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BusterBunny 02-09-2009 07:07 PM

50......

AnniKN 02-09-2009 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Pleasurepays (Post 15463273)
seriously. when i was growing up... some people were just broken and fucked in the head and they were shunned until they came to grips with that fact. it was perfectly acceptable to point at the idiot and say "hey... look, an idiot" and the world was a better place for it.

Under this reasoning it is also ok to point at a homosexual and say "hey... look, a fag!" until they came to grips with that fact, marry and become preachers... not fair, not a solution, just easier... as long as it's happening to others, no?

Hats off to you RRRED, I must say I admire you, not just for this incident in particular, you come off as a genuinely caring and hardworking person, and that's something I really respect. :)

ExLust 02-09-2009 07:53 PM

I remember there's a movie something like that. mmmmmm...

RRRED 02-09-2009 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by AnniKN (Post 15463563)
Under this reasoning it is also ok to point at a homosexual and say "hey... look, a fag!" until they came to grips with that fact, marry and become preachers... not fair, not a solution, just easier... as long as it's happening to others, no?

Hats off to you RRRED, I must say I admire you, not just for this incident in particular, you come off as a genuinely caring and hardworking person, and that's something I really respect. :)

Haha that made me laugh... "look, a fag" can you imagine that these days?

And thanks... I DO care. I'm doing it more for his family than anything. I can't even imagine having to go through something like this as his mother or other family member and finding out that no one did anything but tell him the world would be better off without him and that he should go ahead and end his life. I couldn't live with myself if I didn't take 5 minutes out of my day to attempt to save a family of the most unimaginable magnitude of pain for a lifetime to come.

Anyways, the Las Vegas police have been called. They are taking it seriously, they have his blogs and vid, and they are going to try and track him down.

NickB. 02-09-2009 08:01 PM

pretty messed up

RRRED 02-09-2009 10:21 PM

It gets more interesting. They called back and said that there was nothing they could do since there is no proof that he is in Vegas.

So the hosting company, lunarpages.com, is the only place that would have his city so that proper authorities could be called.

I've been going back and forth on facebook with an employee there. I should post the convo cuz it's actually pretty disturbing but it's starting to look up. I'm still going round and round with her. I think she's finally seeing the light though. This world is so weird, I swear.

My guess is that if they don't act in time and he completes this, the family can sue the living shit out of them... I would think. We shall see.

Policies, procedures, and laws are so fucked. It's insane...

eroticsexxx 02-10-2009 01:18 AM

Attempted suicide and/or the threat thereof can be grounds for involuntary psychological evaluation.

Something about the way that this is being done does not have a genuine ring to it. This is not to say that all efforts to stop him are not appreciated, but it is advisable at times to be very careful of leading an unstable person into a self-fulfilling situation.

In a former career, I've handled one-on-one suicide attempts. Every serious situation had a certain air of privacy about them and the most critical ones did not alert anyone at all.

This guy appears to be an attention hog and may even go as far as cutting himself or harming himself on a superficial level if he doesn't see enough of a reaction. That is, IF he is genuine.

Worse case scenario is that if he is serious, he will leave more clues so that people can stop him. Persons like him are psychological leeches, they feed off of the need for others to help. They get their fix by manipulation and deception, knowing that there are persons who genuinely will offer their emotions. Once the trap is set, they reel their unsuspecting victims in with little more than innuendo and a bit of imagination.

My advice: Don't be a sucker. Let the police do their jobs.

RRRED 02-10-2009 02:20 AM

In his writings and in his vids he doesnt try to reach out for any help at all nor is he all "doom and gloom". This site has very few visitors. Its only starting to get out there all of a sudden. He makes it very clear that this is a storage place for his family so they understand why he "did it". He intends on emailing them right before he does it. The fact that he isn't reaching out for help at all makes me know for a fact that he has made up his mind. He's taking the last paycheck he has and drinking his ass off.

With that being said, he JUST posted a bit ago saying he's been drunk for over 60 hours in Vegas and that's why he didn't do his normal daily posting. He filmed himself across the street from the treasure island. He goes on about how all the windows are barred and it's impossible to jump anywhere. He's scoping the scene totally.

