Pleasurepays |
04-15-2007 09:41 PM |
SOME HELP ON RELATIONSHIPS, SINCE MANY DON'T SEEM TO GET IT
I have some sad news for you all. You are an animal. Just another baboon fumbling through life, thinking you have it all figured out.
As with any animal, our behaviors as human beings are 100% selfish in nature. You might think thats silly, but if you truly think about it, you will realize that ANYTHING you do is selfish in nature. Did you give a homeless guy money today for him... because you REALLY thought it would help him? Or did you do it because of how it made YOU feel? Why didn't you do something meaningful to help him?
Relationships are no different. Relationships are the result of a need thats just as selfish as any we have as people. Relationships are all about "what type of relationship "I" am looking for", "what "I" want in a person", "what makes "me" happy", etc etc etc. As people, we exercise little to no conscious control over the type of people you seek out for relationships. Of course we love to tell ourselves that we do. Of course you love to tell yourself that "she/he just started to change" etc. But the truth is, we seek people out based on our own twisted, selfish needs. A woman that needs to be abused, seeks out an abusive relationship. A man that had a strong, abusive mother, will generally seek out a strong and abusive girlfriend.
So do yourselves a favor. Stop defending SPANNOW, Belinda OR Donny.
Wise up.
Learn from them.
They are all fucked up people, seeking out self destructive and fucked up relationships because they can't deal with their own demons. They continue to point the finger elsewhere as a means of avoiding their own issues. Learn from it. No one "changed". No single event caused relationships to break apart. It was the result of 3 selfish, disturbed, ego driven, twisted people intentionally creating a situation where things would blow up (and note, they all seem to enjoy keeping everyones attention with it... since we ALL only know about it because its broadcast in this forum).
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