

BIGTYMER 07-24-2012 12:05 PM

What the fuck were they thinking?

TubeSubmitters 07-24-2012 12:08 PM

That is so gay:
http://standahead.com/stunnermedia/

signupdamnit 07-24-2012 12:09 PM

She's an old hand in the industry. I remember her on Porncity BBS. On one hand if someone is just an employee then that means they weren't making most of the decisions and may not have known everything which was going on. Yet on the other had there needs to be some disincentive to stay with scumbags because without that no one would ever think twice about working for the assholes.

I have to admit I've noticed patterns with bad people constantly joining other bad (or soon to be bad) programs.

lucas131 07-24-2012 12:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by signupdamnit (Post 19077888)
She's an old hand in the industry. I remember her on Porncity BBS. On one hand if someone is just an employee then that means they weren't making most of the decisions and may not have known everything which was going on. Yet on the other had there needs to be some disincentive to stay with scumbags because without that no one would ever think twice about working for the assholes.

I have to admit I've noticed patterns with bad people constantly joining other bad (or soon to be bad) programs.

old hand in the industry who lied for years and helped to scam and stole money from affiliates and people? ok, great addition. i would not hire goering or other gestapo only cause they knew their business ... oh man, karma is getting really some hard kicking ass here ... :2 cents:

BIGTYMER 07-24-2012 12:17 PM

She has a solid resume of working for shady companies. Fact.

lucas131 07-24-2012 12:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BIGTYMER (Post 19077917)
She has a solid resume of working for shady companies. Fact.

thats what got me thinking if stunner media have been bought by other media :)

freecartoonporn 07-24-2012 12:22 PM

damn, i am late., i wish i could have hired her.,
and learned all the mr tactics.

prechecked 2-3 x sales.,card banging,not paying affiliates and all
so much money..,.,.,.,.,buahahahahah

just saying.

CaptainHowdy 07-24-2012 12:23 PM

http://www.petershamrugby.com/images...istmas-rat.jpg

JFK 07-24-2012 12:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy (Post 19077937)

is'nt that cute, a santa rat :thumbsup

epitome 07-24-2012 12:58 PM

It's true, Tam works for Stunner Media now.

While we are not too active here, our presence (and programs) is well known on all of the gay boards. In fact, we own the oldest gay board in the industry.

We have also been publicly vocal about our disgust with her prior employer (see my many past posts here for example).

Tam is a go-getther that runs circles around many. We need that kind of person in our organization. As an affiliate manager she will help affiliates with their needs, just as she has done for many years.

While we will not work with her previous employer and think their practices are deplorable, we know that most of their employees are just that... employees.

There are people at MR we wouldn't hire if they came begging and offered to work for free, but Tam was never one of them.

We've grown to 25+ people with 8 programs by doing things right. Why ruin that or get greedy now when things are going so well?

lucas131 07-24-2012 01:04 PM

no comment

Freaky_Akula 07-24-2012 01:22 PM

I am stunned.

MrCain 07-24-2012 01:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BIGTYMER (Post 19077917)
She has a solid resume of working for shady companies. Fact.

Undeniable!

TheSwed 07-24-2012 01:27 PM

any connection to priderevenue?
https://gfy.com/showthread.php?t=1075747

Failed 07-24-2012 01:29 PM

Pulling links...seriously. No fucking way I'm going to risk sending more sales to a company that would do business with someone like that. In fact, this makes me question what's going on at stunner and why they would need such a person. What a fucking shame.

beerptrol 07-24-2012 01:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Freaky_Akula (Post 19078123)
I am stunned.

Stone Cold Stunner

http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/j...ldStunner1.jpg

Doug of Montreal 07-24-2012 01:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by epitome (Post 19078049)
While we will not work with her previous employer and think their practices are deplorable, we know that most of their employees are just that... employees.

Amen to that.

You guys do good work. In Stunner we trust.

Jay_StandAhead 07-24-2012 01:40 PM

First of all, let me be 100% clear: We are not doing ANY business with MR and we never will. Not directly or indirectly. NEVER. I?ve been vocal about them ? we don?t want anything to do with them ever.

Second, most of you probably don?t believe in second chances. If that?s the case, there?s nothing I can say to change your mind. But if former iBill, ePassporte employees can be forgiven, if we can forgive someone for the LikeWhoa fiasco that cost so many people so much money and see the guy start one of the now largest companies in adult, then others deserve another chance too.

We saw someone with skills (Tam), and she genuinely seems to not have known what MR was up to. We had a position to fill, and she applied for it. End of story.

The bottom line is that we run an ethical business and nothing will change that. Her job is to bring affiliates and care for them, and she follows our guidelines. She has no control over billing at Stunner Media, just like she had no decision power at MR.