So I just got off the phone with the Vegas police and they already had all the info but now they took his description of what he's wearing today, etc and they are out looking for him. Now there is proof that he is indeed in Vegas and approximately where he might be staying. I gave them the name of the host of his site and they said they would get on it and find out his name and such so they can find out exactly where he's staying. They are looking for him as we speak.

Hopefully, he will be taken into custody and put in a hospital while his family is contacted. This might not stop him from the inevitable, but it might stop him from his current plan. I feel very good about this and I thank the guy who posted this thread. You may have saved a life, dude. Pat yourself on the back! Hopefully, we won't see any updates on his site from this point forward. That will show that he was found. Hopefully, at a later date, he will post and tell about how he involuntarily got the help he needed and is taking a new road. I hope, I hope.

We shall see! At least progress was made tonight.

Tjeezers 02-10-2009 06:49 AM

would the police really take this case serious?
We shall see, keep us updated if they call you back.

fuzzylogic 02-10-2009 07:06 AM

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Originally Posted by CaptainHowdy (Post 15460983)
Bookmarked LOL...

lmao HIGH FIVE!

HorseShit 02-10-2009 07:10 AM

I wish we could comment on the site,

I would say, "WHO GIVES A SHIT"

kmanrox 02-10-2009 08:19 AM

you ppl are fucking stupid if you can't tell he's acting on those videos lol

you are the ppl telemarketers live for

kmanrox 02-10-2009 08:22 AM

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Originally Posted by jdavis (Post 15466741)
I wish we could comment on the site,

I would say, "WHO GIVES A SHIT"

i'd ask him what it would take to help him do it NOW and not wait another 18 days or whatever

Pleasurepays 02-10-2009 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by AnniKN (Post 15463563)
Under this reasoning it is also ok to point at a homosexual and say "hey... look, a fag!" until they came to grips with that fact, marry and become preachers... not fair, not a solution, just easier... as long as it's happening to others, no?

Hats off to you RRRED, I must say I admire you, not just for this incident in particular, you come off as a genuinely caring and hardworking person, and that's something I really respect. :)

yeah.. why not... someone should say "hey look a fag"

and the fag should have the sense to say "wow.. that guys an idiot and his issues have nothing to do with me"

because ultimately, "the fag" is responsible for "the fag" and his own life and happiness - not the rest of society and the world.

happiness comes from within... not without. its not something that happens to you.

i'm not your custodian or babysitter.. if you're obese... and you're offended when i call you obese... then you need to start looking within... maybe ask yourself "wow... am i obese" instead of demanding the world change and adjust itself to your own personal sensibilities.

people need to be accountable for themselves... not demand the entire world be accountable for them, their decisions, their feelings etc.
:2 cents:

kmanrox 02-10-2009 08:26 AM

rrred, get a grip woman.. open your eyes

Davy 02-10-2009 10:29 AM

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I met some fun people and spent the last couple days just hanging out.
That sounds like a suicidal person right there.

Lamis 02-10-2009 10:56 AM

lol... how can people be so STUPID to fall in these strategies to make money??

now he will open an account in paypal to have poeple donate money..

A LOT of poeple will donate and he will SOON have 1 million in his account.

RRRED 02-10-2009 12:44 PM

If he's faking, then he's in big ass trouble.

I do have a grip. When someone has an outright plan and voices it, you're SUPPOSED TO call authorities. That's just what you're supposed to do.... not harass the dude and urge him to do it. That's just stupid.

You guys watch too many movies. If you really knew anything about the subject, you'd know that this dude is a classic case of someone who needs immediate help because he has a solid plan laid out to do it. His farewell funtime is a very very common thing that can occur right beforehand. That's a fact.

Anyways, to me it was worth a phone call. It's standard procedure. I refuse to attack and harrass a guy who is ill like that like everyone else is doing.

urb 02-11-2009 01:51 AM

Thank you RRRED for trying to help this guy. :)

If I wasn't over here in England I would have done more or less what you've done and contacted the authorities. Not sure they'd take an English guy seriously over the phone.

Thank you so much for taking the time and trouble to help someone. There's not many people who realise that we (humanity) are all in the same boat.

