Desperate man need help from community.Please read!
 

Dear gfy mods and members.
First i would like to apologize if i break any forum rules with this kind of thread. I really hope mods will understand my situation and not delete the thread.
Second, i would like to apologize but English isnt my native language so if you notice some spell errors or poor grammar, sorry. :-)
Before i write my post, i kindly ask you to get couple minutes of your time and read this. This is thread of desperate man full of shame.

I was active webmaster 3 years, i wasnt expert and big player but money was enough for normal living with my 4 years old daughter. When i say normal i mean - to pay bills and food. At the 4. sempteber 2011 i had serious car accident. One day i walked over the street and some idiot hit me with his truck. The result of accident was both legs and left arm were broken. I had couple of serious surgeries on my arm and one on left leg. After my full recovery, doctor said me : my friend, you have so much luck! There was 90%/10% chance to loose your arm but, miracles are always possible! From now, you must be very, very careful because one more accident, you will loose your arm forever. My full recovery was long - almost 7 months. In meantime, my bussines slowly died. I loose traffic, sales, hosting and domains. I wasnt angry or in bad mood for loosing my bussines. I was happy because i am still alive and my daughter isnt alone so I decided not to back in online bussines because it will be very hard to start from the ground so i decided to get offline job.
I got job in local rent a car agency, salary wasnt huge but it was enough for normal living. Everything was great couple of months but one night , on 3 january whole agency was destroyed by fire. I loose my job and started to look for another one but without luck. No job, no money but i had some money in bank and that money is enough for living in next few months. Time passing by but still no job. I dont know if i am cursed or what, but i cant find any job. Two weeks ago i got letter from local court with warning. Grace period for paying my surgeries is over and I must pay 2000$ until 1. June 2013.
Such a letter is true horror! I had job and paying bill for surgeries wasnt a problem but i wasnt dream that i would loose my job!
I must pay whole bill but, for man without job and with little kid, this is "mission impossible " I dont have money and i dont know how to get it. If i dont pay, court will took my house and my daughter and i will end on the streets.
My offline and online friends already gave me 500$ so i need 1500$ more.
I dont know where to get money. Friends already gave me, cant find job, cant took from bank so i decided to ask here for some small donations.
To be honest, i am desperate, really desperate and full of shame for asking for money but this is my only solution.
I am asking you dear gfy members, i beg you on my knees to help me.
Every donation is huge for me - 5, 10, 20, 50 $ .. As much as you can! If you want to help me, please drop me email to wallscaffeATgmail.com and will respond you with my Paxum infos. Please also include your gfy nick name so i can thank you in this thread!
Please, also bump this thread to keep it alive, i really appreciate it! Thank you!

I can promise two things:
When i get new job, every single person who donate will get tshirt as souvenir from my country with free of charge and with free shipping.
When (if) i get all necessary money i will post it here and i will NOT take any single dollar above and all above donations will be rejected!

I promise it with my and my daughter life!

Thank you for your time and understanding. Please, be careful in life, you never know what brings new day. Be careful on the streets, there is a bunch of lunatics with cars around. One of them almost destroyed my life.

I kindly ask gfy mods once again - please do not delete my thread. Thank you for understanding!

Thank you for yor time and God bless you all.
Cheers

Good luck, but times are tough for a lot of people. hopefully someone will help you out.

I'd suggest offering something in return for this money, it may be easier for someone to open their wallet then give to someone they have no clue who it is.

Why don't you offer some webmaster services?

Sorry, didn't see this reply.

Good luck with this.

I do have one question if you don't mind. Can't you get any money from the guy who hit you or the company he/she worked for?

Here is the states you would go after them for all expenses plus some damages.


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what country are you from?

This Torutal dudes gotta be broke ass banner maker who's not even in the industry ottopottomouse/ottopottopussy or that other dredge on life who resembles a walking abortion, epitome!
What the fuck is stunnermedia anyway ?

