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Well its a fact that people that were abused as children end up either being cops or joining the military to gain a sense of empowerment over their lives that was never there before. |
I figured it out,
Let the cops beat them down, throw them to the ground, tase them, and even shoot them. When they do not do what the nice officer says. To bad the Police didn't "FIND" a way to give a time out! |
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Seems your answer to everything is violence, eh? You may have spent your life scaring little kids tough guy but your drunk ass doesnt scare me. |
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Putting you on ignore, you're not worth my time |
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I take it you haven't heard of the new parenting styles like, and I shit you not, "Democratic parenting".
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the parents that beat their kids in public are always some type of mongoloid low iq retard.
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Parents who physically abuse their children should be prosecuted, have parental rights severed and the children placed somewhere so that they can be treated like humans beings instead of punching bags. Just so you don't freak out, swatting a kid's hand away from a hot stove is not physical abuse. Beating the kid with a hand, fist or belt is. |
To me it was always an extreme very last-measure, when the attempts to see how far the child can push the parent see no end and it's complete indifference to any discipline. Think it might have happened once or twice.
The riots have nothing to do with bad parenting, unless it's the kind of macho tough-ass bullshit demeanour bullies always grow into after failing the jock stage in senior high. That goes double for those who were only disciplined by spanking and other physical measures. :D |
Fiddy spanks to JFK HAH.
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I think spanking, to some degree, can be an effective form of punishment, but it's really not the best way to go about things. If the kid's completely out of control sure, maybe. But if he just did something wrong, you're better off approaching it with a more cool, but firm head.
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Its easy for people here who have no kids to chime in on the subject. Once you do let us know your thoughts....
Growing up my mom used my grandpa's army belt from WW2 to hit me when I did shit wrong and always as a last resort. Needless to say I didnt want to put my kid through that. I can count on one hand how many times I spanked my kid who is now 15. It all happened when he was young - 2-5 years old. Never to hurt him physically, more of a swat to show him I was serious and it hurt his feelings more then anything. If you are gonna spank your kids, never do it out of anger or while angry. Wait until the situation calms. If you are pissed you are going to hit him/her harder then you meant to. That is a fact! |
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My nephew tried that 'your not aloud to hit us' shit at first, but I told him flat out that I don't give a shit about the rules so you'd better listen to me when living here. I have never lifted a finger towards him but because he knows i stand my ground hard he will not even try now. It took some work though, because my sister is a SERIOUS pushover so getting them to commit to things wasn't easy. They are getting there though. |
I believe that a little tap on the ass when warranted isn't a bad thing. I also remember in grade 1, that a kid got the strap, from the Vice Principle. Just knowing that option was available to them was enough to keep most kids on their best behavior. Not too long after that though, they banned corporal punishment. That was in the 80's.
I think that a sting on the behind goes away pretty quickly, but for those 15 mins, it makes you ponder what you did wrong. The biggest issue with parents these days, is that they are far too busy to effectively parent and merely give in to their kids after the kids grind them down. Send them to their room, no problem, they have computers, gaming consoles, TV's. |
you can't?
spanking is a needed tool to discipline YOUR child/children |
Hey... thanks for the replies.
Does anybody WANT to really hit their kid? No, most don't, I don't. I am talking about the pussy whipped mentality of society today in general. If my kid misbehaves to a point I feel a smack on the ass is warranted that is what I feel is needed. Anybody who grew up before cell phones knows what I'm talking about. If your kid can't walk to the bus stop by themselves when they are 9, 10, 11 years old what the fuck are we teaching them? You teach them to be independent and smart. Shit does happen, but to constantly bask in the tragedy of the next town over and smother your kid, they will grow up introverted and without the knowledge of independence. People who object to a smack on the ass should go back to mommy and suck some booby... pussies. Harden up and don't make our next generation a bunch of wimps. |
what i really don't get is that its commonly accepted that hitting animals isn't the right way to teach them anything but hitting children is supposed to be? doesn't make sense.
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beating kids never solved anything. it just created the shit parents that raise the demons you see running wild today.
the kids today = products of their beaten parents. |
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I think you can raise a child just fine with no spankings, but it does take work and discipline. It's a lot easier to give a quick smack on the ass versus listen to your child scream for 30 minutes while they sit in the corner. The spanking argument is usually overplayed. There is a very large difference between spanking and abuse, somehow they are constantly lumped together. |
I love all the opinions of those who don't know the difference between spanking, hitting and abuse so they just lump it all into 1 category. I guess I'm just a dumb ape since I discipline my child and spank him when needed.
The lack of discipline for kids these days is a major reason for the problems with so many of them, that and every Dr is quick to prescribe drugs for any kid who may or may not have a actual medical issue which only leads to issues down the road for that child and children they will have. |
parents beat their kids all the time, just not in public that much any more.
thus explains their behavior in public = abused children. |
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But lets consider this, the ones who are now parents learned right and wrong along with respect among many other things through discipline and they went on to grow up, graduate high school, get and hold a job and basically how to be a productive member of society. Now they have kids and don't want their kids to feel the back of a hand. These are the kids that we read about today, 12 yr old kids gang raping 8 yr old kid. 13 and convicted of a triple homicide in a drive by shooting or worse yet, the victim of that homicide because they were left to make their own decisions and knew they would face no consequences from their parents or anyone else. They have a complete lack of respect for any type of authority, be it a parent, law enforcement, teacher or even the old neighbor from down the street. |
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This kind of supports my point, no? |
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Pretty much all the posts here are conveying that you should appeal to logic instead of applying feelings since we, intelligent humans can 'understand'. That's all a bunch of bullshit in my opinion. When's the last time you were able to convince a woman logically to fall in love with you ? Humans do not work according to logic, no matter how much some of you are trying to push this agenda. We work on feelings: love, hate, fear, etc. It's what we respond to the best. |
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Boy is almost 17 now and will graduate in Jan/12 6 months ahead of the normal but that took 3 years of fighting him all the way lol making a kid do 2 hrs of homework 5 days a week without caving in lol It can be done with out hitting them BUT god dam they can sure piss you off! :helpme |
I wonder how many of these posters that are against spanking have kids?
And how many that do have kids, that have them on medication or seeing a therapist? |
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I have kids and have never spanked or hit them. Kids learn to respect you by treating them fairly, hitting them just makes them hate your ass when they get older. Having said that I have to admit I do love it when some mom beats the hell out of her brat in public, doesnt happen nearly enough though. |
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The child learns that if he/she "breaks the rules", even if it is the first time the child has "broken" a rule and therefore may not have known that the rule existed, that Mommy or Daddy will kick the shit out of the child. Of course the child then holds lifelong resentments against the abuser and more than likely will become an abuser him/herself. Now THAT is "parenting" at its best! There is something inherently wrong with a society which considers "discipline" to be physical abuse. |
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