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Yanks_Todd 01-22-2012 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by adendreams (Post 18704186)
HUH? bullshit. He did continue coaching after the shower incident was reported to Joe, where you getting your facts? He wasn't ACCUSED until 02 BECAUSE OF THE COVER UP!

Let me restate the FACT: Sandusky was allowed to CONTINUE COACHING after it was reported to JoePa that he had been seen molesting a naked 10 year old boy in the showers.

Letting the guy come back on that playing field after hearing this is in itself a COVER UP.

You guys coming out to defend a child rape cover up conspirator is just unbelievable.

This is odd, the indictment is where I get the 2002 date. 2002 is when the shower incident took place. This is the date that JoePa first became aware. Any sports site is where you get that he stopped coaching in 99"

JoePa was never aware of the molestations while he was a coach.

I am confused. Do you understand that 99" was before 02" or ??? is a calender what I should post.

bushwacker 01-22-2012 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Yanks_Todd (Post 18704205)
This is odd, the indictment is where I get the 2002 date. 2002 is when the shower incident took place. This is the date that JoePa first became aware. Any sports site is where you get that he stopped coaching in 99"

JoePa was never aware of the molestations while he was a coach.

I am confused. Do you understand that 99" was before 02" or ??? is a calender what I should post.

I believe he was still allowed on campus and had an office on campus.

Yanks_Todd 01-22-2012 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by bushwacker (Post 18704211)
I believe he was still allowed on campus and had an office on campus.

I believe that to. But he wasn't coaching and it's funny to see adendreams defend his slightly off facts and get so fired-up. :1orglaugh

bushwacker 01-22-2012 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Yanks_Todd (Post 18704221)
I believe that to. But he wasn't coaching and it's funny to see adendreams defend his slightly off facts and get so fired-up. :1orglaugh

Well you have to admit, being allowed on campus after what went down was fuked up.

kronic 01-22-2012 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by bushwacker (Post 18704225)
Well you have to admit, being allowed on campus after what went down was fuked up.

According to the indictment, in 2002 assistant coach Mike McQueary, then a Penn State graduate assistant, said he walked in on Sandusky anally raping a ten-year-old boy. The next day, McQueary reported the incident to Paterno, who informed Curley. Ultimately, it is alleged, the only actions Curley and Schultz took was to bar him from bringing children to the football building, take away his keys to the locker room, and report the incident to Second Mile; these actions were approved by school president Graham Spanier.

Yanks_Todd 01-22-2012 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by bushwacker (Post 18704225)
Well you have to admit, being allowed on campus after what went down was fuked up.


I totally agree. I think, and JoePa thinks as he said he should have done more. He should not have been on campus. My debate is this.

Does 60 years of unbeatable goodness get washed out with one bad call. One in which you did something, what you were supposed to, but I agree ethically not enough.

If that is true then every one of us boils down to our worst mistake. If that is the case we are all really bad people.

Do you think that is true? I don't I think we all fuck up and when you boil down JoePa the world was a better place with him in it.

Beside the people who love and would miss me, I can't necessarily say that about myself.

BlackCrayon 01-22-2012 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by kronic (Post 18704162)
A poster on GFY defining "normal". Hilarious.

What's going on in my brain is rational thinking. It's clear that isn't what's going on in YOUR brain. You'd "kick his ass". Oooh, big man. Hopefully someone doesn't say the wrong thing about you or your kids one day and just "kick your ass" based on nothing more than hearsay.

You'd call the cops and PERHAPS risk losing your job for going outside the "chain of command". I hazard to guess that MOST normal people would think of how it's going to affect them and THEIR family first and foremost if they were to lose their job. That's not to mention that this "chain of command" has served you well for most of your adult life. Why should he have questioned it now?

Make no mistake about it. If Sandusky is guilty, he should never see the light of day again. Unfortunately, the prison where he'll serve his time won't be as harsh as what he did to those children. It'd be great if it were, but it won't be.

Paterno however did exactly what he was supposed to...and a grand jury agrees with me.

Mike McQueary should of done more, he should of been expected to do more as a human being. i would risk losing my job (you can always get another...its not the end of the world) and do whatever i could to help stop a child from being victimized. i guess you wouldn't.