If you guys are mad about affiliates not getting paid by MR (I don?t read GFY much, I?m not sure what is the current beef), then you shouldn?t have promoted them. It shouldn?t come as a big surprise ;) We never got caught in the SOBV payment issues because we consciously choose to only do business with ethical companies, and that will not change.

lucas131 07-24-2012 01:42 PM

really no comment. time will show

Failed 07-24-2012 01:43 PM

Everyone deserves another, and another, and another chance.

TheSquealer 07-24-2012 01:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jay_StandAhead (Post 19078171)
Second, most of you probably don?t believe in second chances. If that?s the case, there?s nothing I can say to change your mind.

"second" chances?

fuzebox 07-24-2012 01:48 PM

Some of you guys are so out of touch with how business works :2 cents:

lucas131 07-24-2012 01:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fuzebox (Post 19078182)
Some of you guys are so out of touch with how business works :2 cents:

so you are getting media revenue payments on time, congrats. a bit off topic, but sure how business works, hire thieves, hire liars, promote scammy companies, just make money ... serious business

the Shemp 07-24-2012 01:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lucas131 (Post 19078188)
so you are getting media revenue payments on time, congrats. a bit off topic, but sure how business works, hire thieves, hire liars, promote scammy companies, just make money ... serious business

some people consider bank robbing as a business...

BIGTYMER 07-24-2012 01:54 PM

Welcome to my shitlist.

#fail

Dirty F 07-24-2012 02:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by epitome (Post 19078049)
It's true, Tam works for Stunner Media now.

While we are not too active here, our presence (and programs) is well known on all of the gay boards. In fact, we own the oldest gay board in the industry.

We have also been publicly vocal about our disgust with her prior employer (see my many past posts here for example).

Tam is a go-getther that runs circles around many. We need that kind of person in our organization. As an affiliate manager she will help affiliates with their needs, just as she has done for many years.

While we will not work with her previous employer and think their practices are deplorable, we know that most of their employees are just that... employees.

There are people at MR we wouldn't hire if they came begging and offered to work for free, but Tam was never one of them.

We've grown to 25+ people with 8 programs by doing things right. Why ruin that or get greedy now when things are going so well?

Unbefuckinglievable you hired her. Normal people would stay as far as possible from scum like her. Very stupid move.

gabe100 07-24-2012 02:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by epitome (Post 19078049)
Tam is a go-getther that runs circles around many. We need that kind of person in our organization. As an affiliate manager she will help affiliates with their needs, just as she has done for many years.

So true, she runs circles around 99% of the people here. She got bitched out, cussed at and damn near spit upon by everyone and she maintained with dignity and class.

Epitome If I pushed gay - I would sign up with Stunner immediately because of her.

:2 cents:

Dirty F 07-24-2012 02:06 PM

Only in this industry....

The Heron 07-24-2012 02:10 PM

I didn't think she had much experience with the gay side, so that makes me even more confused.

Dirty F 07-24-2012 02:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gabe100 (Post 19078215)
So true, she runs circles around 99% of the people here. She got bitched out, cussed at and damn near spit upon by everyone and she maintained with dignity and class.

Epitome If I pushed gay - I would sign up with Stunner immediately because of her.

:2 cents:

Putting dignity, class and Tam in the same sentence is just as retarded as hiring her. Ask about her class and dignity to the people who didn't get paid. Look in the other thread how classy she was to the person who's card got banged.

Idiot.

RycEric 07-24-2012 02:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jay_StandAhead (Post 19078171)

If you guys are mad about affiliates not getting paid by MR (I don?t read GFY much, I?m not sure what is the current beef), then you shouldn?t have promoted them. It shouldn?t come as a big surprise ;) We never got caught in the SOBV payment issues because we consciously choose to only do business with ethical companies, and that will not change.

It's far more than affiliates not getting paid. :2 cents: "the current beef"? Maybe you should do your homework then because you obviously do not have a clue....

Dirty F 07-24-2012 02:12 PM

How can anybody still defend this piece of shit??? How?? Are they completely blind or what?

BIGTYMER 07-24-2012 02:12 PM

Glad I don't have any links to pull. :thumbsup

BIGTYMER 07-24-2012 02:16 PM

Tam posted this on a gay forum.

"I am excited to say that I have been brought on as Affiliate Rep for Stunner Media. I have known most of these guys for a very very long time and when I heard there was an opening, I jumped all over it. Phil and I have been good friends for about 12-13 years and Lloyd and I for about 6-7 years, so there was a strong relationship there already. The opening came for me to be able to work with these guys and I took it without hesitation."

Well that explains it. :disgust

magnatique 07-24-2012 02:17 PM

Hey Guys, this has been a while since I’ve been here on GFY but this needs addressing ;)

First of all, as others have said we are not MR, we are not acquiring MR and we have nothing to do with MR… We won’t, we are at the opposite end of what they believe in.

