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baddog 04-19-2009 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by DirtyDanza (Post 15761396)
blah blah blah... the old man speaks.... I am far from all talk.... if my dog bit you id be the first to take my dog out... no matter what you did to my dog....

So why didn't you show up when I was in Vegas? I was disappointed.

DirtyDanza 04-19-2009 06:27 PM

I don't wan an assault of the elderly charge on me nor do I want be arrested....

WarChild 04-19-2009 06:27 PM

One of the nice things about Canada is we don't have idiots like Danza walking around with guns.

WarChild 04-19-2009 06:28 PM

Wow you mean after all that tough talk Danza didn't show? Who'd ever have guessed that outcome?!?

cykoe6 04-19-2009 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Justin (Post 15761099)
Punish him for protecting himself and her?

Agreed. The dog reacted as it is supposed to. People should watch their fucking kids.

DirtyDanza 04-19-2009 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by WarChild (Post 15761419)
Wow you mean after all that tough talk Danza didn't show? Who'd ever have guessed that outcome?!?

tough talk and being smart are 2 different things... ill back up anything I said to baddog but I will not go to jail for him.. and once I hurt him.. thats right were id be going.... if he wants to see me in action he knows ill be at the show in june if he feels froggy he can leap towards me and ill show him some pain... then I won't go to jail for defending myself

cykoe6 04-19-2009 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by DirtyDanza (Post 15761102)
good thing your dog did not bite my kid it would have been a dead dog on the spot... I have a pit bull and a chow and you can litterally jump on both dogs and they would not bite.. I can take both dogs off the leash any where.. If my dogs so much as growl at me or any one they would be dead dogs... That's bad ownership to let your dog bite anyone and yes it's owners fault.. I've bred dogs (rotties) and you could jump on them as well... I use what's called beat the sense into the way... A dog who does not fear a human has a shitty owner...

Christ you are a fucking idiot. :321GFY

MediaGuy 04-19-2009 06:36 PM

Did AdultFiendFinder issue a statement?

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WarChild 04-19-2009 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by DirtyDanza (Post 15761427)
tough talk and being smart are 2 different things... ill back up anything I said to baddog but I will not go to jail for him.. and once I hurt him.. thats right were id be going.... if he wants to see me in action he knows ill be at the show in june if he feels froggy he can leap towards me and ill show him some pain... then I won't go to jail for defending myself

Why is he going to jump at you? You were the one that was going to beat him up, remember? Oh well it's pretty much par for the course for you. Between the lies and the threats and the boasting I don't know how you keep one story straight from another. You should seriously get some help.

You're pretty much the village idiot here on GFY and considering the competition for that job that's really saying something.

NinjaSteve 04-19-2009 06:43 PM

Sounds like a rough experience for everybody. Good luck with things.

DirtyDanza 04-19-2009 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by WarChild (Post 15761436)
Why is he going to jump at you? You were the one that was going to beat him up, remember? Oh well it's pretty much par for the course for you. Between the lies and the threats and the boasting I don't know how you keep one story straight from another. You should seriously get some help.

You're pretty much the village idiot here on GFY and considering the competition for that job that's really saying something.

last I recall I never started anything... I remember saying to him after he was running his panzy mouth that I just MAY slap the shit outta him.. next thing I know he was all about challenging me then he's the one that posted a tombstone with my name on it.. I'd love to see him try to put me in a grave.... would be a funny as sight... shit id like to even see him try to talk bad to me during the show... ill show him that baddog is nothing but a toy poodle...

get your stories straight dood... sometimes I think you have selective reading....

gandalfuy 04-19-2009 08:23 PM

My dogs bite a young boy in the beach when he was little, like 2 years old.

We where afraid because Barrabas could do it again. Luckly us, it looks like he understood it was wrong, he didnt do it anymore till noew, hes 9 years old.

My house is by the beach and the dog sometimes still goes by himself to take a bath :)

So... you should watch over your dog and see if he does it again. Then, if he is dangerous, i dont know, if its not safe... lock him up 4 ever ?

baddog 04-19-2009 08:29 PM

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Originally Posted by DirtyDanza (Post 15761513)
last I recall I never started anything... I remember saying to him after he was running his panzy mouth that I just MAY slap the shit outta him.. next thing I know he was all about challenging me then he's the one that posted a tombstone with my name on it.. I'd love to see him try to put me in a grave.... would be a funny as sight... shit id like to even see him try to talk bad to me during the show... ill show him that baddog is nothing but a toy poodle...

get your stories straight dood... sometimes I think you have selective reading....

