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I'm peace-maker too!:smokin

Last summer when I casually got into the biz I had a few run-ins with people on another board. It all went downhill pretty quickly and didn't do anyone any good. It's a shame.

I've spoken about the details of it before so I'll spare it now, but there were some pretty strong differences in opinion between myself, Hungryman and some of the Platinum Bucks crowd.

Since I haven't heard a peep from them. Probably for the better, although I burried the hatchet. No reason to carry a grudge for months or years.

That being said, I think I learned quite a bit from the little fiasco.
1, if someone else tries to make it personal, walk away. Keep your mouth shut, swallow your pride and move on, as hard as it may be.
2, be friendly but don't get personal. It just isn't worth it and that's not what 98% of us are here to do. If friendships emerge on the side so be it.
3, if someone does something and you like it, tell them you like it. If someone does something and you don't like it, tell them you love it (unless you can offer truly constructive criticism).
And finally 4, see #1.