Some of you might have met me in the last 5 years… some of you in the last 10 years but some others go a little father back to the pre-2000 era. Often we’ll remember someone from back in the days and reminisce on the good old days and how it was back then etc… Tam is such a person that I met WAYYYYYY back in the old days when gofuckyourself didn’t exist, when I was moderating some board… hell I forgot the name, adultwebmaster something. It was by the maker of UCJ :)


Anyhow, I go back to knowing Tam around that day and age. Back then she used to be smart, know what she was doing and always took good care of her people and friends. She was friendly and I knew I could trust her. Then I lost track of Tam for years and years. I did my own thing, and she did her own. I made my mistakes, trusted the wrong people and built everything back up.

But all through these years, there was one constant about me… and you can ask around and look everywhere. I have always handled my business the way I should be handling it. I have made good business relations with many people that are on GFY, or off GFY. I cannot think of any people who can say that I was not fair, that I was not professional or that my ethics have been questionable through the years. Every decision I make is always done with Ethics high up on my mind. And I will assure you that the exact same can be said of my Partner Jay. We’ve passed on some deals because they were questionable. We decided not to hire people who we knew were shady or didn’t believe in the same things as we do. So the simple idea of comparing us to MR repulses me. We’re at the opposite ends and if you feel you have been wronged or need assistance with your promotion of our sites , tools or whatever, I welcome anyone to contact us directly Jay and I and we will do our best to help. This is what we do.

As with any organization, employees are what help build a company up but egos and poor management and bad ethical decisions are what brings one down.

We chose to empower the earlier and give a good employee the chance to put her past behind her and focus on what she likes to do, what she is good at and what she loves. What she was 10 years back is still what she is now. I don’t believe the choices the people make for you define what you are, but I do believe that when you are in a good environment that allows you to strive and where you can be part of a great team, only good things can come out of it.

I believe in doing things right, in keeping a high level of integrity and ethics, and that’s what I teach everyone that works with us. That’s what I expect of each and every person in our team. Often people talk of company cultures, well, this is deeply ingrained in ours.

With that said, I cannot condone all that Tam did while at MR that she might or might not have known… I wasn’t there…But I sure can vouch for what she is doing WITH US and what she’ll be doing in the future WITH US as she will be following our company’s culture and lead, I can assure you of that.

And I believe that if you don’t believe that, you should give it a shot and work with us and make your own assessment, you won’t be disappointed ;-)

epitome 07-24-2012 02:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Doug of Montreal (Post 19078168)
Amen to that.

You guys do good work. In Stunner we trust.

Quote:

Originally Posted by gabe100 (Post 19078215)
So true, she runs circles around 99% of the people here. She got bitched out, cussed at and damn near spit upon by everyone and she maintained with dignity and class.

Epitome If I pushed gay - I would sign up with Stunner immediately because of her.

:2 cents:

Thanks Doug and Gabe! :thumbsup

Doug, if you're free you should go to Montreal X Nights on Thursday. Looks like you already got the Facebook invite. I'm way too far away to attend.

baddog 07-24-2012 02:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by magnatique (Post 19078233)
Hey Guys, this has been a while since I?ve been here on GFY but this needs addressing ;)
. . . .

Boy, that is a blast from the past.

Dirty F 07-24-2012 02:36 PM

Look at these huge ass posts trying to defend the fact that they hired the worst person possible. How pathetic.
Look you can post as much huge bs posts as you want. That won't change the facts about Tam. And those facts aren't pretty.
Hiring her is the most stupid move any company can do right now. There seriously has to be something wrong with you to even consider it.

peterk 07-24-2012 02:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jay_StandAhead (Post 19078171)
First of all, let me be 100% clear: We are not doing ANY business with MR and we never will. Not directly or indirectly. NEVER. I?ve been vocal about them ? we don?t want anything to do with them ever.

Second, most of you probably don?t believe in second chances. If that?s the case, there?s nothing I can say to change your mind. But if former iBill, ePassporte employees can be forgiven, if we can forgive someone for the LikeWhoa fiasco that cost so many people so much money and see the guy start one of the now largest companies in adult, then others deserve another chance too.

We saw someone with skills (Tam), and she genuinely seems to not have known what MR was up to. We had a position to fill, and she applied for it. End of story.

The bottom line is that we run an ethical business and nothing will change that. Her job is to bring affiliates and care for them, and she follows our guidelines. She has no control over billing at Stunner Media, just like she had no decision power at MR.

If you guys are mad about affiliates not getting paid by MR (I don?t read GFY much, I?m not sure what is the current beef), then you shouldn?t have promoted them. It shouldn?t come as a big surprise ;) We never got caught in the SOBV payment issues because we consciously choose to only do business with ethical companies, and that will not change.

there is second chances then there is third and forth chances.
this is stunning. not everyone forgives and forgets you will get some backlash hope she is worth it.


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