God has smote you.

You know I respect you Jman but in this one I feel differently.If she moved on she wouldnt be living in his house. Also Mark was his friend. This wasnt some stranger off the street and what did this friend do with this trust, he kept fucking her even after his friend was in pain.Didnt say Belinda you leave him move out and then we will carry on. You think she is a innocent why because she told you lol. Donnys problem was the first time she cheated on him , he bought her a car . Where he should of thrown her out because the moment he forgave her ,he was a less than in her eyes. Now I must really feel strongly about this because Im really not fond of Donny from his behavior on the boards but I understand because had my heart crushed before and until you have gone thru that its easy to make snap judgements .

Drunk or not, Donny - you revealed a serious defect in your character.

You take no responsibility for any of your actions and make no apologies for dragging Lori into this in the middle of YOUR meltdown?

It's all very childish, selfish, mean, vintictive and far from Christian.

It seems that real rational thought is beyond you grasp lately.

Go see a shrink, Donny. Talk to someone objective. NOT a pastor or priest from the XXXChruch that has ulterior motives ... go see a REAL shrink that can help you.

You sincerely need help.

:2 cents:

Life's a bitch then you die.

:1orglaugh you are pathetic.

Your woman leaves you for another guy and so you concoct this plan to tell all of GFY what a loser you are? Wow, what drama.

I've seen a lot of drunk posting, but damn yours were entertaining :thumbsup

Yes, that's how it goes :)

Happy BIrthday man.

Come up to Medford and Chill with a friend if youd like, Donny.

Ill put you up for a good time and just time away.

Your choice bud :thumbsup

Tony,

This deserves repeatiing. Belinda posted this in the original Spannow thread earlier this afternoon.

From here on in I'd take what Donny says with a grain of salt.

Sounds to me like Donny has been plaing with fire since the begining of their relationship and now wants to bend what he peceives as the truth with out putting all the information on the table.

:2 cents:

I doubt we will ever know the real truth behind the story.

And you know what she said was gospel? She said she didnt fuck him last night not ever. Takes two to make it and two to break it, the truth is in the middle.

The only people that should/will know the whole truth is donny, me and spannow.

Agreed, however - she's not the one putting Donny on BLAST infront of GFY.

My point is simple. You are playing the "understanding guy" because you've had your heart broken in the past. You are tired of seeing Donny being attacked so you're arguing on his behalf.

You are right, the truth IS somewhere in the middle and based on how Donny brought this here with threats of exposeure on his own blog ... you should see for yourself what's being said on the other side.

There's no excuse for his behavior. He's a grown man that made life changing decisions. Now he needs to live with them, He privately brought another man into his bed. It should have all stayed private.

:2 cents:

that IS a fucking excuse and if you dont realize that you reallllly need professional help dude.

My heart was broke bad when I was 25 yrs old , I had lost 100 lbs and she was the first hot girl to take interest in me. Once it was over I moved to NYC, I would stand on my friend balcony(we lived on the 31st floor) and think about how much would it hurt to jump. Spent 2 grand on phone sex lines, not jerking but talking and crying about her.So I know how crazy someone can get. I tried the friend thing with her and that was just more pain. One day I told her I never want to hear from you again and I changed. After that the first thing a girl did to fuck with me she was gone and I would get very cold. I learned never give your self respect up for anyone, I dont care how hot.

This is why I advocate drinking lager when posting, you get drunk too fucking quick on spirits! if you drunk lager like me you would make a minor tit of yourself then pass out before you do something severe

god knows the truth too

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Donny, do not listen to anyone. If my wife had pulled something similar, I would have bought a tree shredder off ebay and put it to use.

:1orglaugh

But you wouldn't have come to GFY and cried to everyone that she was a whore first.

You would have just handled your business.

I would walk away and leave it alone, it probably does seem like their is no one else, but life has alot of miracles, let it go and something great will happen, and remember time heals everything.

Donny you are a totally selfish asshole! Nice of you to ruin a family just before the christmas holiday. You called an innocent party (Lori) in the middle of the night and went off on her and confessed your perverted sick and twisted sins and for what???? You didn't hurt Mark or Belinda....she's back at home and you seem okay with this. Now that your sober you realize that you shouldn't have posted???
What about making that phonecall and fucking up someones Christmas. I'm a friend of Lori's and got the phonecall from her after yours to her. Not very cool of you dude. Think about what you've done and make restitution. Merry Fucking Christmas Asshole!!! You are a total loser. Go bury yourself in another bottle but stay off the phone next time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You really hurt people and for what???

Wow, welcome to GFY, nioce 3rd post.


:winkwink:

yea what he said + check out this personal message from Dr DRE

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As I said in Mark's thread:

Okay... let's get something straight here: I started a thread and hinted at upcoming drama. I'd already told my best friend John earlier in the evening that I was going to write the story and send it to both Mark and Belinda in a word doc and ask them if I'd missed anything or left anything out. That was as far as it was going to go. I didn't plan to make it public.

Also, I said the same thing to AaronM after he talked me out of going public with the story. I told him I was just going to threaten to do so and have some fun with it.

Mark jumped the gun and started the thread on a public board. Lori, from what I understand, reads this board. She would have seen it anyway. I called Lori to apologize to her and let her hear our side from me, because when all the "playing" started we were told she was okay with it. We later found out she wasn't aware of it but by then it had already started so we didn't stop it. I wanted her to hear that from me.

Mark, as he is good at doing, has no doubt spun this all over in several ways. The truth of the matter is that Belinda wasn't the only one. He can spin it all he wants but that doesn't account for those before nor after Belinda.

