I'm awake and sober...
 

What a huge mess. Sitting home alone with vodka/orange juice for company doesn't seem to have worked out too well.

I don't think I should post again in that thread. In fact, I don't think I should spend much time online at all today. However, no apologies will be offered. When I started this thread that is hyperlinked I was a very drunk man and was busy writing a very long document that I planned to email to Belinda and Mark. When I sobered up this morning I am confident the document never would have been made public, but Mark read that and decided to take the ball into his own court by starting this thread in "preemptive strike" mode.

I'm not making excuses, those are just the facts.

Belinda's home and fine. She got in about 6 hours ago and is asleep in her room. I'll probably shower and go eat something. Hopefully she'll be able to move her stuff out in the next few days. Of course, the only person who will help her do so is me, because I seriously doubt anyone in Sac is a decent enough friend to her to drive up and help.

Meltdown, gfy style. Yummy.

sorry, but alcohol is a weak excuse.

Happy birthday though

Does she smell like cock?

I hope your birthday in 1 year from now will be truly great :thumbsup

Best one I've seen in ages...

Bump because it bears repeating.

meowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Sorry you had such a rough night Donny. Take your own advice and spend a few days offline.

I agree, which is why I said:

"I'm not making excuses, those are just the facts."

Thanks for the "happy birthday".

DId you give her a 30 days notice from the courts to moved? Since she been paying bills and rent, you are doing a illegial evictions.

If you guys are not dealing with each other anymore why do you care if she is having sex with your ex-bestfriend? You introduce them to do it so why care.

The next time you get a girlfriend and she want a threesome, go out and get a porno movie, a dildo, a real life guy doll with vibrations, anal beads, ky jelly and have a good night.

Things will get better for sure. That's what I say to myself when I'm feeling really bad

Happy Birthday Donny, and as Im sure you know I have no beef with any of the parties involved. If you ever need to talk dont hesitate in hitting me up. Ive been there done that, and struggled with alot of the same things you have. Be glad to help you through when you need help.

wooooooooooffffffffff

This whole experience is another *gift* on your road to surrendering.

May it help you find peace.

Happy Birthday, Donny.

Shit happens! its what you do from here that will make a difference everyone has got drunk and said shit they were not supposed to, Just learn from your mistakes and see if you can work things out. Ohh and happy birthday

Go play on the freeway

Halcyon, I really respect and appreciate you. I wonder what Grandpa Caleb would say about this mess...

Much respect, Halcyon.

Donny you don't know me but I sincerely want to wish you a happy birthday ...

"The only man who doesn't make misstakes is a dead man"

Happy b-day, try to make the best out of it :thumbsup

good stuff!

What a fucking tool, I am not surprised you are blaming something else. You ar a coward with a weak soul.

Keep posting Donny, show us how crazy you are.

If I where Belinda i'd get the hell out of there ASAP, poor women.

? :upsidedow https://youtube.com/watch?v=1n4fDgmrF3o

Donny you have to end is co dependent relationship with gfy its time to let go man.

Oh stop its takes two and Donny might be the more colorful one but I highly doubt it was all him. I wonder if Donny's x was some fat ugly chick would everyone be running to her defense like she was mother Theresa and Donny is this monster.

They've been broken up for some time, she's moving on and cause she;s not there for his bday he's going to seek revenge on the guy that won her heart.

He's WEAK... nuff said :winkwink:

It's the Mel Gibson defense.

:1orglaugh

I'm still drunk.

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :thumbsup

i'm about to start drinking again.

Alcohols a hell of a drug

http://img320.imageshack.us/img320/792/melij9.jpg

perfect clip for this thread :warning

https://youtube.com/watch?v=MjYJ7zZ9BRw

"why do we fall, so we can learn to pick ourselves up"

Get better, I mean that from the bottom of my heart.

:thumbsup

Dont know you but Happy B'day Donny

Read this thread, along with the one posted by spannow. I shook my head and thought "what a sad, pathetic trainwreck". Then, I went to clean my kitchen. But, something bothered me enough to come back and post.

Donny - you really need to stop with your pathetic, FAKE ass interest in Lori's well being. You keep saying how disrespectful Mark is to her. If you had ONE FUCKING OUNCE of respect for the woman yourself (not to mention her child/children) you never would have asked her boyfriend to fuck Belinda in the first place. YOU brought her man into this. Of course he could have said no. That is on him. He seems to be laying in the bed he made, now you should do the same.

My opinion is you thought you could out Mark to Lori....she would hate him like you hate Belinda....then you would have a new friend to add to your pity party. Y'all could sit around for days and talk about how y'all were wronged so much by those bad bad people. Guess what? You are not the innocent bystander she seems to be....get over it.:disgust

We all make mistakes, you might have burned a few bridges though last night... ouch...


Happy Birthday anyhow Donny, hope next year's will be better

Well said.

God has smote you.

You know I respect you Jman but in this one I feel differently.If she moved on she wouldnt be living in his house. Also Mark was his friend. This wasnt some stranger off the street and what did this friend do with this trust, he kept fucking her even after his friend was in pain.Didnt say Belinda you leave him move out and then we will carry on. You think she is a innocent why because she told you lol. Donnys problem was the first time she cheated on him , he bought her a car . Where he should of thrown her out because the moment he forgave her ,he was a less than in her eyes. Now I must really feel strongly about this because Im really not fond of Donny from his behavior on the boards but I understand because had my heart crushed before and until you have gone thru that its easy to make snap judgements .

Drunk or not, Donny - you revealed a serious defect in your character.

You take no responsibility for any of your actions and make no apologies for dragging Lori into this in the middle of YOUR meltdown?

It's all very childish, selfish, mean, vintictive and far from Christian.

It seems that real rational thought is beyond you grasp lately.

Go see a shrink, Donny. Talk to someone objective. NOT a pastor or priest from the XXXChruch that has ulterior motives ... go see a REAL shrink that can help you.

You sincerely need help.

:2 cents:

Life's a bitch then you die.

:1orglaugh you are pathetic.

Your woman leaves you for another guy and so you concoct this plan to tell all of GFY what a loser you are? Wow, what drama.

I've seen a lot of drunk posting, but damn yours were entertaining :thumbsup

Yes, that's how it goes :)

Happy BIrthday man.

Come up to Medford and Chill with a friend if youd like, Donny.

Ill put you up for a good time and just time away.

Your choice bud :thumbsup

Tony,

This deserves repeatiing. Belinda posted this in the original Spannow thread earlier this afternoon.

From here on in I'd take what Donny says with a grain of salt.

Sounds to me like Donny has been plaing with fire since the begining of their relationship and now wants to bend what he peceives as the truth with out putting all the information on the table.

:2 cents:

I doubt we will ever know the real truth behind the story.

And you know what she said was gospel? She said she didnt fuck him last night not ever. Takes two to make it and two to break it, the truth is in the middle.