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epitome 09-17-2011 09:15 PM

Does it matter? Everybody is different. Some people never grow up, most do.

There are also plenty of happily married pornstars who treat it like the job it is.

harvey 09-18-2011 12:21 AM

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Originally Posted by porno jew (Post 18433800)

No Pathfinder in that video? :(

camperjohn64 09-18-2011 01:08 AM

I remember having an hour long phone conversation with Chloe Jones and one of the things I remember was how she said she really wanted to live to make it to 30. At the time, I didn't understand or know that she had liver problems.

She also talked about how come she never gets the good guys, since her last boyfriend had broken her arms.

jimmycooper 09-18-2011 01:23 AM

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Originally Posted by SarahLLO (Post 18434235)
This is a good post.

Thank you. You're hot!

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Originally Posted by kane (Post 18434288)
I'm sure they can. The potential problem is that now with the internet the odds are people will find out what you used to do a lot more easily and it could be a problem for your kids or potentially for your career....

Agreed. Here's an excerpt from an email I sent to someone before PWL was taken down

An angle which I feel has not received enough attention is the effect that it will have on the post porn careers of all those who are affected. It occurred to me a couple weeks ago when I was on %#%% looking for a mainstream job b/c I'm probably going to quit doing the site within the next couple of months. You can search for members by company and I searched to see if there was a member who worked for either #@$@#$@ or one of the big studios. There were two people. $%$#%%#% and one girl who's job description did not indicate 'performer. The profiles don't give a lot of info, so I Googled her because she could have possibly been someone to try to connect with in hopes of getting a good job and because I thought she was cute. When I search her name, PWL was in the #3 spot and without even clicking on the link, I was able to see her stage name in the description. I don't want to say who it was, but let's just say that she was pretty well known before retiring and, on a spectrum from an ex-performer having done a few Digital Desire photo spreads to an ex-performer having done hundreds of Evil Angel movies, she was way more towards the latter. She's obviously still involved in the industry, but she used her real name on $%$#%% for a reason and should definitely have the right to not have that information out there.

Seeing that performing careers, on average, do not last very long, I really do feel that the major negative effect of PWL is the effect that it has on the post performing careers of performers and I think there would be more success in using that as the primary argument as to why the website should be taken down. The stalker argument is overblown. Stalkers are going to stalk and there is no rhyme or reason as to how they stalk because they're fucked up in the head. I mean, Luke Walton had stalker! The existence of PWL MIGHT make things easier for a few lazy, failed stalkers, but it will DEFINITELY effect the post performing careers of hundreds or thousands of performers looking to move on with their lives and I just think that's a much stronger argument which should be used more. "

kane 09-18-2011 01:36 AM

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Originally Posted by jimmycooper (Post 18434632)
Thank you. You're hot!



Agreed. Here's an excerpt from an email I sent to someone before PWL was taken down

An angle which I feel has not received enough attention is the effect that it will have on the post porn careers of all those who are affected. It occurred to me a couple weeks ago when I was on %#%% looking for a mainstream job b/c I'm probably going to quit doing the site within the next couple of months. You can search for members by company and I searched to see if there was a member who worked for either #@$@#$@ or one of the big studios. There were two people. $%$#%%#% and one girl who's job description did not indicate 'performer. The profiles don't give a lot of info, so I Googled her because she could have possibly been someone to try to connect with in hopes of getting a good job and because I thought she was cute. When I search her name, PWL was in the #3 spot and without even clicking on the link, I was able to see her stage name in the description. I don't want to say who it was, but let's just say that she was pretty well known before retiring and, on a spectrum from an ex-performer having done a few Digital Desire photo spreads to an ex-performer having done hundreds of Evil Angel movies, she was way more towards the latter. She's obviously still involved in the industry, but she used her real name on $%$#%% for a reason and should definitely have the right to not have that information out there.

