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Phil LoadedCash 12-30-2008 11:30 PM

Legal Help
 
Are chat conversation (via IM) used in court? Can they be consider evidence or not, since anyone can log on anyone's screen name?

mmcfadden 12-30-2008 11:31 PM

can u post the im message? and yes... it could certainly be used

After Shock Media 12-30-2008 11:32 PM

Sure why not.
Well may be harder to use in a criminal case but civil I see no issues and small claims would fall into a hell yes.

Phil LoadedCash 12-30-2008 11:33 PM

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Originally Posted by mmcfadden (Post 15264407)
can u post the im message? and yes... it could certainly be used

No.. actually it is over a couple months. I think. Not really sure. Anyway, could you argue the fact that it was not you?

And just so I don't get any questions. No, I am not talking about a friend or asking for a friend of a friend of a cousin of a sister of a mother. Yes I am talking about myself.

tony286 12-30-2008 11:33 PM

Bump for a interesting question.

Phil LoadedCash 12-30-2008 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by After Shock Media (Post 15264410)
Sure why not.
Well may be harder to use in a criminal case but civil I see no issues and small claims would fall into a hell yes.

Well most likely it would be a criminal case.. Civil I'm not worried about. They are cheap people anyway so no matter what they will ask for money.

mmcfadden 12-30-2008 11:36 PM

if it's divorce... it will be into evidence like cookie dough in betty crocker

Phil LoadedCash 12-30-2008 11:37 PM

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Originally Posted by mmcfadden (Post 15264423)
if it's divorce... it will be into evidence like cookie dough in betty crocker

Nope.. not a divorce.

Basically, someone does not like me. That someone got access to a computer of someone I talk to, and looked at the IM logs and found out they could get me in trouble.

If of course.. I sent it..

After Shock Media 12-30-2008 11:37 PM

Were you trying to sell something online you should not be selling.

96ukssob 12-30-2008 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by x Shady x (Post 15264404)
Are chat conversation (via IM) used in court? Can they be consider evidence or not, since anyone can log on anyone's screen name?

Im pretty sure instant messages can NOT be used unless the other person admits to them. Since they can be faked, or someone else sign in under their name, etc.

but id ask an attorney :thumbsup

mmcfadden 12-30-2008 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by x Shady x (Post 15264413)
No.. actually it is over a couple months. I think. Not really sure. Anyway, could you argue the fact that it was not you?

And just so I don't get any questions. No, I am not talking about a friend or asking for a friend of a friend of a cousin of a sister of a mother. Yes I am talking about myself.

Just saw this post... sounds like maybe some type of affair. Yes it can be used and the better attorney's always win. It doesn't matter when it get's to court who's wrong or right... it's always about the money

Phil LoadedCash 12-30-2008 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by After Shock Media (Post 15264429)
Were you trying to sell something online you should not be selling.

Nope. Completely legal.

After Shock Media 12-30-2008 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by bossku69 (Post 15264431)
Im pretty sure instant messages can NOT be used unless the other person admits to them. Since they can be faked, or someone else sign in under their name, etc.

but id ask an attorney :thumbsup

Tell that to judge judy, brown, mathis, and that peoples court chicka. Thats were all the smart arm chair lawyers get their skills at. The other judges just be paternity hoes.

Phil LoadedCash 12-30-2008 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by mmcfadden (Post 15264432)
Just saw this post... sounds like maybe some type of affair. Yes it can be used and the better attorney's always win. It doesn't matter when it get's to court who's wrong or right... it's always about the money

Well money isn't a problem. Even if I have to pay the dues for the rest of my life. But no, its not an affair either.

Really wish I could be more open about this, but can't find the right words to put it in.

mmcfadden 12-30-2008 11:40 PM

wow... this thread moves fast. My point still holds... it goes to court for whatever reason the better attorney wins...

