anybody got some popcorn?

I love gfy. SIG SPOT.

So if they agree then they are not the stalker, if he was so fucking crazy why did she continue to live with him after they broke up? Things that make you go hmmmm

thats weird it posted twice

If I was a stalker I'd be driving to Sacramento, which is not that far from me. I don't do that.

I have called a few times, but cell phone records would show that 90% of the time Belinda called first, usually to cry while he's at work. Later, when Mark (Spannow) is home her attitude changes and she acts like I'm harassing her.

Also, Mark's ex was calling for awhile wanting me to help her with her legal battle with him for child support, etc. I used to have photos and videos of the two of them together, that THEY shot (not me). The ex wanted those for court and guess what I did? I trashed them instead of giving them to her. I did that because I loved Belinda. Yeah, that might sound weird but it's true.

Anyway, the ex told me all sorts of things about him that scared the hell out of me for Belinda. He's not the nice guy he makes himself out to be. So I'd try to tell Belinda what I learned about him, she'd listen to me and then when he got home and she confronted him he'd smooth talk his way out of it and insist that I was crazy.

Then they fabricate bs stories to our mutual friends.

It's a mess. I've been leaving them alone but Mark obviously didn't really want that to happen. He must be really jealous or something. I've never once gone down there to see them. I've even made Belinda's deposits for her. She still has checks arrive that I have deposited for her (at HER request).

She left a truck here at my house and I can't legally do anything with it. I had to keep calling her about that because it's just sitting out there in the yard. She filed bankruptcy on it and the bank hasn't picked it up, but that is not MY problem, it's hers. I don't want the damn thing around, but she doesn't have enough respect to handle HER business and instead just lets it become my problem.

There's a lot of this BS that's been going on, but anytime I try to address it the two of them make me out to be the crazy one. It's actually that they act like teenagers and don't want to be adults. Belinda and I had our name on numerous things, together. It's been a PAIN IN THE ASS getting all that handled, because the two of them want to play games instead of signing paperwork and civilly communicating on legal issues.

you cant really stalk someone liveing with you

LOL

Was that not also a few months ago ?

All i know is when a female says someone is stalking her either:

A. He is

B. He is not and its her way of telling him to GFY either way donny needs to take a vacation and clear his head.

I know if any female accused me of that shit she would never hear from me again.

If what you posted is true which i have no idea if it is you need to get as far away from them as possible.

How much of this do you want to talk about? Seriously, it's boring. It's juvenile.

then keep it off the boards

":winkwink:

get the truck towed away you can do that, its on your property. The person who owns is doing nothing about it.

:thumbsup

or push it to the street and let the city take care of it :1orglaugh

Dont think of that good one :thumbsup

:1orglaugh I never get tired of Donny/Belinda/Spannow drama... It really is the funnest thing to happen to GFY in months :)

You are supposed to ignore them and get on with your life. You are not doing yourself, Belinds or your son any favors by tormenting yourself or others.

Climb off the cross, use the wood to build a bridge and get over it.

You think for 3 people that were on this board alot at the time, would think twice before doing what they did.Not for morality reasons but that it would wind up here lol

Last week Mark finally gave me the information I've been asking for MONTHS to receive. I should post those emails.

He mentions threats. Here's an example of one of those "threats". This is almost word for word (voicemail left for her):

"Belinda, I didn't want to call your new phone number but I have no other way of contacting you. This truck needs to be taken care of. All I need is for you to give me the bank's telephone number and the account number. Since you don't want to bug them I'll do it for you I guess. I'll call them every day until they come get it. Until then I hope you realize that you're still the registered owner and therefore legally responsible for it. I'm thinking of parking it somewhere and if I ticket results it will go on YOUR record, not mine. Let me know."

Later that day Mark finally emailed me the phone number and account number. I've been asking for that for more than 3 months.

Now imagine that same type of problem happening over and over again. Belinda and I were together almost 6 years and I thought we were going to be married and together forever. Our names were on a lot of paperwork together. And, like the truck, the two of them ignore me when I call about it and then tell their "friends" that I'm calling all the time harassing them.

Have their been personal calls? Yeah, from both sides. But not like they're making it out to be.

Your right :thumbsup Tell her dont call me or email me again,if she does email delete and if she calls hangup. Tow the truck and get a lawyer to deal with any paperwork that has to be dealt with. I had a ex that did that to me and believe me it took great strength to tell her dont ever call me again.

This thread is shit without dirty pictures.

Whats mark´s myspace? I wanna see pics of mark!