BlackCrayon 01-22-2012 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Yanks_Todd (Post 18704233)
I totally agree. I think, and JoePa thinks as he said he should have done more. He should not have been on campus. My debate is this.

Does 60 years of unbeatable goodness get washed out with one bad call. One in which you did something, what you were supposed to, but I agree ethically not enough.

If that is true then every one of us boils down to our worst mistake. If that is the case we are all really bad people.

Do you think that is true? I don't I think we all fuck up and when you boil down JoePa the world was a better place with him in it.

Beside the people who love and would miss me, I can't necessarily say that about myself.

uh, what have you done that was so bad? is paterno was willing to continue working with a child molester, who knows what else he might of done in the past to make that 'ok' in his mind.

kronic 01-22-2012 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 18704257)
Mike McQueary should of done more, he should of been expected to do more as a human being. i would risk losing my job (you can always get another...its not the end of the world) and do whatever i could to help stop a child from being victimized. i guess you wouldn't.

I'm glad I caught your original post before your edit...

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 18704257)
how is walking in on sandusky with a child 'hearsay'? i would risk losing my job (you can always get another...its not the end of the world) and do whatever i could to help stop a child from being victimized. i guess you wouldn't.

Your original quote of me doesn't mention McQueary at all. Because I'M talking about Paterno, I read it, as most would, that PATERNO should not only have called the cops, but kicked his ass. HE would be doing that on hearsay. McQueary would not. My reaction would be totally different if I walked IN on a guy doing something as opposed to hearing it from someone.

So don't try and tell me what I would and wouldn't do based on two ENTIRELY different scenarios that you're mixing up.

ArsewithClass 01-22-2012 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by kronic (Post 18704015)
FACT: He reported it to his superiors which is what he is required to do. People like you want him to become a private investigator. That's NOT his job. HE did what he was SUPPOSED to do...his superiors didn't. (The next day, McQueary reported the incident to Joe Paterno, who informed Athletic Director Tim Curley and Gary Schultz, senior vice president for finance and business, who oversaw the Penn State police department at the time.)

FACT: His superiors were charged with crimes and Paterno wasn't. A grand jury who heard ALL the evidence decided he wasn't guilty yet you, who's heard just the media snippets have come to the conclusion that he was part of a coverup. Thankfully there's a judicial process that protects us from people like you.

Like chinese whispers, people always claim judge & jury....

If Paterno did what he was mean't to do & was not charged, he was innocent in this situation.

We should not all be here discussing sandusky, this keeps his spirit alive & it was sandusky that was the wrong one here, not paterno... RIP.

Yanks_Todd 01-22-2012 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 18704266)
uh, what have you done that was so bad? is paterno was willing to continue working with a child molester, who knows what else he might of done in the past to make that 'ok' in his mind.

Joe Paterno did not continue to work with him after the accusation. This is a fact.

I haven't done any that bad. I think the worst thing I have done in my life was cheat on a girl who truly loved me when I was young. It hurt her badly. At that moment though I was complete scum.

Most of my life though I have been a really good, loving, compassionate and driven person.

So am I bad because of my worst moment or good because of the aggregate of my life?

BlackCrayon 01-22-2012 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by kronic (Post 18704297)
I'm glad I caught your original post before your edit...



Your original quote of me doesn't mention McQueary at all. Because I'M talking about Paterno, I read it, as most would, that PATERNO should not only have called the cops, but kicked his ass. HE would be doing that on hearsay. McQueary would not. My reaction would be totally different if I walked IN on a guy doing something as opposed to hearing it from someone.

So don't try and tell me what I would and wouldn't do based on two ENTIRELY different scenarios that you're mixing up.

oh you done got me. yeah so i mixed it up. you have a hard on for paterno for whatever reason. no one is going to feel sympathy for the guy except people who moronically live for college football.

kronic 01-22-2012 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 18704335)
oh you done got me. yeah so i mixed it up.

lol, idiot. :1orglaugh YOU fucked up and changed the entire context of your post. You got caught. Deal with it. No need to be butt hurt...

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 18704335)
you have a hard on for paterno for whatever reason. no one is going to feel sympathy for the guy except people who moronically live for college football.

