My girl wants to suck a strangers cock -- how do I manage this?
 

Do you have any experience with your girl who wants to fuck a stranger? I would love to hear how you manage this situation to maintain a healthy and stable relationship.

My girl has had only one other man besides me. She is young and in college. In all regards she is totally normal, healthy and living a typical young life with typical interests. But there is one thing thats different. Because she found porn at a very young age she has masturbated to it for half her life. This has introduced her to and helped her entertain sexual ideas that, for what I believe, a typical girl does not have: she wants to be fucked by two men at once.

Moreover, the idea of me watching her fuck or suck another man turns her on greatly.

We are close and we love each other, but she has a high sexual appetite.

We talked about me picking out a guy at the club that she can suck off in the car while I watch.

Do you have any experience with this? Can you shed some ideas how I should handle this in a safe and mature manor?

take some pics and start your own cuckold site

Start telling her about how much it woudl turn you on to have a scat orgy with 3 girls.

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and after that you go home and kiss her ? :1orglaugh:error:GFYBand:kisskiss:party-smi:bigears

"the idea of u watching her fuck another man turns her on"

dump that ho' she'll eventually cheat on u..

i see girls like urs every week at the club and its easy lay for me..

if shes out and about, and i hit on her, make her laugh, take her back to my luxury condo in a nice car, she'll fuck me

basically im saying she'll cheat on u sooner or later so dump her

So I get the impression I should NOT let this happen or say good-bye and breakup?

also all the girls that ever cheated on their bfs with me was like ur gf.. basically girls who have only been with one or two guys in their life.. so the idea of a new, funny, rich guy is too appealing to resist..

THANK YOU.
In the back of my mine I suspect this. She is a babe, too, which makes this situation even worse. :disgust

Interesting... You know your targets :p

She says your wiener is too small and loves my man cock

dude i bet $1000 if she were to come on vacation to my city, and ran into me, and i made her laugh, showed her a good time here, spoiled her a bit, she'd 100% fuck me

she already wants to fuck another guy, jeez

if my gf told me she wants to fuck someone else, it'll be the same day i kick her ass to the curb and fuck her best friend for good measure too

Here's what you need to understand...

Once you LET it happen, it will never stop.

If you DON'T let it happen, she's going to do it behind your back, and it will never stop.

So you're out either way, might as well just cut bait now.

How would you manage it?!?

Collect 25% (or more) from boths of thems! :pimp

You gots to controls yo hoes bro...

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I wanna bitch slap you upside yo muthafuckin' head for even aksking that stoopid ass question! :pimp :pimp

Now git!!! Be aksking that sheet all up in here...lawdy! :disgust

ADG

... Elaborate please. I'm listening.

Every talked to anyone that's into swinging? Those couples that only fuck others with approval of each situation don't generally cheat. In fact, they would laugh at you for trying so hard. Wanting to fuck someone else with your husband and wanting to cheat are two different things.

On the flip side. If your'e "ok"with it. What the hell.

She's already had a few cocks in her already. Whats a few more to have a good time?

Not to be a dick or nothin but being a good sport about her kinkiness might not be a bad thing.

no shit sherlock.. time for a new girl

Cut ties and become her pimp.

Then listen to this - it goes down something like this:



:2 cents:

ADG

Thats a song about oral sex. Ya, she loves it and sucks me off daily but the song does not provide any sort of guidance or wisdom to help my situation of her wanting more, wanting that thrill of the new.

Listen to it again, until you get it...otherwise, maybe all she wants is cheap thrills, in which case, sorry for you:



Otherwise, there is this alternative (j/k, I am seriously opposed to violence against women, and all people):



:stoned

ADG

If either of you are under 25 you should not be in a monogamous relationship. She's right, she should be sucking lots of cocks and you should be fucking lots of pussies.

bahahahah classic for sure...

In return ask her to find some pretty hot girl which you will fuck in every possible hole and in every possible position!

Setup a gloryhole for her.

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh... I think I get it. Your posts have all come together now. It's about having control. Non-violent control. It's about being a Man.

I do not believe she is into cheap thrills as you put it. She is clean, never cheated in her 5 year relationship. Has only been with 2 men. Does not speed. But this might be the turning point into a new chapter of her life.