Think she broke up with Dylan awhile back. Might be single.

http://z.about.com/d/primetimetv/1/0...xfox107_72.jpg



Edit: 100 psycho ex-boyfriends...F U Buster Bunny!

Damn she was hot in that show.:2 cents:

3 self destructive tards united again... again airing dirty laundry in a public forum... again.. "its not my fault this is on a public forum"

people who are fucked in the head... seek out other people who are fucked in the head for relationships. the 3 of you need help. or 2 of you need jesus. or one of you needs a .22 and a bullet.

Most of the phone calls and messages from me were out of frustration over stuff like this. I couldn't believe they were being so juvenile. SPANNOW is older than me, yet he acts just as immature as her. Moreso, actually. Most of our issues could have been resolved with CIVIL phone calls or a face-to-face sit down. I invited Belinda to bring Mark up to Redding or for me to come down there but they both thought it would be much easier to just be ridiculously immature about it.

Yes, there was a message sent to her myspace page about suicide. I won't deny that. But I did NOT say I was going to commit suicide if she didn't respond. I told her "I tried checking into a hospital today because I was feeling suicidal. I really could use a friend to talk to". (read my blog entry that was posted today if you want to hear more about that the url is banned here, though. just do a google search for donny's ramblings). That was a HUGE mistake. HUGE. Instead, she had a good laugh with him. But I was so emotional at the time I thought she'd actually care and talk to me. I don't want her back, but needed a friend that day. Dumb dumb dumb to think she could be it, but after you're with someone so long you think they might care enough to listen when you need a shoulder, know what i mean?

Anyway, I am not saying I've not done some stupid stuff, but it is WAY overblown by these two and the things they've done.

Need a new forum section on GFY called Jerry Springer :D

Unless the breakup is mutual ex's can not be friends.

dude, at your age he being older than you is not an excuse. That only works when one party is 6 and the other is 13.

Move on.

your very right

Touché Donny! More credits to you now!

Gimme mark´s myspace now

Oh, and Baddog, you don't help much. You used to be my friend, now you're the "good ol' boy" for Mark. You know Lori, though. Ask yourself if she'd lie. Then talk to her. Don't just take Mark's word for things. Much of what Belinda tells you comes from HIS interpretation of events. He's proven that he'll lie to the woman he was with for 7 years and who bore him a son. What makes you think he won't lie to you?

are they not both is thier 30's ?

The more Donny posts, the more I'm inclined to agree with Pleasurepays. You're all fucking nuts!

All of this My Space talk has me giggling though. I thought My Space drama was for 13 year old girls arguing over who saw Bobby Simmons first.

He changed it. I took a screen shot before he did but my url is banned so it won't show. His myspace page has a pic of both of them.

It's a tough one to guess:

http://www.myspace.com/spannow

Sorry... but it was spannow that made your love triangle a public spectacle on gfy, not donny.

Donny, can you upload the screenshoot somewhere? Like on your blog or something?

You are an idiot. You have no idea what I have told Mark. I am nobodies "good ol' boy," and in fact have told him to do exactly the opposite of what he is doing.

When I tell you to move on I tell you as a friend, but because it isn't what you want to hear . . . .

do some cardio

they are both old enough to know better

Yep, I agree. We're all nuts.

I get pretty frustrated sometimes, though. One example: I messaged a friend in the business a few days before the phoenix forum. I wanted her opinion on a shirt I wore to an event we had at a church. We were civil and everything was good. Then she gets back from Phoenix and I message her. She replies telling me not to waste my breath and that she's blocking me on ICQ. I have no idea what Mark and Belinda said to her but she and her husband, who used to be my friends and would come stay at my home all the way from Florida, now will not talk to me.

That's not uncommon. Whoever Belinda and Mark talk to begin not wanting to talk to me anymore.

The only exception is Belinda's aunt. Belinda asked her to take me off her friends list and never talk to me again. She saw me after that and told me she knows I'm not crazy like Belinda tells her. She knows I'm still me, just with a broken heart. She stayed on my friends list and told me she'd still have me over for dinner sometimes.

That's Belinda's aunt, who knows me better than anyone on these adult boards. Belinda tried to get her to turn against me, but I've been nothing but good to them and she hasn't done so. Believe me, she loves her niece and will always put her first, but she just wasn't buying the whole "donny's crazy" bit that mark and belinda are trying to paint.

You must not be following along, so I'll educate you. I HAVE been doing lots of cardio (6 miles a day) and have lost 45 lbs so far. :)