I've already said I don't care about Paterno as a coach. Prior to this scandal I don't know if I'd ever heard of the guy and if I had, it was fleeting. I watch maybe 2 college football games a year. I don't think I've EVER seen a Penn State game, but who the hell knows. I've certainly never watched one BECAUSE they're in a game.

My only reason here is being a rational thinker, something you've shown you're incapable of on this topic.

Keep trying though.

Mutt 01-22-2012 02:03 PM

well he must have done something right - he was 85 and had a full head of dark hair.

what exactly Paterno was told isn't known, I read the Grand Jury report/indictment and in it if I remember correctly Paterno was told there was some kind of 'horseplay' going on in the shower with Sandusky and a boy. you can't forget Paterno's age and what generation he came from in this - sorry but you can't. things went on in society in their day and people kept their noses out of it - for example, adultery/children out of wedlock/spousal abuse/child abuse - much much different times. Most people in sports media had been calling for Penn State to fire Paterno for years - many thought he had become feeble minded.

one thing I am pretty sure of - Joe Paterno didn't know that Jerry Sandusky was a serial child rapist. he did not cover anything up.

Matt 26z 01-22-2012 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by kronic (Post 18704015)
FACT: He reported it to his superiors which is what he is required to do.

If you are a head coach and one of your assistant coaches is accused of raping a child in the locker room (and you know it's probably true), do you just report it or do you also demand his resignation?

The bottom line is Paterno knew children were being raped in his locker room and he looked the other way. This means Paterno himself was most likely a pedophile. He may or may not have ever acted on those desires, who knows.

kronic 01-22-2012 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Mutt (Post 18704360)
well he must have done something right - he was 85 and had a full head of dark hair.

what exactly Paterno was told isn't known, I read the Grand Jury report/indictment and in it if I remember correctly Paterno was told there was some kind of 'horseplay' going on in the shower with Sandusky and a boy. you can't forget Paterno's age and what generation he came from in this - sorry but you can't. things went on in society in their day and people kept their noses out of it - for example, adultery/children out of wedlock/spousal abuse/child abuse - much much different times. Most people in sports media had been calling for Penn State to fire Paterno for years - many thought he had become feeble minded.

one thing I am pretty sure of - Joe Paterno didn't know that Jerry Sandusky was a serial child rapist. he did not cover anything up.

Exactly. People seem to forget that there's a slight generation gap in thinking. Not to mention that what we're aware of as a society by comparison to yesteryear, thanks to the media (who I'm the first to criticize in many cases) is simply immeasurable.

True story...

I lived with a guy who rented out a few rooms in his house about 28 years ago. (Fuck me that I can say 28 years ago, but I digress). I befriended this guy when I was 15ish and he was about 20. I had problems at home and he was a nice guy. This is important...the guy NEVER tried anything with me.

So, after having some trouble at home I moved into his house. I was working and seeing some girl so didn't spend much time there other than to sleep. This guy had a colecovision and always had a couple of the neighbors kids over playing the game. I'd played a few games with the guy and again...he NEVER tried anything with me. I, and the others living in the house, just thought he was a nice guy. I never thought anything about it.

Fast forward about 5 years and I've long since moved out of the house. I notice on the front page of a local newspaper some guy with his hand over his face with the headline "Pedophile" or something along those lines. I can kind of see enough of his face to recognize him but I'm not sure. When I read the story, sure enough it was the same guy.

I feel bad about it to this day, but looking back don't think I or anyone else could have known. If that happened TODAY, everyone in their right mind would be calling the cops. Then again no parent in THEIR right mind would let their kids hang out with some random guy in the neighborhood.

Did I do something wrong? Was I negligent? I sleep well knowing the answer is no. If it happened today, I'd feel a LOT more responsibility because of what we know.

mozadek 01-22-2012 02:27 PM

Fuck Joe Paterno!

kronic 01-22-2012 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Matt 26z (Post 18704380)
The bottom line is Paterno knew children were being raped in his locker room and he looked the other way. This means Paterno himself was most likely a pedophile. He may or may not have ever acted on those desires, who knows.

lol congrats on the dumbest post of this thread! (Which is saying something btw)

That or a weak troll attempt.