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I'll be home tomorrow night, come over any time after 5pm. :winkwink:

what you said fool ? So you think no one under 25 should be in a serious relationship, muchless married ?

I think people over 50 should be in monogamous relationships with each other because that shit is just gross.

Except you're not rich. :error

:1orglaugh

Deja fucking VU

Jon Oso got this one right - if it happens - her next fantasy will be bigger and better and ruin you...

Starts out with a harmless BJ in a car with a stranger.... won't be long till you're cleaning her up from the bukake.

This is why you're so fucking stupid and I laugh at people like you.

You have zero ability to have a relationship because you think you're so awesome. I bet girls have zero interest in communicating with you because you probably don't listen.

So, your girlfriend is probably getting fucked by another guy, she's just not telling you. It's not that she's not fucking, it's that you don't know about it.

I'd much rather have a girl like the OP has that actually communicates. The fact that she's even comfortable enough to tell him that speaks leaps and bounds about their relationship.

Their relationship is far from doomed unless he takes some of the pathetic advice in this thread.

Leave it to the fucking homo to tell you how girls think. Open your damn ears and she'll tell you herself.

I'm glad everyone else called him an idiot so I don't have to. If this were him wanting a threesome and his girl being down everyone would be singing a different tune.

And baddog, I got married at 20 to a 17 9/10 year old girl. 10 years later and I wouldn't change it for the world. :2 cents:

before he knows it she will want 3 big black cocks in her ass, mouth and ear!!!

It will be like a drug for her, she will want more and more err bigger and bigger.

:repuke...

yeah!! don't listen to anything Baddog says!

Definitely possible... if she is a girl who lives for thrills, but there is no indication that she is. She does not do drugs nor drive fast.

But she does like to orgasm and thats a drug. She has a big sexual appetite and will masturbate frequently throughout the day.

Again, how do I manage this in a responsible, mature way? The only two reasonable offers have been leaving her or making her worship my cock, i.e. being stronger than her.

Uh, you either say yes or no. Perhaps even discuss it more first.

This isn't a choice for someone else to make, it's your damn girlfriend.

Tell her to keep masturbating to the porn online or on video - this way she will keep you happy also ;)

If you dump her... send her to Bali for me please. I can keep a supply of about 8 cocks a day for her.

If I were you I would stay with her. See if she can bring some hottie college babes home with her and fucking orgy.

Sounds like you need Extenze... :2 cents:

It's a choice both of us have to make. She was mature and brave by communicating her fantasy. If I simply so No and thats that, that only closes communication and will distance us. That will lead to a deterioration of the relationship.

How do I respect her openness with me while keeping the honesty flowing while still being a strong leader?

That is a reasonable short-term solution. Not sure if that is a long term solution for her fantasy will linger in her mind.

I like your style.:thumbsup

Right on the money, very well said.

Actually it's pretty stupid and inaccurate but whatever.

I've been on both sides of it in the same relationship.

My ex wanted to fuck other girls, so did I.

The first time we had rules, boundaries that wouldn't be crossed. I could get my dick sucked as much as I wanted but could only fuck her and couldn't stick my tongue anywhere except nipple. In exchange, I had to be able to participate in all of her lesbian experiences. I was like 22 so I was cool with it.

Then the rules kept disappearing, she started fucking girls on her own and when we were together I'd end up fucking girls too, which was her idea at first (kind of) and then she'd get mad that the other girls were able to get me off. Like it's my fault that fucking some random stripper doggy style while she's going down on my girlfriend who is telling me to fuck her like I hate her is a turn on.

She wanted to stop having threesomes, I wanted her to stop fucking other girls because in some flawed logic, it was only okay if I was there.

So then she threw a curveball, cheated on me with a customer, I fucked her best friend in retaliation and then she threw my Prada phone in a toilet and I haven't talked to her since.

There are so many words of wisdom in this thread, but this is probably the best advice yet. You can't turn a ho into a housewife, so you might as well have some fun and make some $ at the same time.

Donovan Phillips 2.0

thats fucked up, i wouldnt let it happen