:thumbsup

Dirty Dane 02-11-2009 02:15 AM

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Originally Posted by JD (Post 15462641)

:2 cents::2 cents:

Jon Clark - BANNED FOR LIFE 02-12-2009 01:17 AM

His blog and website are gone..

Your Mothers Secret 02-12-2009 01:22 AM

the mystery deepens...

xsabn 02-12-2009 04:40 AM

the world gone grazy

urb 02-13-2009 03:22 AM

Anyone have an update on this?

Sam Granger 02-13-2009 03:28 AM

Account suspended...
Same goes for his youtube account.

urb 02-13-2009 03:38 AM

Ok thanks.

Anyone know if Vegas PD got him or not?

Pleasurepays 02-13-2009 06:56 AM

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Originally Posted by urb (Post 15487414)
Anyone have an update on this?

here's your update.

The world is full of idiots and misery and grief and sorrow and death and destruction. it goes hand in hand with birth, creation, joy and happiness.

accept both.

that is what the universe is.

birth and life and death and destruction or mutually dependent on each other. he is simply fulfilling his role in the universes plan for itself.

mind your own business. stop being the creepy weirdo with rescue syndrome like all the whacked out chicks that try to marry people on death row and pretending its totally normal.

a healthy behavior is to distance yourself from unhealthy behaviors. any psychologist will tell you the same. when you find yourself caring more than others about extremely unhealthy behaviors and those who exhibit them... its time to start asking "whats wrong with me".... not "whats wrong with him"


:2 cents:

kmanrox 02-13-2009 07:22 AM

lol you ppl kill me... i have 50 telemarketers right now i'd like to get you all on our list.. please make sure you're not on the DNC registry though.

RRRED 02-13-2009 07:31 AM

He still hasn't logged into his youtube since his site's been down. But I got this email on my site from a guy who has been insistant that this is a hoax. I think he's the one who got the site and blog shut down. Notice the urls of the guy "Dean" though. It is NOT the same guy. Not even close. I'd love to know if he got nabbed yet or if they thought to get his info from his site host at least. I would think this would be worth that effort at this point. Taking his site down was not the answer in my opinion. Surfers did that, not police.

Either way... if it's a hoax or a joke, he seriously needs help and I hope he gets nabbed. Here's what he sent me:

"Hi Niccole,

Found your site through Google. I want you to know that the 30daystodeath blog is fake. It?s a prank by a Belgium group called ?IPower? to raise awareness about suicide prevention.

The author of the blog goes by the name ?Dean.? Here he is on his youtube channel:

https://youtube.com/watch?v=sSVCzaeF1a4

Here is their previous ?suicide prank? from last year:

http://tania.movielol.org

Not sure what to think about all of this - it?s important to raise awareness, but this is quite an awful thing that they are doing because it makes so many people upset. I hope this helps not to worry about the blog?s author or his family.

Also, sorry about your loss."

I'll ask the lady who called originally because she gave the cops her number and they have called her back twice. The cops do have his picture from his vids and have him labeled a suicide alert if they run across him but I don't think they're making any effort to actually find him.

Fletch XXX 02-13-2009 07:33 AM

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Originally Posted by RRRED (Post 15464360)

Policies, procedures, and laws are so fucked. It's insane...

no, wanting cops to go kick in someones door for making fake internet pages is insane. :2 cents:

RRRED 02-13-2009 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Fletch XXX (Post 15487828)
no, wanting cops to go kick in someones door for making fake internet pages is insane. :2 cents:

It's not up to me to determine whether the pages are fake or not.

Any standard suicide prevention sites or tutorials will tell you straight up, if someone threatens it or has a concrete plan to kill themselves, you report it. Period. I don't see the big deal.

Fletch XXX 02-13-2009 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by RRRED (Post 15487966)
It's not up to me to determine whether the pages are fake or not.

Any standard suicide prevention sites or tutorials will tell you straight up, if someone threatens it or has a concrete plan to kill themselves, you report it. Period. I don't see the big deal.

oh my, well, you better start informing all the rape hotlines about the "sleep assault" type of sites in adult then, because its the same damn thing :2 cents:

fantasy is fantasy, stop trying to police the internet. really, trying to get cops involved is highly unnecessary. anyway, just my opinion, i laugh at the stuff not get all upset about it. its fake.