I called you a pussy.
You said you were going to slap me the next time you saw me.
I told you how to find me.
I even left messages here when I went to a different club.
You no show.
You tough talker.

hershie 04-19-2009 09:03 PM

I have concluded that Danza has tried hard to create a brand image to get attention and he is making it up as he goes along to maintain the brand. If not and that is really the way you are, then GFY you prick :321GFY

DirtyDanza 04-19-2009 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog (Post 15761644)
I called you a pussy.
You said you were going to slap me the next time you saw me.
I told you how to find me.
I even left messages here when I went to a different club.
You no show.
You tough talker.

I will be at the show in june.. you can call me a pussy then sound fair... your man enough to talk it on the boards see if you will say it to me

baddog 04-19-2009 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by DirtyDanza (Post 15761709)
I will be at the show in june.. you can call me a pussy then sound fair... your man enough to talk it on the boards see if you will say it to me

Make sure you introduce yourself. I could not pick you out of a lineup and I hate hearing how I intentionally avoided someone.

JaneB 04-19-2009 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Porn Producer (Post 15761253)
also, the little girl has received huge psychological trauma from your dog's attack, and she will be afraid of dogs for the rest of her life.

Perhaps that girls parents should have been watching her. Just as dogs need to be supervised so do kids. :2 cents:

JaneB 04-19-2009 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Loryn (Post 15760885)
I was at the park sitting down with both dogs and this little girl came by on her scooter with her brother and just her luck and my luck, she fell with her scooter, right in front of me onto the cooler I had and Lars got her. She had a puncture wound on her side and either his front teeth or his claws got her back. It happened so fast. I couldn't believe it. Thankfully the mother and the people were on a church outing and she was very cool about everything. They called Animal Control and got all my paper work on Lars, and the mother kept saying it's okay, it's happens, she startled him when she fell, it's an accident. The Lord works in mysterious ways, etc?I was crying thinking Lars was going to be taken from me, and upset hoping the little girl wasn't traumatized. They were all very nice, and the animal control guy said that out of the 80,000 bites from dogs that happen a year this is not a bad one, that Lars was provoked by the scooter and the little girl falling where she did. The friends of the mother of the little girl were very nice saying they just want to make sure Lars is clean and had all his shots. I told them he just had surgery and was tested for everything. He has his rabies shot that are good for 3 years. I just couldn't believe it. This guy, who was not with the group of people, came over to me and started yelling at me, saying who brings a dog like that to the park that would jump on a little girl. I told him, he didn't jump on her she fell right in front of me onto my blanket and he reacted. I couldn't believe that guy. I was crying already and then he comes over yelling. If the mother and the little girl were not right there I would have laid into that guy, but I was way to upset.

Lars is going to k-9 training now. That is a huge NO to me. I do not like dogs like that, even though he was startled it doesn't matter, he is smart enough to know the difference. So I am looking for K-9 training in Vegas. I know they have two great ones in LA but I haven't found one in Vegas yet. I think Cop K-9 training would be best for him because they train him in everything, from making them not react to little dogs and cats, to all commands.

Anyway, I wanted to share what happened because I am just a nervous wreck. I can't believe that happened. I was watching her come by and thinking Oh God Lars is going to bark now is good time to make him sit and not bark, and he did, he didn't bark or anything, but right when she went down and the cooler and scooter went over, he pounced!!! :(



I am sorry to read that Loryn. I know how much you love Lars. I have read some of the postings and in no way is Lars dangerous. He was enjoying a nice day and he was startled. He did what a lot of dogs would do when they are scared. I am sorry that he bit that little girl. Kids are not very good at watching their surroundings. You are not 100 percent responsible for what happened. It was an accident. If Lars wanted to he could have really done some damage to her. Also that guy that came up to yell at you is an asshole. Stupid fucks like him need to get bit.

k-9 training will be good for Lars. I am putting Lola in training too. She loves humans but she is aggressive toward other dogs. She bit a dog at the dog park. Lars may also like agility training as well. It is a great way to keep him in shape and let him burn off some energy.