Seeing that performing careers, on average, do not last very long, I really do feel that the major negative effect of PWL is the effect that it has on the post performing careers of performers and I think there would be more success in using that as the primary argument as to why the website should be taken down. The stalker argument is overblown. Stalkers are going to stalk and there is no rhyme or reason as to how they stalk because they're fucked up in the head. I mean, Luke Walton had stalker! The existence of PWL MIGHT make things easier for a few lazy, failed stalkers, but it will DEFINITELY effect the post performing careers of hundreds or thousands of performers looking to move on with their lives and I just think that's a much stronger argument which should be used more. "

In the case of the cop in the post I made when she was 19 her mom got sick and she was in college. She had two choices. Either find a way to make enough money to help her mom out while she was in school or quit school and get a full time job. Through a series of event she met some people who hooked up with a content producer and she ended up making about 8-10 porn movies over the course of a year. She made enough to help her mom who then got better and she left the biz. Then almost 20 years later someone found out about it. She came clean. She even pointed out that she never lied about her past because she was never asked about it, but still it cost her her career. Even if she wins her lawsuit and they are forced to hire her back they will be doing everything in their power to find a reason to fire her.

jimmycooper 09-18-2011 03:20 AM

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Originally Posted by kane (Post 18434646)
In the case of the cop in the post I made when she was 19 her mom got sick and she was in college. She had two choices. Either find a way to make enough money to help her mom out while she was in school or quit school and get a full time job. Through a series of event she met some people who hooked up with a content producer and she ended up making about 8-10 porn movies over the course of a year. She made enough to help her mom who then got better and she left the biz. Then almost 20 years later someone found out about it. She came clean. She even pointed out that she never lied about her past because she was never asked about it, but still it cost her her career. Even if she wins her lawsuit and they are forced to hire her back they will be doing everything in their power to find a reason to fire her.

That's fucked up. I really hope she wins. I saw the other day that January Seraph started Adult Performers Association. Refreshing b/c I don't think there has ever been such a group. Unless you count the FSC, of course, which I don't because they kind of suck. Here's the link. http://adultperformers.org/

What kills me is how the guy who made the first post has a 2001 join date. He has absolutely no excuse to be such an idiot. The only thing I can think of is that maybe it's kind of like how when my grandparents gave me $2K to invest in the stock market when I was 8 years old. I used it buy shares for companies that made the toys, video games, and candy that I liked at the time. Probably not the wisest investment strategy, but it was still worth over $60K when I was granted access to the account after finishing college. Point being that even someone with the brain of an 8 year could have been somewhat successful in this industry if they had started at around that time.

I've only had a limited amount of interaction with girls (performers) in the industry, but most of them seem to be pretty intelligent. At least more so than the majority of mid-twenties girls that I know or have known here where I live. I certainly doubt many of them would know how to get or what to with 70,000 followers on Twitter. It's actually really funny to think about it. Porn stars are essentially running their own companies whereas many girls of the same age in my town are still getting coffee for their boss.

I don't want to judge anyone though. Maybe Dark Jedi and people who think like him just happen to live in places where the girls are more attractive, career oriented and competitive. Or in a city that is both more intellectually and more culturally stimulating than it is here. Maybe their logic can somehow be justified. I'm just not really feeling it. :2 cents:

SomeCreep 09-18-2011 03:28 AM

Yes, they settle down, have kids, make wonderful parents, and live happily ever after.

Paul Markham 09-18-2011 03:29 AM

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Originally Posted by shimmy2 (Post 18433834)
you dont work with talent and it shows :upsidedow

Exactly my thoughts.

Most on this board think they're in the porn industry because they tap on a keyboard. :1orglaugh

I think a more pertinent question is

Do webmasters in pornography end up settling down & having happy a retirement? :1orglaugh
I did. :thumbsup

CaptainHowdy 09-18-2011 07:13 AM

I don't really care what happens to them ...

Eyeball 09-18-2011 07:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Dark_Jedi (Post 18433853)
Could you imagine how ravaged and loose their vagina's would be after been fucked by that many men, and then pushing out a kid or two :(

I think you might be the forums only virgin.