I am still very willing to tell Lori the full story and not just a few drunken rambling minutes. I'll also tell her the rest of what I know if she wants to hear it, because if I was her I'd want to know.

I really don't care if I'm seen as an ass. Why? Because I AM an ass. That's the truth. But there's a lot more to the story and if I was the woman scorned I'd want to hear it.

That Halcyon is a thoughtful and righteous guy.

Donny - people can say what they want about Crissy Moran but when she decided to leave the industry and take up her cause with the lord...she did it. She moved on with her life and got the fuck outta here. What's your excuse for still posting here?

Was this religious thing just a sham of some sort? Did you think that by leaving the industry and going religious that maybe Belinda would leave the industry and go religious with you... and that would maybe save your marriage? And since that didn't happen - your back here trying to fuck up peoples lives and reputations?

I just don't understand how a man of god can keep coming back here day after day and meddling with peoples lives. It would be different if you were here to preach to people and try to convert them...but your not. How is this healthy for you? How is this healthy for your relationship with god?

I asked one of the moderators why you haven't yet been banned. Their reply was...."he's making a complete ass out of himself - why should we ban him?" Yea - I have to agree!

What she said. The only thing in this whole ordeal that is more sleazy and morally bankrupt than this guy calling someone's wife and deliberately ruining a marriage/family for personal satisfaction, are the jack asses running to defend the girlfriend because she's 'cute' and want her attention. Pathetic.

Crissy never really posted here to begin with, and she messaged me saying she'd never return because people were horrible to her and she couldn't take it.


1st question: No, it wasn't.

2nd: We were never married.

3rd: Please notice what I wrote above - I didn't make this public. I threatened to make it public, but didn't plan to actually release the word document to anyone but Belinda and Mark. In my original thread, Will76 called it right when he said I was just blowing smoke and wouldn't actually release drama. Mark jumped the gun and starting things, which is why the thread that's currently more than 15 pages has the name S P A N N O W as the thread starter, not Donny. I'm sorry that doesn't fit with the bash Donny attitude around here, but it is indeed a FACT.

Yes, I am making an ass of myself. I can see that. However, making an ass of oneself in front of fellow asses is not really that big a deal.

No offence to Donny...However Donny's problem is that he has a history of making really bad decisions and then regretting it.

He lied to his first wife when he started doing porn.

He asked his new girlfriend to bang her ex boyfriend

He asked his friend to bang his girlfriend.

He quite pornography and lost his income.

He went to preaching the 'church'.

He got really drunk last night.

And he regretted them all.

Dude you have to think like "George Costanza" every time you think something is right, you have to do the complete opposite.

I don’t think I have ever seen a bigger loser.

Ya know, I'm really sick of people making judgment calls without being able to see the full picture. Perhaps I should release it after all, but it would probably take 10 pages at least.

Mark told us Lori knew when we started. He'd recently ceased another relationship with a woman who was not the mother of his children. That was a well known fact around the office and one Mark himself used as an example of the open relationship he had. Some people in this business have open lifestyles and we were told his was one of those. Later, when that turned out not to be the case it was already too late.

There is almost a year worth of details that you are missing. I'd recommend holding back judgment if all of the evidence is not presented. It's impossible to make an educated decision without all of the facts.

Hey Donny!

We have never met but your thread, and spin off threads have kept me occupied reading untill 05.35am!!

Firstly happy birthday to you buddie, it looks like you have had a bad run of late man! (self inflicted or not)

Now for my 2cents worth:

I think that by the sounds of things, you like to see your girls getting fucked by other guys which is fine man, whatever flicks your switch. But seeing as you are putting yourself in the weird and wonderfull world of spouse swapping, you obviously should have known the possible repercussions and half dealt with the possible bad outcome in your head,so as not to fall from to great a height if it did all go tits up.

You are one kinky motherfucker i'll say that man!

Whatever the outcome is my man, i hope you pick yourself back up and have a good life.

Forget what the haters say in here, coz as many people have said in these threads, keyboard warriors love a damsel in distress so you cant win.( a fine looking damsel i must say hehe)

anyways...all thats left is for you to go and fuckyourself now man!

merrychristmasmotherfuckers

I wasn't referring to "here" this board...I was referring to "here" this industry. She moved on - why haven't you? You didn't answer the question??? Why are you still here? Is that a difficult question for you to answer? Are you a man of god or not? No man of god would be hanging out here on a daily basis fucking with peoples lives the way you have done.

So that makes this all better? The fact that you even threatened to make it public shows what kind of man you are. Now you want to turn this whole thing around and blame it on Mark because you never really intended to make it public? What did you expect Mark to do? Just sit back and let you threaten him like you did? He did what any man would do - he cut you off at the pass.

I've met you Donny - I've never met Belinda or Mark. I would be right here supporting you on this but I think you've lost your fucking mind. I have heard so much bad shit about you over the last few years it's pathetic. How you lied to people, didn't pay people, cheated people etc..etc..etc. Is that why you lost all your clients and Belinda had to take up shooting? I've heard a lot of stuff about Belinda as well...but it's all been positive. I wish I could support you on this Donny but I'm gonna go with my gut on this one. My gut tells me that you've fallen off the deep end and there's no turning back for you. I wish you luck man...........

great post, and a great way to look at life

I respect you big time bro

Brian Bradley isn't exactly a fan. I know he talks shit about me all the time. That's okay. Ask Brian why Mutt doesn't rep him anymore. Better yet, ask Mutt to honestly tell you. Brian is not a happy person, with anyone. Oddly enough, he does happen to like Belinda. She and you are probably the only two people he actually likes.

Especially when he himself started the drama on a public board, owned by his employer, that she happens to read.

I hope this is all staged, it's just too fucked up to be real :-/