I know thta you feel bad, but it really was an accident. The little girl is ok and so is Lars.

LadyMischief 04-20-2009 04:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Loryn (Post 15761077)
Yes I have already called a place and told them I need him trained NOW!!! I am so sick with stress over the whole thing. I feel so bad for the little girl, and the Mom was so cool, when the Animal Control guy asked her, she even told him in the report that she fell onto our area and the cooler, the dog was startled. So that made me feel better that she was calm and told the guy that it was an accident, and the girl's brother said the same thing too. He even pointed to the scooter and said she fell onto where the dog was and the dog was startled. The mother also said that the little girl has had all her shots, and she is on antibiotics for something that is not related to this in anyway and told me that everything will be fine. I hope so, I wish I could call her and find out how she is, I know she is going to have a big huge bruise!!!

First off YOU NEED TO RELAX!! You are projecting your stress, upset and tension to the dog, not to mention thinking in your mind that he's a bad dog and shouldn't have done that, and all that is goign to do is stress him out, confuse him, scare him, and he is more likely to follow instinct again. What your dog did was a natural, instinctive prey reaction, and be hella glad the people were calm. In fact the mother and the little girl were the ONLY ones acting correctly in this scenario, being calm. You can literally leave permanant mental scars on your dogs if you don't move past the incident and back into positive mind territory, and you will never allow your dog to move past the incident either! Remember, PACK LEADER mentality. A pack leader doesn't get stressed out, weep, cry or get upset, in fact, in a dog that is already unsettled from something like this, that is the WORST THInG YOU CAN DO fOR YOUR DOG! Get the mental image of him hurting the little girl OUT OF YOUR HEAD, and start thinking about how you WANT your dog to behave. The training in this instance MUST start at home! PACK LEADER, babe, calm, assertive, but most of all CALM!

If you can't calm yourself down, now is the time to send the dog somewhere else and take some time to colllect yourself. He needs to look up to you, and right now you are an unstable factor in his home pack. It's these kind of situations where a dog will step forward and try to take the dominant position. If you want even a SHRED of his respect left for you, buck up, get over it, and move into training with POSITIVE thoughts in your head not negative thoughts about what you don't want him, but a mental picture of how he SHOULD behave. SUPER important. The WORST thing you should do in a case like this is lose your cool.

LadyMischief 04-20-2009 04:53 AM

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Originally Posted by JaneB (Post 15761781)
Perhaps that girls parents should have been watching her. Just as dogs need to be supervised so do kids. :2 cents:

Absolutely they do agreed 100%. Any parent not controlling their children around a strange dog is as much at fault as the dog if something happens.

LadyMischief 04-20-2009 04:55 AM

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Originally Posted by JaneB (Post 15761814)
I am sorry to read that Loryn. I know how much you love Lars. I have read some of the postings and in no way is Lars dangerous. He was enjoying a nice day and he was startled. He did what a lot of dogs would do when they are scared. I am sorry that he bit that little girl. Kids are not very good at watching their surroundings. You are not 100 percent responsible for what happened. It was an accident. If Lars wanted to he could have really done some damage to her. Also that guy that came up to yell at you is an asshole. Stupid fucks like him need to get bit.

k-9 training will be good for Lars. I am putting Lola in training too. She loves humans but she is aggressive toward other dogs. She bit a dog at the dog park. Lars may also like agility training as well. It is a great way to keep him in shape and let him burn off some energy.

I know thta you feel bad, but it really was an accident. The little girl is ok and so is Lars.

Yep time to train your dog, but also time to take the leadership position in your pack. No dog that is properly "led" will act aggressive to other animals, and that is a huge indication of an issue that has been left undealt with.

pornguy 04-20-2009 04:58 AM

Hate to say this, but you better find a good attorney FAST.

pornguy 04-20-2009 04:59 AM

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Originally Posted by LadyMischief (Post 15762443)
Yep time to train your dog, but also time to take the leadership position in your pack. No dog that is properly "led" will act aggressive to other animals, and that is a huge indication of an issue that has been left undealt with.