Explain the difference between a woman getting fucked through out her life by one man and pushing out a kid or two to a woman getting fucked by 'many men and pushing out a kid or two'.

ottopottomouse 09-18-2011 07:56 AM

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Originally Posted by redwhiteandblue (Post 18434186)
How is that different to any other woman? Are pornstar babies bigger than normal babies?

It's a well known fact that the more cocks you've had the bigger your babies will be.


And you can't get pregnant if you keep your socks on, and you can get AIDs from a chair.

Django 09-18-2011 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by d-null (Post 18434294)
what does "getting married" have to do with having a happy life?? :helpme:2 cents::pimp

:1orglaugh

DaddyHalbucks 09-18-2011 11:59 AM

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Robbie 09-18-2011 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Dubya (Post 18434009)
Good question for Claudia Maria, she's approaching old as fuck age

She just turned 37. And her name is Claudia Marie with an "e"

I remember when I was young...37 sounded old as hell to me...but not anymore. lol

As I get older the age limit I think of as "old" keeps rising up. lol

I'm thinking that 70 is the "new 30" :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh
Wishful thinking I guess.

Just for reference: Kim Kardashian is 30, Angelina Jolie is 36, Jennifer Aniston is 42.

AmeliaG 09-18-2011 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by jimmycooper (Post 18434741)
That's fucked up. I really hope she wins. I saw the other day that January Seraph started Adult Performers Association. Refreshing b/c I don't think there has ever been such a group. Unless you count the FSC, of course, which I don't because they kind of suck. Here's the link. http://adultperformers.org/

What kills me is how the guy who made the first post has a 2001 join date. He has absolutely no excuse to be such an idiot. The only thing I can think of is that maybe it's kind of like how when my grandparents gave me $2K to invest in the stock market when I was 8 years old. I used it buy shares for companies that made the toys, video games, and candy that I liked at the time. Probably not the wisest investment strategy, but it was still worth over $60K when I was granted access to the account after finishing college. Point being that even someone with the brain of an 8 year could have been somewhat successful in this industry if they had started at around that time.

I've only had a limited amount of interaction with girls (performers) in the industry, but most of them seem to be pretty intelligent. At least more so than the majority of mid-twenties girls that I know or have known here where I live. I certainly doubt many of them would know how to get or what to with 70,000 followers on Twitter. It's actually really funny to think about it. Porn stars are essentially running their own companies whereas many girls of the same age in my town are still getting coffee for their boss.

I don't want to judge anyone though. Maybe Dark Jedi and people who think like him just happen to live in places where the girls are more attractive, career oriented and competitive. Or in a city that is both more intellectually and more culturally stimulating than it is here. Maybe their logic can somehow be justified. I'm just not really feeling it. :2 cents:


Warren Buffet says you should invest in what you like.

PromoterX 09-18-2011 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 18433874)
how many 'regular' women have banged 100's or 1000's in the clubs over the course of so many years before settling down. its not much different, only with 'regular' girls, its much easier for them to hide it.

You mean strip clubs or nightclubs? Last I checked the girls at the nightclubs athough fucking hot generally drink water all night and bullshit with their girfriends. Its a complete myth and fantasy that these hot girls are banging thousands of guys regularly. Hard to fake being a porn star!

Trend 09-18-2011 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by AmeliaG (Post 18434228)
Fucking is good for vagina muscle tone and porn stars and slutty women are more likely to do kegels as well. So I wouldn't worry about looseness, except to the extent that some porn stars are size queens in terms of their tastes in cock.

There are always tons of dudes who want to settle down with star talent I work with. Some of them make what I consider bad choices, in that they don't get that they won't be hot enough to have their pick of that caliber of men forever, so they might want to settle down early or learn how to be supportive and kind and how to, ya know, cook.

I realize I live in Los Angeles and I work on the tasteful end of the spectrum and I personally only shoot hardcore with real life sex partners, but I don't think an adult background is any more limiting in that regard than lots of other life choices.


Finally.. someone making sense.

Phoenix 09-18-2011 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Trend (Post 18435740)
Finally.. someone making sense.

She usually post good nuggets


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