What do you do when you fall in love with a better woman?
 

So I give up.. my old girlfriend who I never got around to marrying (in 7 years) turned out to be a bit of a retarded bitch. She goes through all my stuff trying to find evidence that I meet other women, and last night (fri 13th) we had a big brawl because I told her I love someone else.

I met a girl not long ago, we've spent some time together, and seems like we are in love. She is a lot smarter, very pretty, younger, and has some musical talent and is really just very nice.

What should I do? Bear in mind that I'm a big fat ugly loser who should be lucky to get any attention at all from women.

You fuck her of course...

Embarrass yourself.

Sounds like she was actually pretty smart. She knew that something was up. She simply wasn't able to find evidence...

She's the same as your girlfriend.

In 7 year you'll hate her guts too.

really a question for a board full of specialists

Yeah that's a good point - but actually she DID find evidence.. except there is nothing happening yet between myself and the other girl.. Just a lot of erm.. romantic stuff.. (probably that's bad enough)

She's not the same, almost the opposite, in fact. But you could be right, yeah.

Pretty hard to come back from telling her you love somebody else. I couldn't continue in a relationship after that. If the other woman loves you in return then go with your heart but don't string along your girlfriend especially after telling her the day before Valentines Day that you love somebody else.

Things happen..people fall out of love and in love with somebody else. If you are not with the right person don't prolong the agony and on top of that miss being with the one that might be the right person.

Just take two relationships at once :)

Thanks Sarah that was really good advice.

I think this time I really will follow my heart. I feel like I'm only together with the current lady because every time we try to break up, I see how much it hurts her, and I can't resist but to comfort and try to make things better. But I think it's probably a fairly certain sign that we're not 'meant' to be together..

Relationship advice from gfy... who could know... :Oh crap

I'm fucking both of them. Next time you sniff the snatch and it smells a little bit wrong? That's my rotten seed dripping out. They are both a couple of whores. :2 cents:

shoot them both for content

Thats a hard sittuation, but you have to be sincere and be with the one you really love. :thumbsup

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Love is an illusion. It's just hormones causing temporary insanity.

fuck em all!

Just do your best....

Sucks to be you right now as it sounds as though you are in a sticky situation!
My advice to you is to let the current girlfriend go....if you have not wanted to marry her after 7 years of a relationship then it is most likely that you never will. As for the new girl in your life, I hope that you are absolutely certain that she loves you the same way as you love her. It is very easy to mistaken love when things are new and exciting. I do however have a question for you.....how do you know it is love when you have never shared an intimate moment with this new woman?

Best of luck!

They both vomit at the thought of you

You say she's young and pretty and you're a fat ass (shouldnt put yourself down like that btw) but does she love you? This new chick I mean?? If so go for it man.

Stick with the one who swallows.

You are a piece of shit for having eyes for someone else while you are still dating someone. this new girl will trap you get pregnant, dump your faggot ass and then live off your money with her biker boyfriend as you sit at home lonely wanting your 7 year ex back.

you are a piece of shit and i hope you rot. the grass is not greener on the other side, the prospect of new pussy is always fun but to toss 7 years just because some chick is giving you a little attention? shows how much of a loser you are and how little girls probably hit on you.

again you are a piece of shit and i hope you rot.

Flip a coin.

Become a polygamist...

Your old girlfriend can't be that bad if you were with her for 7 years. She went through your stuff because she knew something was going on. We are good at knowing when men are up to no good. Telling her that you love someone else was just plain mean. After 7 years you could have handled it much better.

How do you know this new girl even loves you? A lot of people think they are in love when they first get to know someone. You have that honeymoon phase where everything is great. Two months from now she could dump you for a better looking guy like you are doing to your old girlfriend. Does this newer girl know that you have had a girlfriend for 7 years? If she does, than you do not want her. Any woman that knows a guy has a girl and still dates them is a loser.

You should think it over. 7 years is a lot to give up over a women that you have known for only a few months. The new girl could be gone tomorrow, but your girlfriend has stuck around. :2 cents:

I've been in a relationship for 8+ years now. I admit that I become a retarded cunt bitch whenever I knew that my b/f is playing around. And it hurts me more if I couldn't find any evidence though I knew that there was something wrong.

For me, being honest is one good point you've done on this situation. If you really fell in love with the new one, then you need to cut all the strings you have attached with your g/f. 7 years isn't that easy to forget. You need to decide and choose.

not my business, but sounds like you're using this new girl as an emotional crutch out of your current relationship

listen to me or not, but any girl that fucks around with a guy with a gf isn't worth the time

how long you been seeing the new woman?

you may be in the first flush of love/lust before you realize they fart in bed ....

Magic 8 ball says your old girlfriend won't take you back, the new girl friend will dump you within a month, and you'll die an old ugly fat man!

J/K I just got out of a long relationship. I wasn't happy. I'm actually happy just being alone at the moment! Just do what makes you happy.