Not true.. Dogs are still some what wild and they WILL defend themselves if they feel they have no choice. Alpha male available or not.

LadyMischief 04-20-2009 05:07 AM

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Originally Posted by pornguy (Post 15762452)
Not true.. Dogs are still some what wild and they WILL defend themselves if they feel they have no choice. Alpha male available or not.

Nothing to do with alpha male whatsoever, in fact most dog packs are maternally led. Dogs will NOT defend themselves if they don't percieve a threat. Loryn's dog is recovering from surgery, and she has a nervous personality, he's automatically going to jump to his defense and hers in a percieved threat (which is what this was). If a dog does not percieve a threat, they will not attack, period. Loryn's best bet is to work on her own insecurities first, they will filter down to the dog via her calm-assertive leadership, and he will not feel the need to protect her from all threats. Take it from someone who's been training dogs her whole life, including "aggressive" breeds such as Rottweilers, Pit Bulls, and Timberwolf-crosses.

Loryn 04-20-2009 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by LadyMischief (Post 15762458)
Nothing to do with alpha male whatsoever, in fact most dog packs are maternally led. Dogs will NOT defend themselves if they don't percieve a threat. Loryn's dog is recovering from surgery, and she has a nervous personality, he's automatically going to jump to his defense and hers in a percieved threat (which is what this was). If a dog does not percieve a threat, they will not attack, period. Loryn's best bet is to work on her own insecurities first, they will filter down to the dog via her calm-assertive leadership, and he will not feel the need to protect her from all threats. Take it from someone who's been training dogs her whole life, including "aggressive" breeds such as Rottweilers, Pit Bulls, and Timberwolf-crosses.

You are totally right!!! The whole time I was at the park I always had in the back of my mind Lars reacting to someone, because of the way guys where coming up to him. I was truly amazed at how many guys would walk up to me and say beautiful dog and then go to put their face in his face. It was like they were trying to prove they were tough by showing they have no fear of my dog. I was on guard the whole time. When the little girl was coming by on her scooter, the first thought I had was him barking at her and I wanted to train him not to bark at people when they come by, then BAM she fell and fell right onto the cooler and blanket, it was like nightmare, and he bit her. I didn't sleep at all last night, I just kept thinking about the whole thing. Odd I come on here and the first post I read is yours and you saying what I was thinking about all night. It has opened my eyes big time. I kept thinking, how do I, let go of being nervous with him now that fear is even bigger. I need some serious help with me, he will be fine. If I don't change my head, Lars won't change at all. Oh I just want to cry!!! It's so frustrating now. He is such a good boy and he didn't do anything but react to what he saw as a threat. My nervousness throughout the day is what made him on edge. I started telling guys you can?t pet him because he is in training. I know the energy from those type of guys was not good either. Lars picks up on shit I don?t, but he never bite any of them. Maybe I stopped him before he could, because I watched his eyes, ears, and stance. When the little girl came by he didn?t like the scooter, but his body was sitting behind me, his head next to my shoulder. That is how close she fell to us, and the cooler and the scooter made him just react. God I do not wish this on anyone ever!!! :(

Loryn 04-20-2009 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by JaneB (Post 15761781)
Perhaps that girls parents should have been watching her. Just as dogs need to be supervised so do kids. :2 cents:

The little girl?s older brother, who was about 10 or 11, was watching her. He was walking behind her as she was riding the scooter. He started crying hysterically when he saw the wound on her side, which I then was trying to calm him because he was making her more upset. The little girl kinda stopped crying when I calmed him but then he really started freaking out again because his little sister was hurt. I didn't blame him at all. He was a baby himself. I felt so bad for him too. I put Lars in the truck so I could comfort them because I knew with animal control coming and my being so upset it would have just made him even more upset. When they found Mom she was amazing. She grabbed the little girl and said look at me look at me, you are fine, and I swear I almost answered her and said yes I am fine. She was that good. I wanted to crawl on her lap and fall asleep too. The Mom just kept saying it was an accident the dog was startled and she is going to be okay. She said all she cared about was the dog had all her shots, and the little girl has had all of hers, and she was on antibiotics so she will be okay. It is kinda surreal now!!!

