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Originally Posted by Amputate Your Head
(Post 17331790)
I don't care. As long as they are intelligent. I can't stand to listen to stupid people speak for more than a minute. Why is it that most of the "super beautiful" people are also the fucking dumbest?
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I agree, depends on the definition of "super beautiful" though, for me Cate Blanchett, Juliane Moore or Ellen Barkin are super beautiful, I endorse originality and unconventional beauty, well ok I love the Sharon Stone type too
Not cheap bimbo types that can't tie their shoes, although those are also ok if you're in the "mood" to play with them.
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Originally Posted by MetaMan
(Post 17332214)
you are not wrong, you are just a complete idiot. when someone is as fucking stupid as you are you cant really call them "wrong" because they do not know any better.
1. my ideal woman is someone who is confidant in who they are. someone who doesnt constantly need to add or subtract shit or ask their bimbo friend or mother for advice. this includes dying there hair a different color 5x a year trying to look like a celebrity.
2. knows how to have fun and DOES NOT take life in general seriously. only takes things that are most important seriously.
3. NEVER had plastic surgery
4. whos mother is NOT their best friend.
5. entrepreneur personality who is a go getter and preferably NOT from a rich family.
6. someone who is confidant in the sheets and doesnt lay around like a sprained duck.
7. i need someone full of soul, full of life, down to try things.
8. does not act like every down part of life is the end of the world and be depressed eating ice cream for a week.
look i know most people are complete fucking losers. it is fact. they are just in relationships because they do not want to be alone. i get in relationships because they can be fun. not to fill some void a lot of you losers have.
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Confidence, that's the key, I want a woman that's comfortable and confident, that's it, it took me a long time to build my confidence and I am absolutely not interested to be bothered by any form of primitive, insecure manners.
Like all those "I don't talk to you" bullshit - I never got it - if there's a problem I always thought you're supposed to actually SOLVE it and not to "not solve it" and fuck with the other one?
I don't know where does this idiotic mentality come from, I sure never saw that at home, my mother never was primitive like that.
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Originally Posted by MetaMan
(Post 17332296)
wtf is with you weak minded people who always think people are looking for the "right girl" or the "right guy". i dont dive into societies pressures of getting married and popping out brats. it is pure bullshit and just set up to make someone money off YOU being weak minded.
money on rings
money on wedding presents
money on baby clothes
money on school for the brats
the list goes on and on. half you idiots get into massive debt just to have a wedding because it is the "thing to do".
that is why the divorce rate is so high.
i worry about impressing myself not weak minded people and meeting societies bullshit standards.
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Exactly, I know so many like that, immature, inexperienced, fucked up relationships - and what's interesting it's always the most "dull" and unoriginal people getting married early, like there's something to gain for them.
In two years a divorce comes up and they can't stand each other, they should realize that BEFORE the wedding though.
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Originally Posted by MetaMan
(Post 17332296)
Wrong. The divorce rate is so high because people are simply incompatible with others. Even the people that have been married 40 years will tell you, it's a lot of work & compromise. Think of it like this.... spend every single day with your best male buddy, on the notion that you'll be doing it for the rest of your life, and see how long it takes to get into an argument. Share a bank account with him and see how long money "issues" pop up. Some choose to work through those times, others divorce. It has nothing to do with the cost of the wedding.
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Very true and a great analogy, I believe that you need someone that's very close to you, in her views, humor, interests, values PLUS you still need to be very tolerant cause people go sideways time from time.
Love is not enough.