Phil LoadedCash 12-30-2008 11:41 PM

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Originally Posted by bossku69 (Post 15264431)
Im pretty sure instant messages can NOT be used unless the other person admits to them. Since they can be faked, or someone else sign in under their name, etc.

but id ask an attorney :thumbsup

Exactly what I was thinking. AIM, ICQ, MSN, they have no real evidence of what IP you sent it from. Sure, I might have been online when they were sent, but that person could of been too.

Phil LoadedCash 12-30-2008 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by mmcfadden (Post 15264439)
wow... this thread moves fast. My point still holds... it goes to court for whatever reason the better attorney wins...

I agree with you. I think it depends on the judge as well.

mmcfadden 12-30-2008 11:44 PM

yes definetely... the judge who knows the attorney who gets together on holidays ;)

Phil LoadedCash 12-30-2008 11:45 PM

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Originally Posted by mmcfadden (Post 15264450)
yes definetely... the judge who knows the attorney who gets together on holidays ;)

Since most judges are male.. (didn't I See a thread about this a few days ago, black women judges?) I should hire a hot female attorney.

and hope I either get a male judge or a lesbian black one...

mmcfadden 12-30-2008 11:48 PM

if your around philly area I can direct you to the best criminal or civil attorney's around

mmcfadden 12-30-2008 11:49 PM

$400 per hour for criminal... $475 for civil/divorce

Phil LoadedCash 12-30-2008 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by mmcfadden (Post 15264465)
if your around philly area I can direct you to the best criminal or civil attorney's around

Pittsburgh actually.. think they would take a drive over for lil' ol' me? lol

jmcb420 12-30-2008 11:52 PM

I know e-mails can be used, Especially in divorce cases....but you have made it clear this is no divorce..
Sometimes the evidence wont stand up if it wasn't legaly obtained.
If the other party in your case illegaly obtained the IM's in question (no warrent / password hack) then any lawyer 2 days out of lawschool can get them thrown out.

Unless you were doing something really really really bad, I wouldn't worry to much.

Phil LoadedCash 12-30-2008 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by jmcb420 (Post 15264474)
I know e-mails can be used, Especially in divorce cases....but you have made it clear this is no divorce..
Sometimes the evidence wont stand up if it wasn't legaly obtained.
If the other party in your case illegaly obtained the IM's in question (no warrent / password hack) then any lawyer 2 days out of lawschool can get them thrown out.

Unless you were doing something really really really bad, I wouldn't worry to much.

The person who obtained them owned the computer. The person that the messages were sent to from another source was using that computer. It wasn't a setup or anything. They had every right to look at it, but morally its wrong.

Who is the moral court judge again? lol.

skrinkladoo 12-30-2008 11:54 PM

highly doubtful, and if you have a good attorney - hell no.

a good attorney would request proof from the opp. side it was you that typed it, such as a witness, there is a burden on that request. A good attorney could prove you have a virus - and thereby the pc could have been exploited. Guess what you prob. got a few and dont even know it. A good attorney would keep it out of evidence all together. Its not like you just get to say heres my 100 pieces of evidence - and its all gonna be allowed in.

I'd say without proof - you got hear-say, and thats worthless.
Not to mention just about anything you say or write can be written off as "banter" with a good attorney.

Phil LoadedCash 12-30-2008 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by skrinkladoo (Post 15264482)
highly doubtful, and if you have a good attorney - hell no.

a good attorney would request proof from the opp. side it was you that typed it, such as a witness, there is a burden on that request. A good attorney could prove you have a virus - and thereby the pc could have been exploited. Guess what you prob. got a few and dont even know it. A good attorney would keep it out of evidence all together. Its not like you just get to say heres my 100 pieces of evidence - and its all gonna be allowed in.

I'd say without proof - you got hear-say, and thats worthless.
Not to mention just about anything you say or write can be written off as "banter" with a good attorney.