LadyMischief 04-20-2009 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Loryn (Post 15763665)
You are totally right!!! The whole time I was at the park I always had in the back of my mind Lars reacting to someone, because of the way guys where coming up to him. I was truly amazed at how many guys would walk up to me and say beautiful dog and then go to put their face in his face. It was like they were trying to prove they were tough by showing they have no fear of my dog. I was on guard the whole time. When the little girl was coming by on her scooter, the first thought I had was him barking at her and I wanted to train him not to bark at people when they come by, then BAM she fell and fell right onto the cooler and blanket, it was like nightmare, and he bit her. I didn't sleep at all last night, I just kept thinking about the whole thing. Odd I come on here and the first post I read is yours and you saying what I was thinking about all night. It has opened my eyes big time. I kept thinking, how do I, let go of being nervous with him now that fear is even bigger. I need some serious help with me, he will be fine. If I don't change my head, Lars won't change at all. Oh I just want to cry!!! It's so frustrating now. He is such a good boy and he didn't do anything but react to what he saw as a threat. My nervousness throughout the day is what made him on edge. I started telling guys you can?t pet him because he is in training. I know the energy from those type of guys was not good either. Lars picks up on shit I don?t, but he never bite any of them. Maybe I stopped him before he could, because I watched his eyes, ears, and stance. When the little girl came by he didn?t like the scooter, but his body was sitting behind me, his head next to my shoulder. That is how close she fell to us, and the cooler and the scooter made him just react. God I do not wish this on anyone ever!!! :(

Well babe you have the right idea. You have to change the vision in your head. In a sitauation like that, you have to picture the BESt possible scenario, Lars sitting beside you quiet and obedient like a good boy, and eventually that will be the reality. Dogs are very much animals that live in the moment, and the energy you give them will be what they take into these situations. if you are in a stressful situation (unfamiliar surrounding, loud noises, etc) it's super important to be stoic and mellow, that will give your dog the security it needs to deal with the situation. You can do it, it takes time and effort but I can tell you love him a LOT and you want that vision for yourself anyways. Keep it up, you do the right thinig to admit the issue and now you just have to make a plan to enact it. You two will be fine :) I would suggest also a "gentle leader' to take him on walks. Gives you COMPLETE control of his head, not to mention the ability to control his jaw at all times. It applies pressure at the back of the neck if they pull or you apply pressure, in the way another dog would in a teaching way.

http://www.mightypets.com/gentle-leader.asp

Go to classes with Lars, it may also help give you both the confidence to overcome things together. :)

RyuLion 04-20-2009 11:05 AM

you need my homie to train you and your dog..
http://homepage.mac.com/ron_james/ib...gwhisperer.jpg

Dirty F 04-20-2009 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by DirtyDanza (Post 15761102)
good thing your dog did not bite my kid it would have been a dead dog on the spot... I have a pit bull and a chow and you can litterally jump on both dogs and they would not bite.. I can take both dogs off the leash any where.. If my dogs so much as growl at me or any one they would be dead dogs... That's bad ownership to let your dog bite anyone and yes it's owners fault.. I've bred dogs (rotties) and you could jump on them as well... I use what's called beat the sense into the way... A dog who does not fear a human has a shitty owner...

You fucking inbreed moron.

Huggles 04-20-2009 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by WarChild (Post 15761129)
I'm not going to argue with you Danza. I actually think you're retarded and I see no point in trying to argue with you. I just wanted to point out that I actually really do feel sorry for your children. They're going to grow up as messed up and stupid as you are and it's a shame in this day and age.


Hahahaha

Dirty F 04-20-2009 11:15 AM

Dirtydanza you're seriously the biggest fucking moron on this board. I don't have a clue how people can stand you in real life. You're such a pathetic piece of shit. Fucking inbreed trailer trash of the worst kind. I'm not the type of guy who would normally say this but since you love to talk shit like this i'm gonna do it anyway. I hope sometime soon someone beats the stupidity out of you and punches your teeth out so you can shut your big fucking mouth for once. You fucking deserve it. Plus then you will realize that you're not a some kind of fighting machine like you think you are. I bet a 15 year old kid could beat the crap out of you.
Fucking faggot piece of shit.