Either way...:1orglaugh

kronic 01-22-2012 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Matt 26z (Post 18704380)
The bottom line is Paterno knew children were being raped in his locker room and he looked the other way. This means Paterno himself was most likely a pedophile. He may or may not have ever acted on those desires, who knows.

Btw, since you frequent GFY and many pictures of gay men are posted here, because you accept it, I think it's safe to assume that you're homosexual. Whether or not you've ever acted on those desires, who knows.

Tony Soundview 01-22-2012 02:50 PM

Best news i heard all day. Lets go Giants!!!! One less person i need to keep my children away from.

Yanks_Todd 01-22-2012 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by kronic (Post 18704404)
Btw, since you frequent GFY and many pictures of gay men are posted here, because you accept it, I think it's safe to assume that you're homosexual. Whether or not you've ever acted on those desires, who knows.

hahahaha, point Kronic

BlackCrayon 01-22-2012 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by kronic (Post 18704387)
Exactly. People seem to forget that there's a slight generation gap in thinking. Not to mention that what we're aware of as a society by comparison to yesteryear, thanks to the media (who I'm the first to criticize in many cases) is simply immeasurable.

so the "greatest generation" thought it was ok to turn a blind eye to child molesters? pretty fucked. so much for the idea that this generation is lacking any morals or ethics.
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True story...

I lived with a guy who rented out a few rooms in his house about 28 years ago. (Fuck me that I can say 28 years ago, but I digress). I befriended this guy when I was 15ish and he was about 20. I had problems at home and he was a nice guy. This is important...the guy NEVER tried anything with me.

So, after having some trouble at home I moved into his house. I was working and seeing some girl so didn't spend much time there other than to sleep. This guy had a colecovision and always had a couple of the neighbors kids over playing the game. I'd played a few games with the guy and again...he NEVER tried anything with me. I, and the others living in the house, just thought he was a nice guy. I never thought anything about it.

Fast forward about 5 years and I've long since moved out of the house. I notice on the front page of a local newspaper some guy with his hand over his face with the headline "Pedophile" or something along those lines. I can kind of see enough of his face to recognize him but I'm not sure. When I read the story, sure enough it was the same guy.

I feel bad about it to this day, but looking back don't think I or anyone else could have known. If that happened TODAY, everyone in their right mind would be calling the cops. Then again no parent in THEIR right mind would let their kids hang out with some random guy in the neighborhood.

Did I do something wrong? Was I negligent? I sleep well knowing the answer is no. If it happened today, I'd feel a LOT more responsibility because of what we know.
i'd agree thats its no as well. however if someone told you that he was molesting kids or something similar, would you of continued to stay there and not say anything about it? doubtful. whatever paterno did or didn't do (which i am fully able to say i mixed up in earlier posts) it seemed he felt it was in his best interest no to make much noise about it. if people want to blame that on generational things or whatever, i feel thats a cop out and just an excuse.

kronic 01-22-2012 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 18704639)
so the "greatest generation" thought it was ok to turn a blind eye to child molesters? pretty fucked. so much for the idea that this generation is lacking any morals or ethics.

Again, we disagree on what "turning a blind eye" is. If Paterno hadn't gone to his superiors then I'd say he was guilty of a cover up. Because he told someone, ANYONE, he didn't turn a blind eye.

I read somewhere, I don't recall where, that McQueary told Paterno that Sandusky was "horsing around" with some kid in the shower. What does horsing around mean? I don't even know. I'd find it strange that a man was in the shower with a little boy in the first place but imagine an 85 year old man that's PROBABLY losing some of his faculties. Ignorance? Yes. Turning a blind eye? Not in my opinion.

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 18704639)
i'd agree thats its no as well. however if someone told you that he was molesting kids or something similar, would you of continued to stay there and not say anything about it? doubtful. whatever paterno did or didn't do (which i am fully able to say i mixed up in earlier posts) it seemed he felt it was in his best interest no to make much noise about it. if people want to blame that on generational things or whatever, i feel thats a cop out and just an excuse.

Here we disagree on what defines "much noise". See post above for the same answer. I don't believe it's a cop out.