:2 cents:

Never made any single banner in my life, not even " keep it simple stupid " type.
Thanks
Nope, for two reasons. First, he was self emploment so he didnt work for any company. Second and most important, when i fully recovered police said he is dead. He was alcoholic and couple of days after the accident he died due heart attack. Even he wasnt died, i couldnt get any money from poor man. How much money is possible to get from man who sell eggs on market? That would be wasting of energy and time , my friend.
I am from Serbia.
Cheers

What are you getting on about now Marion?

wouldn't his car insurance cover this+damages for accident ?

What are the consequences of not paying?

So, he didn't have auto insurance? Don't know the insurance situation there.

Here in the states you have to have at least liability coverage at various levels to get on the road. Myself, I keep full coverage and have an uninsured driver rider in case someone hits me when they don't have coverage.

Also, like someone above asked. What are the repercussions of not paying? Do they have to go through a long process to get at your stuff?

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sending positive vibes

Get up some AdSense and we'll click it

his time line checks out..

I've been checking too, I haven't found any evidence of problems :2 cents:

Go to judge and tell your current condition. Ask for delay and also ask to split payments(if they give for traffic tickets they should also give it for this). If they don't accept,go to newspaper with this story. Currently , there is strong marketing here to help people in trouble and it is working. Personally, I was paying money (by bank or sending SMS) to help people that went to newspapers and asked for help. Mostly, ill people and as far as I know they all got money for surgeries and help they needed. People are willing to help if you present them problem in medias. In what city do you live? I know that recently government let private companies to collect debts what was most idiotic move that is putting additional pressure to people that never lived under so many threats.

What sort of webmaster skills do you have?

What the fuck kind of bullshit is this ?
You're not going to get locked up based on a letter from local court to pay for your surgeries. You're credit will be ruined for a little while. We got the same shit here in the states. People lost their houses, everything they own, living on the fuckin' streets! New Orleans is still busted up from Hurricane Sandy. Get up off the ground, dust yourself off and be a man.



You know how to read? Do you, ya walking abortion!
If you think I am Marion
admim [AT]gfy[DOT]com and present Eric with your proof!
Go for it bitch!

To reiterate, what is stunnermedia ?
Let's go bitch. You got all the answers and know it all,
answer the question ya coward ass pussy punk mother fucker!

i'm sorry but if you get a court letter that your grace period is over, it seems to me that there isn't much you did about it, informing the debtcollecter about your situation

Yeah, exactly what this guy says.

Sounds like you have a lot of bad luck, I'm not sure you'd deliver on the t-shirt side of the deal so regretfully, I'm out.

Tourtel,

You've had a lot of bad luck and hopefully you'll get through this, be strong and believe! :thumbsup

I watched this music video for the first time yesterday, you might find it motivational, it's a true story :2 cents:

Rudimental - Waiting All Night feat. Ella Eyre

"The official video for 'Waiting All Night' is the inspirational true life-story of San Francisco born BMX champion and actor - Kurt Yaeger, who became an amputee after an accident in 2006."

Ban this mother fucker.

Hey, its nice to hear positive feedbacks, thank you folks. :thumbsup
Somebody asks what are the consequences of not paying.
Well, first debcollector block 2/3 of salary ( if you have job ofcourse ) If you dont have salary, second step is taking you stuff from home and sell it via public auction. In case the money from public auction can not cover bill, next step is nightmare - they took your house and sell it. At least, in case where money from house dont pay bill - next station is jail.
I am not limited with 1.june to pay bills, its official statement but they will not knock on my door on 2.june because they always wait month or two for money. Its something like - they give you little bit more time to pay.
However, bills must be payed and there is no single chance to avoid it. Simple as that. Somebody give me good idea about asking debtcollector to split the payments. Oh God, such thing never came to my mind. Thx.