Dirty F 04-20-2009 11:17 AM

It's fucking disgusting that he has children. Can you imagine what will become of them. I seriously would love to see his kids get taken away from him so they maybe can have a decent future.
Inbreed thrash like him shouldnt be allowed to have children in the first place.

Raf1 04-20-2009 11:20 AM

it's good to hear the parents were normal about it. These things happen and it's not anyones fault. It was just an accident

Loryn 04-20-2009 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by LadyMischief (Post 15762433)
First off YOU NEED TO RELAX!! You are projecting your stress, upset and tension to the dog, not to mention thinking in your mind that he's a bad dog and shouldn't have done that, and all that is goign to do is stress him out, confuse him, scare him, and he is more likely to follow instinct again. What your dog did was a natural, instinctive prey reaction, and be hella glad the people were calm. In fact the mother and the little girl were the ONLY ones acting correctly in this scenario, being calm. You can literally leave permanant mental scars on your dogs if you don't move past the incident and back into positive mind territory, and you will never allow your dog to move past the incident either! Remember, PACK LEADER mentality. A pack leader doesn't get stressed out, weep, cry or get upset, in fact, in a dog that is already unsettled from something like this, that is the WORST THInG YOU CAN DO fOR YOUR DOG! Get the mental image of him hurting the little girl OUT OF YOUR HEAD, and start thinking about how you WANT your dog to behave. The training in this instance MUST start at home! PACK LEADER, babe, calm, assertive, but most of all CALM!

If you can't calm yourself down, now is the time to send the dog somewhere else and take some time to colllect yourself. He needs to look up to you, and right now you are an unstable factor in his home pack. It's these kind of situations where a dog will step forward and try to take the dominant position. If you want even a SHRED of his respect left for you, buck up, get over it, and move into training with POSITIVE thoughts in your head not negative thoughts about what you don't want him, but a mental picture of how he SHOULD behave. SUPER important. The WORST thing you should do in a case like this is lose your cool.

I know I need to stay calm, which is why I got away from him at the park after the bite. I played with him when I got home because I knew that was the only way it was going to take my mind off of it when I was around him. I grabbed him so hard when he bit her and he was head down, ears back, nervous licking me like sorry Mommie, or I didn't know Mommie, after I let him up. I didn't hit him or anything because hitting him is not going to help him, it just going to confuse him. I put him down on the ground. That was just my reacting to him. Then I put him in the truck and ran to the kids and tried to comfort them until Mommie came up. Like I posted before she was amazing. The good thing that came out of all of this is I now fully understand my nervousness with Lars. I just avoided situations, like not taking him out around people. When I take him for walks I take him where no one is ever around, and that is avoiding the situation, because I was afraid of exactly what happened, but only I thought it would have happen to a guy not a little girl. But to Lars he doesn't know the difference. Poor guy, I so thought I had a handle on my big dog, because I am strong and dominating, but it is a totally different way of being to truly control your animal. I have a lot of work to do with him, well with myself first!!!

When we are at home, or in a field or at the lake, he obeys me totally. But at home or out in a field or at the lake, where no one is around, I am not nervous or thinking he is going to bite anyone, and that is probably why his listens to me the whole time. When we get out he feels that I am worried or nervous and he goes into protective mode!!!

The Duck 04-20-2009 11:32 AM

Sounds like an unstable dog. Dogs are not supposed to do anything like that in any circumstance. Then again shit happens.

Loryn 04-20-2009 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by RyuLion (Post 15763756)
you need my homie to train you and your dog..
http://homepage.mac.com/ron_james/ib...gwhisperer.jpg

I know if I could get him to come over Lars would be in great shape!!! There is just no way to get him. I have tried for my other German Shepherd who is afraid of everything. I would give anything for him to take her to the center for a month so she can remember what it is like to be a dog. Lars helps her a lot but she needs a lot more, poor girl. Now I really need Cesar!!!

Loryn 04-20-2009 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Raf1 (Post 15763811)
it's good to hear the parents were normal about it. These things happen and it's not anyones fault. It was just an accident

Yes it truly was an accident, but it could have been avoided if I was a little more in tune with my emotions around Lars. He reacted, to her falling onto our area, but it wouldn't have happened if I was stable in my mind. I walked around with him for about an hour before I put down the blanket and sat with him. During that hour I was on edge with guys coming up to him and I know he picked up on that!!!

