I already told you before I'm pro-choice. Where do you get i'm threatened by women?

Seems a lot of these incels are a bit on the spectrum. Possibly Aspergers syndrome or high functioning autism.

Exactly! These guys need medical help.

"Involuntary celibacy" is not a medical or psychological condition. Some people who identify as incel suffer from physical disabilities or psychological disorders such as depression, autism spectrum disorder, and body dysmorphic disorder.[52] Some visitors of incel forums attribute their inability to find a partner to physical or mental ailments, while some others attribute it to extreme introversion. Many incels engage in self-diagnosis of mental health issues,[51] and members of incel communities often discourage posters who post about mental illness from seeing therapists or otherwise seeking treatment.[31][97] Some incels with severe depression are also suicidal,[26] and some members of incel communities encourage suicidal members to commit suicide, sometimes recommending they commit acts of mass violence before doing so.[31][34][81]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel

Psychologist and sex researcher James Cantor describes incels as "a group of people who usually lack sufficient social skills and...find themselves very frustrated." In social media forums, "when they're surrounded by other people with similar frustrations, they kind of lose track of what typical discourse is, and they drive themselves into more and more extreme beliefs."[98]

Women never change.
I'm an old man and I can still get 20-year-old pussy without having to pay for it.

Women are attracted to masculine strength and it's hardcoded into their genetics.

So any man that can lay waste to other men either physically or financially and can do his own roofing is going to get laid... A hell of a lot

The only thing that has changed are men. We're in a tsunami of weak ass men and fairies and women are just trying to cope and they hate men for making them adapt. It's the biggest reason why feminists are openly being stupid and allying themselves with Islam by fighting Islamaphobia. They're interested in Muslim men because they subconsciously know that those men will impregnate them and shove them back in the kitchen.



That's fucking bullshit because even the dykes want kids. To be blunt I've seen a few financially/career successful confirmed lesbos have their biological clocks start ticking the moment a powerful man took an interest in them.

Every woman wants children unless she's mentally fucked up.

please tell me you are trolling and don't actually think this way. if not trolling you're trying to place an entire gender into some monolithic category. like males want this to fulfill their lives. wtf?

I have never, ever wanted kids. I love kids, just have never once felt the bio urge to procreate. ever

some women (AND men) do, props to 'em all for continuing the species

I cannot understand babies and they aren't fun to me and I don't want to place myself second for the rest of my life to be the good mom a kid I made would deserve. I have an amazing mom (I like her as a person as much as I love her as my mom) and I know how hard she had to work and what she gave up to be that for me

she did it because she wanted to though, never once has she ever made me feel like an encumbrance on her goals or her life

it's just not in me. I'm Auntie Jess for life

I know your diaper is dirty but mommy is reading a wicked book so stop crying and let me finish my chapter first por favor

that would be me. at least a cat needing attention can just jump into your lap or spoon cuddle to get what they need. you just switch petting hand when you need to turn a page

seriously though, yeah my work is important to me but it's more than that

I can go dancing, take off to the beach, read, fly out of country for something important (happened twice this year for really not so great reasons; no more, universe- please) and not need to worry about anything but cat care. which is REALLY easy as all my friends and my husband love my cats. feed them, water them, play with them, give them treats and they entertain themselves until the humans return

kid care is a bit more complicated and they do (for all the joy they bring) stifle some options and opportunities. no way could I have done most of the things I've done in the past 10 years alone if I had a child

kidless I can do what I want, when I want. I may be fucked up in some other ways (i.e. needing people to remind/harass me to eat as I often honestly forget when I'm busy) but knowing what I'm good at and what I want is a strength. I made a good decision that I can't go back on and have never for a moment regretted making


when I got my tubes tied in my 20's my doc (a racialized woman) who gave me the referral to a doc to perform the surgery warned me that due to being a paleface with blue eyes at my age at the time he might not do it

so I brought my Indigenous mom and (at the time, now husband) Jamaican boyfriend to my consultation :winkwink:

only thing I was worried about was that the lapro surgery would go wrong and I'd end up with zipper stitches. thankfully it went well and I ended up with 2 half an inch each scars that disappeared in two years

when I get together with friends who have kids at gatherings if they are at least 8 (8-10 is my inner maturity level) I have a fucking ball. we tear shit up and then I give them back to their parents to go home and do my own stuff

I babysit a bunch of kids informally now that the building I live in is finished and full. my patio looks out onto the pool in our complex so I can work, read and supervise from 10 feet away

sometimes kids in the neighbourhood come over too. love love love the sound of children laughing and playing. most of the time they end up begging me to jump in with them

if it's not a super-crazy work day I always do =)

I lived with a kid (9) a few years back in TCI and his mom actually ended up letting go of his after school babysitter as I have always worked from home and we spent so much time together she wasn't really needed except for nights when we all went out for adult time at the clubs

kenpo wars to the death to get a snack after school, bashing each other with those spongy floaty tubes in the pool, 'tickle and dunk' when I took him to the beach almost every weekend I went, skipping in the rain belting lyrics at the top of our lungs. so much fun

kids are awesome, they just want to be and don't give a fuck

again I hope you're trolling but rich and mean men are not a prize, at least not to someone who wants a real partner and not just a good prenup that will pay them off

as to Thatcher (shudder for multiple reasons), I'm a feminist and my feminism includes men. women have partners who are males, fathers, sons, brothers, friends. what happens to them affects us. for real get out of the second wave, that ish is prehistoric

to fuck a dude he needs to be kind, hot and fun and smart. and know how to dance

that's my monolithic statement speaking for all women about all men :thumbsup

my first double post, strange. let's not let it go to waste

You're just upset cause he wrote an article about you.