Hey, I don't know Paterno. He could have TOTALLY covered things up, but I'm not going to judge it that way based on the information I've read. But anyone that says he WAS covering things up based on what's public knowledge is simply speculating. Being adamant about it just makes them sound ridiculous and irrational because they simply don't know. Maybe it will come out in the future that Paterno hid things more than we know AT THIS POINT. MAYBE it'll come out that he did even MORE to nail Sandusky and protect the children than what we know AT THIS POINT. Neither I, nor you, nor anyone in this thread knows anything concrete other than...

He told his superiors-FACT
He wasn't indicted by a grand jury-FACT

That's all anyone knows in regards to Paterno's DIRECT actions in this matter. To me he did what he was supposed to and a grand jury saw it that way too. Anything more is speculation and defamation.

And no, I don't believe that if someone told me this guy was molesting children I'd turn a blind eye. My thought process would be to first tell the parents and make THEM aware. That's protecting the children. What I'd do after that, I can't honestly say. Call the cops? Maybe, but again, I'm going on hearsay unless I see something which would be an ENTIRELY different situation.

lol honestly thinking about it I WOULD call the police if for no other reason than to let THEM deal with it. At that point, unless I actually SEE something, it's out of my hands. Sound familiar?

Yanks_Todd 01-22-2012 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon (Post 18704639)
so the "greatest generation" thought it was ok to turn a blind eye to child molesters? pretty fucked. so much for the idea that this generation is lacking any morals or ethics.

I actually think that during the 40's and 50's the greatest generation did turn a blind eye to alot of things like this. I see where your heart is here and that is commendable (both my grandfathers were in WWII, one on D-day), but I do think there was a generational gap that plays into this.

I think the gap was more "I am the football coach and that isn't my area", which isn't right. Then him thinking it was ok.

porno jew 01-22-2012 07:46 PM

kronic you defend guys who rape little boys in the ass. why is that?

kronic 01-22-2012 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by porno jew (Post 18705032)
kronic you defend guys who rape little boys in the ass. why is that?

Even guys like you deserve a fair trial.

ArsewithClass 01-22-2012 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by kronic (Post 18704015)
And no, I don't believe that if someone told me this guy was molesting children I'd turn a blind eye. My thought process would be to first tell the parents and make THEM aware. That's protecting the children. What I'd do after that, I can't honestly say. Call the cops? Maybe, but again, I'm going on hearsay unless I see something which would be an ENTIRELY different situation.

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Originally Posted by porno jew (Post 18705032)
kronic you defend guys who rape little boys in the ass. why is that?

Why? porno jew, serious bro... that comment is not needed :(

cykoe6 01-22-2012 09:17 PM

R.I.P Joe Pa.

_Richard_ 01-22-2012 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by ArsewithClass (Post 18705083)
Why? porno jew, serious bro... that comment is not needed :(

u mean.. u don't want to read that spelled out for the third time on an adult message board?

Mutt 01-22-2012 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Yanks_Todd (Post 18704740)
I actually think that during the 40's and 50's the greatest generation did turn a blind eye to alot of things like this. I see where your heart is here and that is commendable (both my grandfathers were in WWII, one on D-day), but I do think there was a generational gap that plays into this.

I'm a kid of the late 60's and 70's and while I do believe the WWII generation was the 'greatest generation' there were a lot of victims whose cries were ignored because people were brought up to mind their own business and that included government. In my own neighborhood growing up there was a family, poorer than most in the neighborhood, where you could hear the father screaming at his wife especially on summer nights because windows would be open and sometimes you'd see her with bruises or a black eye and nobody that I remember ever called the police nor did the police ever visit their home. Which is terrible.

Now we've gone too far, the government is too involved in families' personal business, I hear ridiculous stories of kids being taken out of their homes by Child Services because the kids go to school and say they were spanked at home - teachers and coaches are afraid to discipline kids at all because they don't want to be sued. Courts now label men as 'mentally abusive' if they raise their voices to their wives.

ArsewithClass 01-23-2012 02:08 AM

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Originally Posted by _Richard_ (Post 18705274)
u mean.. u don't want to read that spelled out for the third time on an adult message board?

Sorry richard, I don't understand? What spelled out, and on what message boards?

porno jew was asking, and only once, why kronic was defending guys guys that raped guys in the arse....

It's an uncalled for comment as said :(


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