Some people already contacted me on email, asking me do i have Pay Pal. I forgot to write in first post, i dont have Pay Pal account because accounts for my country are limited - we can spend money in online shops but its impossible to get money from other Pay Pal accounts, so Paxum is only solution for me.
Also, i got several email with possitive feedback and support.
Thank you very much! I dont have words to explain how i feel, its really great to hear possitive feedbacks and support!:thumbsup
I would like to say thanks to gfy admins for leaving my thread alive - Thank you! :thumbsup
And thank you for all ppl who wrote here and bumped my thread - Thank you all! :thumbsup

@Edit :
I am man full of pride and moral - i would never, never do such thing! Thx anyway. :)

so why don't you work?

you can offer your webmaster services or any online...


elance.com
getafreelancer.com
guru.com

ect ect


you can offer services on webmaster forums like digital point and warriorforum...

you can offer services on fiverr (get a friend abroad to accept paypal for you its only 5$ transfers he can WU it to you when it adds up

offer not only to do services but to teach people how to do stuff for money...offer to go house to house and do virus sweeps and system re-instalations and backups and offer to teach children how to use a computer and how to do business online bla bla bla...

Something in this thread stinks, and it isn't CurrentlySober's breath
http://i.imgur.com/ecC7b.jpg

Some useful tips about dealing with people:

Lesson 1:
PEOPLE DO WHAT THEY ARE MOTIVATED TO DO.

You don't need to listen to the bullshit excuses. You don't need to the long back story. You don't need to hear the reasons. You don't need all these distractions from the truth. You want to understand why someone is making the choices they are making? Simple. Just remember, "people do what they are motivated to do"

He was motivated to ask for money.

Uhm... not real motivated to offer work in exchange. Not real motivated to work at all. In fact, he dodged the the suggestion of working a few times.

That's all you need to know about this person.

What defines us as people is not what happens in the course of life. Every single person has tons of dark stories from personal experience. What defines us as people is how we respond. His story "uhmm.. bunch of bad stuff happened... must be bad luck". His response "ok world, give me money". A weak person with a poor attitude, of low character who's exactly in the position he chose to put himself in, manipulating others and using his daughter to garner sympathy to get out of it.

:)
Somebody who isnt motivated to do anything will not work at all and at least, he wouldnt try to find job. I already write about job in my first post.
Do you really think that the person who had half of body broken is in situation to sit in front of pc couple of hours everyday? I spent minimum time in front of pc.
No, it isnt my friend. Do you know, when it comes to wheater change, for example from sun to rain, all my bones killing me and i must take medicines.
I like online work, i was very happy but these times are gone for me.:mad:
Cheers.

Understood. You can't even do online work. Therefore there is zero reason to give you money as it only prolongs the enevitable as you'll soon be homeless no matter what.

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"Between stimulous and response, there is a space. The choices we make in that space will ultimately determine our quality of life"

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Nice try ...

Good catch!
I didn't realize it. :1orglaugh
Sandy did fuck us up though.
They got three weeks to get the boardwalks up!


Yeah, I can see that by the way you're begging for loose change.
Do ya have holes in your shoes to ?

http://i.imgur.com/AEAx9Jk.jpg

:-)
As i already said, i had a job,but i lost it so i can work but only light, easy jobs. I cant be housebuilder or miner. lol The problem is, its very hard to find new job in my country.
:-)
But...today, two hours ago i had two great things happend to me. First, i got some donation from dude from my country. :-) :-) Thank you my friend, you know who you are! We will shoot couple of bears when this shit ends!:thumbsup
Second...some time ago i called some security company for job. I got usual answer:we will,call you...I forgot about them but they called me today and i must go to their company after holidays to talk about jib. Its night watch job, something like security. Not sounds bad, i would have tv, food, bathroom..its almost like in own house. Salary is not huge, its 200$ per month but..when you have nothing, such low salary is huge.
This makes me very happy. :-)

good luck sir

Thx ct content for nice words.:-) I hope God will award you and your bussines for beign such nice person. :thumbsup

Yes, we get it. You "want to work". You "can" do "light easy jobs" - but somehow "can't" do work online. You've made this obviously glaring contradiction quite clear. You can't do webmaster work, but you can certainly spend all day posting about how people should give you money for free.

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