I agree. So if the attorney did ask if they were sent by me.. what would be the proper answer?

jmcb420 12-31-2008 12:00 AM

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Originally Posted by x Shady x (Post 15264480)
The person who obtained them owned the computer. The person that the messages were sent to from another source was using that computer. It wasn't a setup or anything. They had every right to look at it, but morally its wrong.

Who is the moral court judge again? lol.

That sounds pretty bad. Call these guys, a friend of mine used them here in Ohio (i'm near youngstown) and they got him off quicker then a $5 hooker:

Harshman & Gervelis Attorneys At Law
105 W Market St Warren, OH.
Phone: 330-395-3323

And I do believe these guys also work civil and criminal law in PA. Their a bit closer then philly, you may want to check them out.

WarChild 12-31-2008 12:01 AM

Why do people keep talking about using IM evidence in a divorce? Aren't most states No Fault divorce law now or do you actually have to sue for divorce and the court finds someone at fault in some of your ass backwards states?

Spieglergirls 12-31-2008 12:01 AM

If it's a Criminal case, before anyone could enter the IMs into evidence, they would have to prove that YOU sent the IMs (to the exclusion of all other persons).

Regarding Tell that to judge Judy, brown, Mathis, and that peoples court chick - all of the cases on these shows are Civil cases and have a lower threshold with respect to what may (or may not) be entered into evidence.

(BTW, the shows on TV are technically not really court cases. The participants on all these shows all consent to enter into a binding arbitration agreement with the "judge" being the final arbiter).

Phil LoadedCash 12-31-2008 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by jmcb420 (Post 15264499)
That sounds pretty bad. Call these guys, a friend of mine used them here in Ohio (i'm near youngstown) and they got him off quicker then a $5 hooker:

Harshman & Gervelis Attorneys At Law
105 W Market St Warren, OH.
Phone: 330-395-3323

And I do believe these guys also work civil and criminal law in PA. Their a bit closer then philly, you may want to check them out.

Thanks man. I am about less than a half hour from Youngstown. Hopefully they can be used in PA courts. Think they will be in on New Years Eve?

Phil LoadedCash 12-31-2008 12:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Spieglergirls (Post 15264503)
If it's a Criminal case, before anyone could enter the IMs into evidence, they would have to prove that YOU sent the IMs (to the exclusion of all other persons).

How could they prove I sent the IM's? I don't think they can. They might be able to ask my cable provide if I was online during that time, but that pretty much is it, am I right?

After Shock Media 12-31-2008 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by WarChild (Post 15264500)
Why do people keep talking about using IM evidence in a divorce? Aren't most states No Fault divorce law now or do you actually have to sue for divorce and the court finds someone at fault in some of your ass backwards states?

I think there are like 10-15 states that still have a fault divorce option but if I recall all of them also have no fault. I get confused by this too. Perhaps everyone has crazy amounts of imaginary money to defend and their prenuptial agreement has some sort of fault clause or something.

Spieglergirls 12-31-2008 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by x Shady x (Post 15264495)
I agree. So if the attorney did ask if they were sent by me.. what would be the proper answer?

Are you referring to your Attorney or the District Attorney?

Phil LoadedCash 12-31-2008 12:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Spieglergirls (Post 15264513)
Are you referring to your Attorney or the District Attorney?

The attorney I hire.

After Shock Media 12-31-2008 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Spieglergirls (Post 15264503)
If it's a Criminal case, before anyone could enter the IMs into evidence, they would have to prove that YOU sent the IMs (to the exclusion of all other persons).

Regarding Tell that to judge Judy, brown, Mathis, and that peoples court chick - all of the cases on these shows are Civil cases and have a lower threshold with respect to what may (or may not) be entered into evidence.

(BTW, the shows on TV are technically not really court cases. The participants on all these shows all consent to enter into a binding arbitration agreement with the "judge" being the final arbiter).

I was being a smart ass. It was more about gaining legal knowledge and less about the actual cases.

jmcb420 12-31-2008 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by x Shady x (Post 15264506)
Thanks man. I am about less than a half hour from Ohio. Hopefully they can be used in PA courts. Think they will be in on New Years Eve?