Huggles 04-20-2009 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Dirty F (Post 15763793)
Dirtydanza you're seriously the biggest fucking moron on this board. I don't have a clue how people can stand you in real life. You're such a pathetic piece of shit. Fucking inbreed trailer trash of the worst kind. I'm not the type of guy who would normally say this but since you love to talk shit like this i'm gonna do it anyway. I hope sometime soon someone beats the stupidity out of you and punches your teeth out so you can shut your big fucking mouth for once. You fucking deserve it. Plus then you will realize that you're not a some kind of fighting machine like you think you are. I bet a 15 year old kid could beat the crap out of you.
Fucking faggot piece of shit.




WOW! Dirty F laying the SMACK down!

LadyMischief 04-20-2009 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Loryn (Post 15763848)
I know I need to stay calm, which is why I got away from him at the park after the bite. I played with him when I got home because I knew that was the only way it was going to take my mind off of it when I was around him. I grabbed him so hard when he bit her and he was head down, ears back, nervous licking me like sorry Mommie, or I didn't know Mommie, after I let him up. I didn't hit him or anything because hitting him is not going to help him, it just going to confuse him. I put him down on the ground. That was just my reacting to him. Then I put him in the truck and ran to the kids and tried to comfort them until Mommie came up. Like I posted before she was amazing. The good thing that came out of all of this is I now fully understand my nervousness with Lars. I just avoided situations, like not taking him out around people. When I take him for walks I take him where no one is ever around, and that is avoiding the situation, because I was afraid of exactly what happened, but only I thought it would have happen to a guy not a little girl. But to Lars he doesn't know the difference. Poor guy, I so thought I had a handle on my big dog, because I am strong and dominating, but it is a totally different way of being to truly control your animal. I have a lot of work to do with him, well with myself first!!!

When we are at home, or in a field or at the lake, he obeys me totally. But at home or out in a field or at the lake, where no one is around, I am not nervous or thinking he is going to bite anyone, and that is probably why his listens to me the whole time. When we get out he feels that I am worried or nervous and he goes into protective mode!!!


You hit the nail on the head babes.. now that you know, you can counteract it ;) Expose him slowly to more situations and soon he will be right as rain :) stay calm and he will follow suit :)

Jman 04-20-2009 12:42 PM

Hey Loryn, I feel for you and hope all goes well with Lars... Next time you have something dear to your heart, share it on facebook... There is way to many Morons on GFY who just can't wait to highjack and thread or just be what they are... Fucking Morons!!!

Phoenix 04-20-2009 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyMischief (Post 15762433)
First off YOU NEED TO RELAX!! You are projecting your stress, upset and tension to the dog, not to mention thinking in your mind that he's a bad dog and shouldn't have done that, and all that is goign to do is stress him out, confuse him, scare him, and he is more likely to follow instinct again. What your dog did was a natural, instinctive prey reaction, and be hella glad the people were calm. In fact the mother and the little girl were the ONLY ones acting correctly in this scenario, being calm. You can literally leave permanant mental scars on your dogs if you don't move past the incident and back into positive mind territory, and you will never allow your dog to move past the incident either! Remember, PACK LEADER mentality. A pack leader doesn't get stressed out, weep, cry or get upset, in fact, in a dog that is already unsettled from something like this, that is the WORST THInG YOU CAN DO fOR YOUR DOG! Get the mental image of him hurting the little girl OUT OF YOUR HEAD, and start thinking about how you WANT your dog to behave. The training in this instance MUST start at home! PACK LEADER, babe, calm, assertive, but most of all CALM!

If you can't calm yourself down, now is the time to send the dog somewhere else and take some time to colllect yourself. He needs to look up to you, and right now you are an unstable factor in his home pack. It's these kind of situations where a dog will step forward and try to take the dominant position. If you want even a SHRED of his respect left for you, buck up, get over it, and move into training with POSITIVE thoughts in your head not negative thoughts about what you don't want him, but a mental picture of how he SHOULD behave. SUPER important. The WORST thing you should do in a case like this is lose your cool.

dog whisperer..lol

JaneB 04-20-2009 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyMischief (Post 15762443)
Yep time to train your dog, but also time to take the leadership position in your pack. No dog that is properly "led" will act aggressive to other animals, and that is a huge indication of an issue that has been left undealt with.