I don't have to troll anyone in order to relieve boredom and if I'm online it's because I've got work to do.

When you get to my age (and I sincerely hope you do) you tend to have "heard and seen it" and very very little surprises you. What I've written here is what I've learned about how the bulk of the world works.

But once out of that "bulk" everything degenerates into various degrees of fucked in the head, weakness, and narcissism.


Right here you just teleported yourself back to the 1940s. I heard my older sister say similar. She ended up marrying an ass-ugly cop that was only marginally literate; had absolutely no sense of humor and instead of dancing he belted people. (In fact, he often said he didn't like music)

She bore the man 6 kids.

lol, not at all. highly doubt my marriage would have been supported in that era, hell in the US it would have been illegal :Oh crap

I live by what I believe. I married a man who although not the greatest dancer is everything else I described. but if me and my friends get him ahem, loose enough he hits the floor with abandon and it's awesome. he also reads more than I do if such a thing is possible

to be with a cop who abuses his badge? fucking never, no matter his or her skills on the dancefloor. with authority/power comes responsibility and could never even have a one night stand with someone who didn't understand that really important (to me) principle

not sure how old you are but my parents are in their 70's and I love how my mom has never once in all that time got stuck in her ways/cognitive modes of understanding the world around her. my dad as well but he'll trip up every now and then, for example only being outraged when my boy was often pulled over for walking while Black in TO because he's my dad's son in his eyes and no one should do that to his son

no matter how long one lives and observes the world our understanding is always inherently anecdotal and not something that can be easily extrapolated. to me you're taking the easy way out in not learning anything new that might contradict your existing beliefs

not fair to others whom you know absolutely about, but cool

free country :upsidedow

(and OneHungLow you look really good in green) :pimp

Look at those complexions. Look at the country. Look at what else they're doing (mass shooting their own kind daily, suicides daily, anti-vaxxing).

Its happening...

50 endangered species. See sig.

You should have just come out and said that you're screwed up instead of trying to get me to read your attempts at a doctoral thesis about life. I would have just ignored you as I eventually do with all the other lunatics.

At least back in the 60s I was using drugs and hippies stank worse than their annoying attempts to be philosophical.


I sincerely hope that in the 60s I was never as annoying and out of touch with reality as this newest hippie generation obviously is.

just logged in to post a song and saw this

how exactly did I screw up? I'm happy despite my flaws and faults, with a life filled with people and kittens and work (that supports the lifestyle and goals I have set) that all actually mean something to me. my life feels like a gift to me

with issues for sure like all people but have never regretted anything. for real you're perfect? with no issues whatsoever? if so high five but...no one is perfect

I'd struggle with food whether I had kids or not. at least no child of mine would ever have to see that, to download my personal database of crap into their lives.

I actually give really good advice to young girls I know who struggle with body image as I've been there so deep and know what they need to hear. and make a deliberate effort to eat around them (since they sometimes comment that I'm pretty and thin as if the two co-relate). I don't pretend to enjoy it (kids are smart so I don't even try to lie) but as a "this is a part of life" thing that is necessary and you are not defined by your shape as you see it in your head. now let's chill and digest and then go actively play

even if it doesn't resonate immediately I plant a seed, you know?

I used to babysit a very beautiful energetic young child when I was in my teens when her parents had nights out, and her mom had an eating disorder. her name began with an H so let's call her 'Helen'.

Helen was given a dinner menu for me to prepare that was less calories than what I fed my at the time very young iguana. so I'd order pizza and carry a stash of chocolate for dessert for her, every time. H was terrified her mom would find out but I always stashed the evidence next door to bring home after I left. I moved out of the neighbourhood by the time she was six but what do you think her future was when it came to food? or her sense of self outside of how she perceived her body?

'Helen' died of anorexia before she saw 30

do you think that wealthy stay at home mom doing everything you think is best was equipped to raise that child?

and what doctoral thesis? I was just writing what was in my head

stay in your lane of comfort if it's safe for you, just saying there's a lot more out there

Wonder how they came up with this 30% number?

Oh that's right, it's bunch of bullshit.

I've seen it happen many times. It's innate in women. You're denying reality and what you're here to do - make babies.

