Well said!

Is this a poll?

My heart skips a beat when I hear the word marriage,dating a woman with a kid isn't too bad though

Especially if she has a nice rump... am I right?

Aside from the financial aspect, it's hard enough to raise a kid with just 2 people having to agree on how to handle things ... when there's a 3rd person who has a say in it, you know you'll frequently just get the "it's not your kid so shut up" reply from the father (and the mom will take his side).

wont stay that way for long, then what ? :winkwink:

Worked out OK for me

Would you be kind to hit me up on ICQ please?

depends.

I'm 29 yo single guy with no kids, why would I date/marry a single mom when there are so many hot women with no kids? kind of desperation... but, maybe, I wouldn't have a problem with it if I was older and had kids from other relationship.

Been there, done that. I had a step dad, we never got a long, but we were always there for each other because of respect.

I had a step kid for a while, little shit was stealing from me, even after he and his mother moved out, he got busted breaking into my house.

Bad set up

fifty whore dripping out the seed you suck up

depends on the women :2 cents::2 cents:

I've been engaged for years, but can't actually be bothered with getting married.

I could easily go the rest of my life without doing it. It's just an expensive fancy dress party to me...

I think in many cases age plays a major part in it. Young'uns in their 20's tend to prefer the girls with zero baggage, whereas the thirty-and-up crowd has a more relaxed view on the matter, generally speaking. I know I was exactly this way throughout those years.

Put it this way, if you're over 40 and single and are looking to date, unless you want to hook up with a flighty ditzy 25 yr old and have nothing in common, you've probably already found that limiting your choices to women with no kids gives you about 1/100th the options that you'd have if you were open to single moms. Because among the over 35 crowd of women out there, there are a lot of them.

Taking on the responsability of raising a kid is freaking huge. You don't understand it until you have a teenager and can look back at the past ten years. Before you have a kid, you live for yourself - you decide where and when you want to eat; Every last choice is made by you for you. When you are a parent every decision is influenced by your kid - You can't go out to the bar at 11pm to eat because you have to make sure you kid eats at 6pm and is in bed before 9pm so they are ready for school.

Weekends aren't about what I want to do, it's about what my kids plans are. If my kid has a sporting event out of town it could be an all day or all weekend event. Weekends are spent at football games and week days with school events and practice. Then you run your kid around to school events, friend's houses, birthday parties, then factor in doctors appointments, dentists... It becomes very time consuming quickly.

That's the main reason I date either younger women or tourists looking for a good time. I have never yet been in a relationship where one of the kids wasn't a nightmare personality wise and looking to me for a new car, money or an ex that wasn't a lunatic.

Maybe if I met a widow with a normal kid I would feel different.


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Who raises kids to "get credit"? If you are really good and really lucky, then you will have a deep and positive impact on those kids lives, and you will earn their love. What other "credit" are you talking about???



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1) I won't marry, living together is better.
2) Enough choice of woman without kids
3) Have you seen this?

So i prefer woman without kids.

I couldn't imagine being married or having anything to do with children on any level.

Is it even a real question? Do you mean if I had a choice to snap my fingers and either marry a woman who has a child or the same woman without? Is she fertile? Am I? What other factors are involved? This is a classic "it depends" on a million levels.

There is nothing wrong with marrying a woman who has children. There, that covers everything.

Because they get to shag the kids on the side and the mom looks the other way to avoid messing up a good thing.

If you have to marry a woman that has kids, then somewhere in life you fucked up. People that don't fuck up usually find other people who have not fucked up (at least yet) and marry them. There are plenty of good women out there that don't have kids yet, so unless you want a woman with kids, or already have kids of your own, there is really no excuse to settle for a woman with kids.

yeah depends on the kid and kids age for sure

you should hear what the kids been saying about you :thumbsup

Only losers raise other men's children.

well really the only 'fuck up' is waiting too long to find someone to 'settle down' with. women past their mid 30's without kids are typically headcases or have had some kind of crazy life.

You are pretty clueless. :2 cents:

Who "has to" get married?

Ill tell my step dad who raised me like his own son since my third. Who took care o me and made sure me and my sis go all we needed. Who was there when needed unlike my "real" dad who ive never seen again. What a loser my step dad is, geez.

Really nothing wrong with marrying a woman who has kids IMO

Tom Leykis says never ever get involved with a single mother.

Successful troll is successful.

A looser will never succeed in bringing up other man's child, its a hell of a job! :)
But if you gained that kid's respect and love he may be the most devoted and loving kid you'll ever have.

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This is true. Men and women who have waited to long to settle down are usually people who have passed up good catches in the past because every time they thought they could do better. Never realizing the people they were passing up were actually better than them. And that is a form of fucking up. And your absolutely right about bitches in their 30's.

If you marry a woman with other mans children then he might have rights to see them. That means you might have to let him into your house.

Also if you financially support this other kid then maybe you might not have enough left to support producing your own.

I think if you got kids yourself then it is okay.......

Also depends on your own age, her age, money etc etc

Is she a good girl, or is she a whore.......

Then again, you must like the girl if you are asking if you should marry her not then what is the problem.

Is there anything you know anything about?

nailed it :thumbsup

What planet are you from! - Earn their love? - Really dude ?
Cruise on down to the projects with that mentality and watch how fast you get your ass capped by those loving, darling kids.
Your ass will be laying there with no shoes, no wallet, bleeding like a stuffed pig while your lady is hitting the stem. :1orglaugh

I would I guess, I'd prefer a girl without a kid but it wouldn't be a deal breaker.