I agree with you 100 percent. I have tried to take control and she is a stubborn one with me. She listens to Greg. She was 4 when I adopted her and she was already aggressive. The vet put her on anxiety meds and that does help. Now she and I both need to be trained by the k-9 trainer.

JaneB 04-20-2009 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyMischief (Post 15762440)
Absolutely they do agreed 100%. Any parent not controlling their children around a strange dog is as much at fault as the dog if something happens.


I am amazed at how many parents will let their kids walk up to a strange dog. Kids walk up to my two dogs all the time and just start to touch them. Thankfully Lola and Husker like kids but it is still not safe to do that.

SleazyDream 04-20-2009 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Loryn (Post 15763880)
I know if I could get him to come over Lars would be in great shape!!! There is just no way to get him. I have tried for my other German Shepherd who is afraid of everything. I would give anything for him to take her to the center for a month so she can remember what it is like to be a dog. Lars helps her a lot but she needs a lot more, poor girl. Now I really need Cesar!!!



as a dog owner I can see why you're soo scared


you know, more and more they are looking for HOT dog owners on that show. it MIGHT be worth it to TRY and get him, you may have a shot.

there are tons of professionals out there though that can do what ceazor does.


but who am I to talk, skufty munches on everyone..........

I feel for you hun. it's a scarry situation and one that isn't really the dog's fault

LadyMischief 04-20-2009 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Phoenix (Post 15764270)
dog whisperer..lol

Lol I don't know about that, but anyone who's met my dogs can attest to their behavior. :)

LadyMischief 04-20-2009 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by JaneB (Post 15764432)
I am amazed at how many parents will let their kids walk up to a strange dog. Kids walk up to my two dogs all the time and just start to touch them. Thankfully Lola and Husker like kids but it is still not safe to do that.

Ya no kidding. My children are trained to ask any dog owner they see if it's safe, and to present themselves in a non-threatening way to any new dogs they meet. Children who are informed are children who are much safer. Many dog attacks could be prevented if more people did that kind of thing.

Loryn 04-20-2009 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream (Post 15764463)
as a dog owner I can see why you're soo scared


you know, more and more they are looking for HOT dog owners on that show. it MIGHT be worth it to TRY and get him, you may have a shot.

there are tons of professionals out there though that can do what ceazor does.


but who am I to talk, skufty munches on everyone..........

I feel for you hun. it's a scarry situation and one that isn't really the dog's fault

I would do anything for him to come over for sure!!! Thank you Sleazy, that means a lot coming from you!!! :wetkiss

Skufty can bite me anytime he likes!!! :thumbsup

Loryn 04-20-2009 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Jean-Francois (Post 15764189)
Hey Loryn, I feel for you and hope all goes well with Lars... Next time you have something dear to your heart, share it on facebook... There is way to many Morons on GFY who just can't wait to highjack and thread or just be what they are... Fucking Morons!!!

Thank you my French lover!!! I didn't even think of posting something like that one Facebook, I really need to spend some more time on those sites!!! :upsidedow

Some people need to read what we have been saying to each other and see that beating anything into submission is not truly being in control. If you have no respect you have nothing!!! :thumbsup My ex-husband is an MMA fighter and he is in control of himself and he earns respect by the way he behaves. He would never demean himself by forcing someone to submit to him by force, well except in the ring but that is where you do that, not to dogs, or girls, or children, or anything else in the world!!! That is also what makes him so hot!!! True power is something you have inside. If you have to walk around trying to prove it then you don't have it!!! :thumbsup

Meeper 04-20-2009 03:21 PM

You should consider yourself INCREDIBLY lucky the parents didn't press any charges. One of my friends was bitten by a dog when she was like 6, and shes still collecting the checks from the dogs owner (shes now 23). :Oh crap

Loryn 04-20-2009 06:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Meeper (Post 15764834)
You should consider yourself INCREDIBLY lucky the parents didn't press any charges. One of my friends was bitten by a dog when she was like 6, and shes still collecting the checks from the dogs owner (shes now 23). :Oh crap

I hope I do and I hope the little girl is okay too!!! :(


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