I dont know about the lawyers themselves being there, but i do know these guys have criminal investigators at their offices who are likely to be there.

bdld 12-31-2008 12:09 AM

the casey anthony trial will feature IM's she sent to the babys father, so we'll see how the defense handles that one.

Phil LoadedCash 12-31-2008 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by jmcb420 (Post 15264517)
I dont know about the lawyers themselves being there, but i do know these guys have criminal investigators at their offices who are likely to be there.

Thanks man. One more question not sure if you can help me with this as well.

You know.. the New Year is coming.. I want to start out fresh.. so I was thinking about reformatting my computer. Should I wait, or just go ahead and do it, since it is the New Year, and all.:winkwink:

bdld 12-31-2008 12:10 AM

and if what you did/said was legal, dont worry about it then

Spieglergirls 12-31-2008 12:10 AM

Tell your Attorney the truth if he asks you. You don't want him to get blindsided by the DA. He won't be able to divulge anything you tell him due to "Attorney/Client privilege".

Phil LoadedCash 12-31-2008 12:11 AM

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Originally Posted by bdld (Post 15264523)
and if what you did/said was legal, dont worry about it then

Just depends on what you consider legal.

Spieglergirls 12-31-2008 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by After Shock Media (Post 15264516)
I was being a smart ass. It was more about gaining legal knowledge and less about the actual cases.

I apologize.

Phil LoadedCash 12-31-2008 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Spieglergirls (Post 15264524)
Tell your Attorney the truth if he asks you. You don't want him to get blindsided by the DA. He won't be able to divulge anything you tell him due to "Attorney/Client privilege".

Thanks for all of your help.

mmcfadden 12-31-2008 12:13 AM

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Originally Posted by x Shady x (Post 15264526)
Just depends on what you consider legal.

I think it may be time to post the said IM infraction and let the judge, jury, attorney and peers at this fine board make legal and binding decisions :thumbsup

After Shock Media 12-31-2008 12:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Spieglergirls (Post 15264528)
I apologize.

No need. Just making it clear.

WiredGuy 12-31-2008 12:14 AM

If the method they acquired the data was illegal, it shouldn't be admissable.
WG

Phil LoadedCash 12-31-2008 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by mmcfadden (Post 15264531)
I think it may be time to post the said IM infraction and let the judge, jury, attorney and peers at this fine board make legal and binding decisions :thumbsup

I'm thinking about it. Don't worry.

jmcb420 12-31-2008 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by x Shady x (Post 15264520)
Thanks man. One more question not sure if you can help me with this as well.

You know.. the New Year is coming.. I want to start out fresh.. so I was thinking about reformatting my computer. Should I wait, or just go ahead and do it, since it is the New Year, and all.:winkwink:

I wouldn't be the one to ask for that. Destroying evidence can be a big mistake in the long run.

And about what you tell your lawyer...........ALWAYS TELL YOUR LAWYER THE TRUTH.

They cant defend you if you lie to them, and their paid to defend you wether or not they know you're guilty. They dont care, just tell them the truth. Thy'll probobly tell you to never repeat it again.:2 cents:

Phil LoadedCash 12-31-2008 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by WiredGuy (Post 15264534)
If the method they acquired the data was illegal, it shouldn't be admissable.
WG

Completely legal.

Phil LoadedCash 12-31-2008 12:16 AM

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Originally Posted by jmcb420 (Post 15264537)
I wouldn't be the one to ask for that. Destroying evidence can be a big mistake in the long run.

And about what you tell your lawyer...........ALWAYS TELL YOUR LAWYER THE TRUTH.

They cant defend you if you lie to them, and their paid to defend you wether or not they know you're guilty. They dont care, just tell them the truth. Thy'll probobly tell you to never repeat it again.:2 cents:

Alright thanks.


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