When you hit about 45 and you're single with no kids, you'll end up needing a handful of ssri's to get out of bed.

an odd post. I'm not single (not that this really means anything other than that I was lucky to find someone I could not NOT love, if not I would be happily single and having fun anyways) and surrounded by kids

and can just go for run or work/read/write/think/swim/nap whenever I want

no hate for real, how bout I hit you up in 4 years with my deep regrets and apologies for my wayward self =)

being real though I don't and have never felt I was born into this world with a specific purpose (procreating or otherwise). just trying to have fun, make enough money so I never have to rely on anyone but me, not let myself get in my way, do some good and hopefully leave this planet better than I found it

if you feel that way then a serious sincere question: what is yours?

Maybe you're the rare genetic outlier. You do agree right that it's usually innate in women to want children? If it wasn't we wouldn't be here.

Onehung is a wahhabi in a red hat.

And you're a reverse klansman in a dashiki.

I don't think I'm an outlier in this regard but tbh I have no idea. just know I have personally never wanted to be a mother. 2 of my three aunts never wanted kids either, and didn't. not a fair example though as why would they? they have/had me

seriously though native fams have a bit of a different structure when it comes to raising kids. it's not a mother/father/kids kind of paradigm

going back to outside my own experience I'm not in the head of every woman on the planet so to try to perform an analysis of their innate needs would be impossible

so yeah. dunno

you didn't answer my question though: if most women feel an innate need to make babies then what is yours? not what you want, what you like, what you want your life to be, I'm talking genetic urge. and don't say sex as that's all of us

That makes no sense. If I was a reverse klansman my kids wouldnt be half white.

Just cause I dont like racist people doesn't mean I dont like white people.

Learn the difference, and stop bullying females you coward.

Oh please dude. I don't give a fuck what your kids are you, rail against whites here 24/7.

It's pretty obvious what we're here to do. We're just organisms. It's innate in us to want to procreate. Are you denying that?

Are their illegitimacy rates high like here in the US?

not denying anything, just speaking to my experiences and asking questions. so from the above can I discern you feel an innate need to be a dad? totally cool if so, just wondering what your take is on the male side of this 'reason to exist' thing


lol, I was born 'illegitimate' (as if any child could be, that language is seriously fucked)

my parents were together for several years unmarried and I came along. born in October and they got married in December of that year as in the 70's my dad's name couldn't be on the birth certificate without being married to my mom. then they endured a very long and unhappy marriage until they divorced, took some time apart and have now been living together as happy friends and companions for years and years

but yes, I was born a proud bastardess and had the misfortune of my mom, my Nanny/grandmother, 3 aunts, 2 uncles, lots of non-bio/deep fam friends and my dad who wasn't legally recognized as my father when I was born to look out for me

it's so weird to me that relationships have to be codified in law to mean something. not talking taxes/benefits etc etc etc, just recognition of people belonging without a bunch of legal hurdles to jump to 'prove' a family exists on Eurocentric terms. not ours.

so you're here on this planet to be a dad? if so cool, I am just curious and you're not answering directly although I suspect you did in your last post

if so that's awesome. just be a good one

No, I rail against racists. Especially the ones in denial like you.

I dont have a real problem with a racist person who's honest about it. I'll disagree, but respect the honesty.

You tho, you're just a bonafide coward. Scared of your reality.

they counted all the republicans :thumbsup

notinmybackyard, do you realize that your judgment is based on a huge amount of generalizations and stereotypes which you call experience? Not all women are attracted to the alpha male type you described. It is also true that not all women are attracted to, say, men with a sense of humor. It's odd that way - we're all different, like and enjoy different things and that's sort of the beauty of it.

I don't know why you and OneHungLo are bashing Jesse. There's nothing wrong about her choice to not have children. Yes, most representatives of a species (male and female), will have an urge to procreate, and that's fine, but there is always going to be some that don't have the same urge, and that's totally fine too. You do what you want, Jesse. It's your life and your body and your time.

As to incels, sounds like they need help. Heaps of psychological trauma and self-loathing on top of fueling each other's anger isn't a sign of a healthy society or interest club. It doesn't sound like sex is what they need, they need therapy.

It seems like there is a trend of rejected Incels and misogynistic men that can't deal with strong women.

Here is were notinmybackyard and OneHungLo spend all their time. It is just jaw dropping shit.

https://gfy.com/fucking-around-and-p...0-damaged.html

I wasn't bashing her... I like her, and I wasn't really directing what I said at her, but it's true - women can claim they don't want kids but it will backfire on them. My GF has these mid 30 something childless friends and they've turned into basket cases. It's like a 20 yr old male saying he doesn't feel the need to have sex. You can't deny nature.

I don't spend anytime on anything like that because I've been in a monogynous relationship for over 15 yrs. But prior to that, I lost count after a few hundred women in my early 20s, so I've been with and around a lot of women and everything this guy says is true.

You're like one of those male feminist, huh?

https://i.imgur.com/Brf5Q6P.jpg

Maybe you need some trt?

The woman in the first video would be an incel if she was a guy.

She did a similar report on Charlottesville. She has Asperger's or something.

She doesn't see that she's the same as the incels. A symbol of an anti-fertility culture.

https://akns-images.eonline.com/eol_...put-quality=90

I’m all for women’s rights. I’m also pro-choice. I’m just not a liar.

I don't believe you. You hate White Women. Shame Shame Shame Shame #Stop the Hate