RRRED 02-13-2009 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Fletch XXX (Post 15488009)
oh my, well, you better start informing all the rape hotlines about the "sleep assault" type of sites in adult then, because its the same damn thing :2 cents:

fantasy is fantasy, stop trying to police the internet. really, trying to get cops involved is highly unnecessary. anyway, just my opinion, i laugh at the stuff not get all upset about it. its fake.

I have no idea why you would think rape is the same thing. That doesn't make sense to me.

It was posted, I read it as many others did, and did what was right. I'm not losing sleep over it or "upset". They were only informed of what was out there. They made the determination of what to do. That's what they do... "police"

Fletch XXX 02-13-2009 08:11 AM

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Originally Posted by RRRED (Post 15488030)
I have no idea why you would think rape is the same thing. That doesn't make sense to me.

because you use the excuse, "its not up to me to determine if its real or not"

that means that in regards to the rape fantasy sites, you should be reporting those too. It doesnt make sense because you dont undrstand that you are reporting fantasy to law enforcement. no different than reporting sleep assault to rape hotlines, make sense now? Thats why i brought it up.

because from my chair its all looks the same,/

RRRED 02-13-2009 08:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Fletch XXX (Post 15488037)
because you use the excuse, "its not up to me to determine if its real or not"

that means that in regards to the rape fantasy sites, you should be reporting those too. It doesnt make sense because you dont undrstand that you are reporting fantasy to law enforcement. no different than reporting sleep assault to rape hotlines, make sense now? Thats why i brought it up.

because from my chair its all looks the same,/

I understand your point, I think.

You seem to be claiming beyond a shadow of a doubt that it's fake and fantasy. I'm not because I personally know that this sort of thing can be very real and it appeared real enough to me to take two minutes to hand it over. They will do whatever it is they do.

I only know that if it were my family member, I'd hope someone would take 2 minutes out of their day to report it. Because if it DID happen, and I found out hundreds of people knew it and only laughed, I would be absolutely crushed even more. I just have a different perspective than you.

As far as rape fantasy sites, I know nothing about that. But if someone posted on gfy a guy writing a blog every day about how he plans to rape someone, I'd turn that in too if it might help prevent it.

urb 02-13-2009 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Pleasurepays (Post 15487592)
a healthy behavior is to distance yourself from unhealthy behaviors. any psychologist will tell you the same. when you find yourself caring more than others about extremely unhealthy behaviors and those who exhibit them... its time to start asking "whats wrong with me".... not "whats wrong with him"

I know exactly what's wrong with me, thank you. :) I have a detailed diagnosis, but my intention here was to save a life, as someone did for me a few years back when I was off my head during a psychotic episode. I saw the opportunity to help because I know just what a shitty place he's in.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fletch XXX (Post 15488009)
fantasy is fantasy, stop trying to police the internet. really, trying to get cops involved is highly unnecessary. anyway, just my opinion, i laugh at the stuff not get all upset about it. its fake.

If it's fake then he's taking the piss out of people who suffer with mental health. It's no joke, as I'm sure you know. :2 cents:

SilentKnight 02-23-2009 07:23 PM

Ya'll might want to check out the 30daystodeath website one final time.

Turns out its all one big movie prequel hoax by an actor named Layton Matthews.

The businessman in me thinks - nice piece of near-viral web marketing.

In ways...it was similiar to the original radio broadcast of Orson Welles' War of The Worlds (think about it).

Anal Hobbit 02-23-2009 07:56 PM

I just forwarded this thread to some of my Muslim Friends.
They are looking for a few people just like him.

Anyone know if he knows how to drive a truck?

d-null 02-23-2009 08:03 PM

RRRED kudos to you for doing something about it and if it is a hoax or a marketing scam, there should be some kind of mischief charges to the people that perpetrated it. :2 cents:

minddust 02-23-2009 08:44 PM

I'm sending him a truckload of cow dung. What a fucking piece of stinky shit.

http://www.shitsenders.com/order/

pornask 02-23-2009 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by minddust (Post 15541128)

LOL :1orglaugh:1orglaugh:thumbsup


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